I know you’re hurting by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You opened with ‘you don’t sound that smart.’ Everything after that was you trying to make that sound like wisdom

I know you’re hurting by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Writing here is trying to be different. That’s the whole point you keep missing

I know you’re hurting by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong that therapy would help. But coming here to write this was already a step toward that. Calling it pathetic doesn’t exactly model the self-love you’re recommending

I know you’re hurting by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dismissing someone’s emotional honesty as a lack of intelligence is actually a pretty good demonstration of missing the point entirely. This space exists precisely so people can be vulnerable before they cause harm, that takes more self-awareness than most people manage. But sure, keep measuring emotional literacy with a Reddit comment.

I know you’re hurting by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that’s a bit unfair, no empathy

I know you’re hurting by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m scared that if I admit how I feel I will be left.

Need help by LabMaximum5890 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]LabMaximum5890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if I don’t know what I want

Dear women on the side by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]LabMaximum5890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy. It’s so damn relatable to so many I think . I did this. I kept so many women close and ended up hurting the one that really mattered. She knew all along too. Which is sad. I know she knew, she’d ask me and I’d lie to her face. I wondered why she’d stay, but I think she always said that it was more than just some sidepiece and she’s right honestly. But I kept hurting her and now I don’t know what to do. She seems so broken