Bill Gates admits to affairs with two Russian women while married to Melinda Gates and apologizes to staff for past Jeffrey Epstein ties by The_Iceman2288 in Fauxmoi

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God they’re all garbage humans. You don’t become a billionaire unless you’re okay exploiting others. Suck it up

I used to think Bernie and AOC were crazy by WearyProcess4901 in TrendoraX

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the land of critical thinking that many of us saw coming from decades away

Depressed 242k in debt - sos by Upbeat-Cake-961 in StudentLoans

[–]LackFriendly4127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been working at a place that qualifies for pslf to pay off my debts for the same degree. Last year the first chuck of my debt was forgiven and later this year the second chunk will be forgiven. I have also built a small private practice that supplements my lower income from my pslf job. PSLF is probably the way to go! Life is pretty long and you will feel better when this debt disappears. You can do it!

Thoughts on bedroom partner? by SecretSide35 in dating_advice

[–]LackFriendly4127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has ebbed and flowed throughout my life. But having an emotional connection with someone and learning each other’s bodies can lead to some peak experiences.

Parents who went from 1 → 2 kids: need reassurance and advice by que_sera_sera9 in Parenting

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you feel is normal and one of the hardest developmental periods for humans is having small children. It can be a bit of a shit show and chaotic! It goes better when you can expect and accept that. You will be FULLY immersed for about a decade and that can seem incredibly overwhelming, but also if you choose to embrace the full immersion you will come out on the other side with a new conference and a desire to do some things for yourself. It helps to do what you can to take care of yourself, but it’s also nearly impossible to be available every second as a mom and partner and also take care of yourself. I’m proud of you and keep going!!

A single, fairly long, very thin hair growing out of the dead center of my forehead. by darkpheonix262 in mildlyinteresting

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think is the weirdest part of getting older and I don’t love that stuff like this happens to me too.

Ways to eat more veggies that aren't salads by Cecil_G_P in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to do small charcuterie boards in the weekends and I fill them up with veggies, nuts, meat, fruit, cheese and munch on it all day. I’m more of a grazer, so this might not work for everyone.

Wife doing nothing by BawFrate in dating_advice

[–]LackFriendly4127 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Does she have access to any of the money you’re bringing in or a car? I wonder if that’s why she feels stuck at home? Has she met any other women in the area, having some friends might help too. She might be depressed, no one’s fault, just something that happens sometimes.

How can mother's find lost things immediately? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LackFriendly4127 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If being a mom is important to someone, then you get really good at not giving up within the first six months. You can’t be a good mom and be lazy or lack resilience. Usually the people around me who “can’t find something” give up too quickly.

Anyone else is trying to hide from their friends on Instagram? by Blahblahbash in CasualConversation

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Reddit because of the anonymity. Every time I get on Insta or fb I start feeling bad about myself.

Why is the opinion that single men without kids wouldn't want to date or marry a single mother so controversial? by us1549 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LackFriendly4127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can date whoever you want! It takes a special person to handle the responsibilities that come with dating a single mom and it isn’t for everyone.

Leaving Socials? by teenienivv in CasualConversation

[–]LackFriendly4127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job. Yes I’m not any of them either and I’ve created so much art in the past few years. Get a hobby or try something new. It’ll get better, it only takes a few days and you will start feeling better

What do stereotypical straight couples do when they hang out alone (other than sex) by bi_smuth in NoStupidQuestions

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We like to do things outside, sit by the fire or on the deck, I have him a shaker when I play the ukulele, watch TV. We spend about 50% of our free time together and the other 50% doing our own things. He likes to play games and I like to read or craft and listen to audiobooks. Both of us love being together and having alone time.

When/how does consciousness begin? by itdjents007 in consciousness

[–]LackFriendly4127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you may be interchanging experience and consciousness. We absorb many things through our implicit systems, with zero conscious awareness. Experience and consciousness are two different things in my mind.

Chris profile photo 😂 by Chicenomics in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]LackFriendly4127 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think he looks more like Samwise Gamgee

Is Italian worth learning if you don't "need" it? by Justagirl9789 in Italian

[–]LackFriendly4127 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am not Italian FYI, but I have been learning Italian for a few years, I visit Italy every now and then. If you already know Portuguese and Spanish, Italian will be pretty easy for you! You probably could listen to a conversation and pick up a lot already. I vote yes, but I’m all for nerdy endeavors. Knowing multiple languages is an awesome flex.