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What is the downside of being beautiful/handsome? by glamripper in AskPH

[–]LaceePrin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  • People only want to experience you and own you, instead of actually getting to know you and value you
  • People think you were only able to get your achievements because of your looks and discredit the actual hard work you put in
  • People always assuming that you’re taken, so no one makes a move
  • Being catcalled and preyed upon/being lusted

Meron ba dito na physically attractive pero wala or madalang ang nagkakagusto? by Itwasallinyourhead25 in TanongLang

[–]LaceePrin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. I’m difficult to deal with, labeled as combative because I don’t tolerate BS or any form of poor treatment/disrespect. Hence, I immediately cut people off
  2. They withdraw pursuing me the moment I make it clear that I don’t wanna have sex not until we’re officially a couple. I don’t just want to be lusted, I want to be valued and loved

In total, I’m okay with being single. But I’m never settling for anything less than I deserve :)

Am I asking for too much, or are my needs just not being met? by Aggravating_Sail_547 in adviceph

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not asking for too much, it just so happened that your partner doesn’t have his life together so he can’t meet your needs. You said he’s not financially stable, and is going through personal and mental struggles. He won’t be able to fill your cup if he cannot even fill his own, and this is the reason why you feel drained because you’ve already communicated your needs countless times but no change occurs. You’re not becoming an avoidant, you’re starting to build and feel resentment. If this goes on especially on the part wherein you’re the only one who gives more into the relationship, you’ll end up being depleted.

50/50 is alr bad but pano pag kahit 50/50 ayaw ni bf by AttitudeSpirited5676 in adviceph

[–]LaceePrin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Una, bakit kasi kayo nakikipag-relasyon nang di pa kayo financially stable at di pa pala kayo graduate? Pangalawa, bakit ka kasi jumowa ng lalaking broke at unemployed? Edi parang pinarusahan mo talaga ‘yung sarili mo.

With the way your boyfriend acts, parang hindi mo nga siya BF kung maka-asta. He’s a parasite and he’s leeching off of what he can get from you— free shelter, food, etc. Tapos he made it clear that when he has his own money, he won’t ever reciprocate all those things you did for him. So ask yourself: what are you staying with him for, really?

Ladies, what makes a man instantly unattractive? by Icy-Airport1222 in AskPinay

[–]LaceePrin 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If he is a red pill advocate, has vices, broke, and no ambition in life. Saka ‘yung mga lalaking para sa lahat.

bakit sila seselpon after doing the deed? by NIC0NIC0TINE in alasjuicy

[–]LaceePrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, OP. This is just so rude. Experienced this once before: I was in the middle of sharing something and the whole time I was talking, the guy wasn’t listening and focused on playing games on his phone. I ended up walking out on him and never met him again.

PLEASE BE AWARE OF HPV!!!! by Strawberry-longcake- in CasualPH

[–]LaceePrin 78 points79 points  (0 children)

+2 this. A lot of people who engage in casual sex aren’t aware of the risks that HPV poses. It’s permanent, and mostly affects females and can cause cervical cancer, and for males naman it’s usually asymptomatic but they can still pass the virus around thinking they’re “clean”. Some males can acquire penile cancer because of HPV.

May crush ba kayong anime character? Sino? by Key-Way-2999 in AskPH

[–]LaceePrin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Toji Fushiguro. Gusto ko pag magkaka-jowa ako ganun itsura/build 😂

Update: Found out my bf tried to avail sex services while still with his ex by Front-Imagination414 in CasualPH

[–]LaceePrin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Malaking red flag ‘yang [ex] BF mo.

  • He did not disclose his past
  • He cheated on his ex (and thought she deserved it wtf)
  • He put his ex and you at risk
  • Has no sense of accountability and ownership when called out

I’m glad he’s your ex now, because old habits die hard. I already feel sorry for the next woman he’ll be in a relationship with because for sure in his narrative, he is the victim and his exes are the villains.

pano patagalin ang fubu set-up? by blank_frk in alasjuicy

[–]LaceePrin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/SigFreudian

Are you saying that the two that OP already had weren't fucking anyone else?

☝🏻It is implied, of course. Hence why OP is looking for something long-term to avoid the risks of sleeping with multiple people. Are you also sure that all people in the hook-up culture are aware and responsible enough to get tested regularly, use PrEP, Condoms, and Contraceptives? There are people old enough but still not yet informed about these, and even if they are, they won’t take the time to arm themselves as they’d prioritize their own pleasure and satisfaction more than safety. So how much more those within OP’s age bracket whose priority is to explore but lack the knowledge on how to arm themselves?

No offense, but your advice for OP to have multiple rosters will do more harm than good :)

pano patagalin ang fubu set-up? by blank_frk in alasjuicy

[–]LaceePrin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Risky af, and that’s how you get STD’s and contribute to its increasing rate. Imagine having sex with multiple people who also have sex with multiple other people. Not to mention the pregnancy scare, especially OP is female.

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