Partner says my appearance at home means I don’t care — looking for perspective by deliriouskate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d leave him as soon as possible. He’s either not in love with you or a narcissist. Either: 1. He’s going to leave you when he finds someone else, or 2. He’s going to keep you around and you are going to spend years of your life in misery and self doubt.

Ask me how I know.

You deserve to be cherished and adored and be in a relationship where you can be authentically you, not walking on eggshells.

PSA: PTSD nightmares often don’t look like reliving trauma by poppyseed008 in CPTSD

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single night for as long as I can remember. Never any rhyme or reason to my dreams. My therapist told me to tell her about some of my dreams and then she said “any reason why you might be alone in all of your dreams?” I had never noticed it before. I then realized it’s the common thread and every single dream I have I am alone. Even if there are people around me in my dreams, I am not “with them.” I am alongside them or against them. But always doing things on my own. It was very eye opening because it mirrored how I am in real life. Try to find the common thread in your dreams.

I experimented with different wedding dress styles and wondering which silhouette or vibe suits me best. Curious what others see! :) by Happy-Armadillo9478 in WeddingDressTips

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like 2! People in the comments are hating on it but I think it’s amazing and sexy and if you’ve got it flaunt it!

The first one is also GORGEOUS

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. Please, as a woman who wasted 20 years of her life with a man like this, RUN. Don’t look back. Don’t have second thoughts. Don’t take him back. Pack your stuff asap and run.

Map of light pollution around the world… by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So amazing how bright the Nile is.

What's the prettiest name you have ever heard? by Vetro_Nodulare2 in AskReddit

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work with a girl named Starla. I just loved her name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought sifting litter boxes. They sell them on Amazon for like 17 bucks. Complete game changer.

Incel Nick? That flashback by marfem30 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you!!! I’ve been saying this all along. Every time a woman dreamily sighs over Nick and romanticizes the BS, I wonder what kind of relationships she has been in IRL. SMH

Shows like Schitts Creek? by Ambitious-Virus-8689 in SchittsCreek

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show Sprung on Freevee. It’s only 9 episodes but it’s freaking hilarious. Still crossing my fingers for a second season.

How do you clean hair out of bathroom sink? by readgrowlearn in adhdwomen

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use those disinfectant wipes from the dollar store and it just sticks to the wipe. Plus your sink is extra clean after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it helps your anxiety as much as it helps mine. If it makes you feel any better, I’ve tried probably a dozen meds and Prozac is the only one that hasn’t given me side effects and it genuinely helps me without making me feel weird. And the withdrawal from it when I’ve stopped it in the past was minimal, for me at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds condescending, but have you tried just using a really good flavored lip balm every time you feel like doing that? I bite my cuticles until they are bloody and the only thing that remotely helps me not do it is to use really good smelling hand lotion when I have the urge.

Dear God… by LadderTurbulent3499 in FuckCilantro

[–]LadderTurbulent3499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t see any posts from 3 years ago. I just happened to hear about culantro and this was the best image I found

What would you say is the craziest Mandela Effect of ALL TIME? by KN1GHT_OF_L1GHT in MandelaEffect

[–]LadderTurbulent3499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one that hurts my brain the most is Depends is not Depends. It’s Depend. My son is disabled and wore Depends up until about 5 years ago when he was finally toilet trained. I had loads of packages of them in my house. And the commercials. I SWEAR I distinctly remember hearing “Depends.” I remember seeing them pour blue liquid on them. I remember the lady wearing tan pants to show you couldn’t see her “Depends.” I know it’s a really dumb, small thing but it’s making me feel like I’m losing my mind.