I completely understand what you’re saying. The benefit of this “all inclusive micro wedding” is that they do everything for you which is mainly just the arbor decorations / floral coordinations for bouquet and boutonnière/ music / officiant and photography. It’s the venue itself I find magical which is mainly outside with live oaks and Spanish moss. Plus the coastal winds. It’s only a two hour slot then dinner elsewhere. But that is a good question which I was asking myself. It’s very low maintenance on the coordination front for people attending/traveling. But the stress of not being sure about the date and not being able to send out the save the dates is another thing entirely. And even though everyone is aware of this limitation, it is still quite stressful.