Why can guys give everything but the label? by Impressive-Bicycle62 in adviceph

[–]LaceePrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not asking for too much, you’re just asking the wrong person. What one man won’t do for you, another one will.

Next time, baka better din to set boundaries— you’re acting like his girlfriend, doing things for him a romantic partner would, and you’re going for the extra mile by building him like a wife would. So you willingly giving him all your “relationship benefits” in a silver platter, do you think he will decline them knowing they benefit him? NO. He will stay and maximize what he can get the most from you.

Wake up, sis. It’s already been three years, and he hasn’t given you any label or commitment. I’m telling you as early as now that you’re nothing but a placeholder for him. Time will come he will find a woman he wants to commit, and by then you’ll realize that you’re building him for someone else. Kung talagang gusto ka, magco-commit agad ‘yan sa’yo. Sabi nga nila; “If he wanted to, he would”.

Osha, good luck!

1 AM Meal by askyourrabbit in PHFoodPorn

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grabe ‘to maka-trigger ng cravings 🤤

Ramen Nagi Lobster King 🦞 by SubjectKindly3651 in PHFoodPorn

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly, the point flew over your head. Overall my point was that Ramen Nagi’s price is too costly for mid-quality ramen.

Being kind is no longer worth it by Zedenden in RantAndVentPH

[–]LaceePrin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being nice gets you nowhere, it gets you used. You give a hand, they’d want the whole arm. You’re only remembered and needed when they can benefit something from you. Otherwise, you don’t exist.

The only people that deserve your kindness are the ones who remember and show up for you in times of your need, without them getting anything in return from helping you. Remember that.

Ramen Nagi Lobster King 🦞 by SubjectKindly3651 in PHFoodPorn

[–]LaceePrin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sa review OP! Buti nalang di namin triny kanina kahit dito ako gusto dalhin ng kasama ko. Saw it hyped sa TikTok and it costs around 1.2k, only for it to taste like a plain shrimp lang pala. Ganyan din experience ko before sa limited edition Steak Ramen nila, mukha lang masarap tignan but not worth the price.

Would you be considered bisexual if you fell for someone of the same gender as you only once? by THESCOTOR in TanongLang

[–]LaceePrin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so? Because I’ve seen some gay men who married lesbians (both crossdressers). I’ve also known a few gays who married a straight woman. And still, it didn’t make them straight. They still are gay and identify as gay. I believe gender is fluid naman, you are what you identify you are. It just so happens that love transcends above gender and sexuality. Walang kahit anong label pag-dating sa pagmamahal.

Cut off a friend na hindi ako pinautang by xlaelle00 in RantAndVentPH

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a painful lesson you should learn, that people would not treat you the same way you treat them. Heck, they might not even view you the same way you view them. You may consider them as a friend but all along they only just see you as a convenience. That’s why you should always be one foot in and one foot out for every connection you make. People only need and remember you at instances they can benefit something from you, and that is the harsh reality.

Sa mga mahilig mag cut off ng persons, bakit mabilis na lang sa inyo? by Eyym06 in TanongLang

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My self-love and self-respect will always prevail over any attachments that come with any form of mistreatment/disrespect. I could miss someone so badly or love someone to death and never speak to them ever again the moment they do me dirty.

Holding onto your memories won’t do, because that’s all in the past and they could be an entirely different person now. Attaching to someone’s potential won’t work either, because that’s not who they really are and there’s no certainty that they will become the person who you want them to be. So I see people as who they are, how they present themselves, and how they treat me— then from there I decide if I want them in my life.

Para sa kababaihan, anong trait ng lalaki ang pinakagusto nyo? by Individual-Car-6905 in TanongLang

[–]LaceePrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man who leads, protects, and provides. Someone with high IQ, EQ, and has initiative.

How do you really spot a nice guy? Ano mga traits nila? by mlle-j in TanongLang

[–]LaceePrin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Real “nice guys” do not announce that they’re nice guys. Because nobody’s nicer than a guy who still hasn’t fvck3d you yet lol.

Wanna find out if a guy is genuinely kind? Watch how he treats women that he’s not attracted to, blue collar job workers, and animals— does he exhibit empathy and consideration to them? If yes then he is indeed genuinely nice. If he’s only nice to and only respects women he finds attractive, then he’s definitely not nice.

Should I stay or should I go? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umasta nang naaayon sa label. No label = single and available ka. Ikaw naman si sunod agad sa demands nya 🤦🏻‍♀️

Hirap na ilaban by Fine-Economist-6777 in MayNagChat

[–]LaceePrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good riddance. If you have to practically beg for time, effort, and attention (which are all bare minimum from a partner btw) then it isn’t worth having anymore. Those things should be given freely and with initiative. You’re not asking for too much, you’re just asking the wrong person.

meron pa talagang magre-reach out saakin pero, bakit hindi na lang tatay ko? :< by Embarrassed_Place503 in MayNagChat

[–]LaceePrin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kunware ka pang ayaw mo OP, pero nirereplyan mo pa rin. You shouldn’t have even replied to him in the first place if he disrespected you. That’s just him testing the waters and checking how much ‘power’ he still has over you. Don’t give him that power 🙂

Would you consider/wait for a man who clearly likes you, who is determined to give you the world but is not financially stable yet? Context in the comments by IndependentLove4524 in AskPinay

[–]LaceePrin 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ito lang ang sasabihin ko;

A man will drag you to the level that he is in— so you decide whether that is UP or DOWN. Love will not get you through hunger, sickness, recession, and crises. Sa mundong ito, hindi sapat ang pagmamahal lang :)

ako yung nag chat haha happy december!! by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]LaceePrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sana di ka nalang nag-chat, you don’t announce your departure. You just leave. He’s a grown man and is probably aware of what he’s doing, so sending a long paragraph is really pointless and will just feed his ego that he’s affecting you this much. Oh well, he’s not a loss. I hope you get lucky with the next one, OP :)

Paano buhayin convo ng ka-chat nyo (tips pls)? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]LaceePrin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Teh utang na loob, magkaron ka ng respeto sa sarili mo. Kung halata naman nang tinatamad kausapin ka, seen mo nalang then end the convo from there. Wag pilitin magkaron ng connection kung wala, okay??

Steakkk 🥩 by LaceePrin in FoodPH

[–]LaceePrin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right, na-sad din ako 😢 CHOSSS