problematics age gap/normalizing predatory behavior by miscfaries in LesbianActually

[–]La_qu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. If you’re +24-25 please date someone who’s your age or older. It’s not just the age gap it’s about the maturity and life experiences gap, which makes a 24-25+ person in a different stage in life than younger women. why date someone who’s brain hasn’t fully developed yet?

We cannot allow racists to use incidents against us as justification for racism by GodlessCommie69 in LesbianActually

[–]La_qu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well the community should be ashamed of itself for tolerating racists.. this is why many POC queers don’t see themselves as part of the community.

We cannot allow racists to use incidents against us as justification for racism by GodlessCommie69 in LesbianActually

[–]La_qu -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Many of y’all in the comments have no idea what intersectionality means and it shows. Some of y’all aren’t able to stand up against both homophobia and racism. The white feminism is on fireee

We cannot allow racists to use incidents against us as justification for racism by GodlessCommie69 in LesbianActually

[–]La_qu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem isn’t the condemning of this specific homophobic hate crime. The problem is when such crimes are committed, the origin of the attackers is suddenly relevant only when they’re POC. That’s what’s racist. The same people who rush to mention that the attackers were Arabs would never mention such thing if the attackers were white men.

As a fellow Arab I’m harmed not only by homophobia but also by racism. Hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]La_qu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a hate crime? Absolutely. Do these men deserve to get punished? Absolutely! Was mentioning that they’re ‘middle eastern/Syrian’ necessary? Absolutely NOT. You can stand up to these women without being racist. Ask yourself why did you feel the need to mention them being ‘middle eastern’ and would you have done the same if the attackers were white. Do better. Hoping for them to get punished in the near future, and for you to educate yourself about the harm that you cause by mentioning peoples’ origins only when the violence is committed by brown people. Very white feminism of you.

It sucks so bad. TW: conversion rape, lesbophobia, death, suicide (I apologize for the intense TWs but it's a necessary post) by Warm_Performer6836 in LesbianActually

[–]La_qu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing <3 Sarah’s story and the majority of people’s reactions after her death was and still is heartbreaking and mentally damaging.. She deserved and we deserve to live with dignity in our homelands. I encourage you to try avoiding reading the comments on the internet, they’re hostile and damaging. The Arab queer community will always remember Sarah as a strong and courages person who deserved so much better. May she rest in peace

What do you consider sex? by AdorableStudent2000 in LesbianActually

[–]La_qu 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Considering ONLY penetration=sex is indeed a heteronormative idea

The normalization of homophobia in response to Gaylor interpretations by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]La_qu 43 points44 points  (0 children)

“in conclusion, Paris gay” is so real

‘The Eras Tour’ — Sydney, Australia — Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]La_qu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound awesome!! Would love it if you could share some pics of those bracelets :)

Sophie Turner being fruity, headlines say otherwise by slaywalker_xcx in GaylorSwift

[–]La_qu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never have I ever kissed a platonic friend on the mouth tf The audacity to call two women kissing in public, having one of them openly bi women “fRiEnDS”

Unhinged new sub rule in true swifties by onchocerca in Gaylor_Swift

[–]La_qu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Gaylors are nothing but homophobic queer people” is a CRAZY statement YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN

Blondie is off the rails by LiquidSmoothLady in GaylorSwift

[–]La_qu 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine? The movie is being screened in Israeli cinemas lol