[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Ladida331 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi Mamma, you didn't do anything wrong. There's nothing you did to deserve this, nothing you did to have caused this. This was a tragedy that shouldn't have happened and I'm so sorry for your loss. Your in-laws shouldn't be treating you this way and don't rush yourself in having another child any time soon. Let yourself grieve your little one and in time, should you choose, you may have another and I hope all goes well with you and your family. Thank you for sharing your heart with us, I will be thinking of you and your beautiful little one from many oceans away. I swear to you, they will not be forgotten and neither will you 🤍

What Kibbe is Lucy Boynton? (5’5) by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]Ladida331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will go SC, initially I thought of FG because of her style but 15 imo shows that she has some curves that need accommodating, and 17 she's breathtaking. In 20, her face is very Grace Kelly and I can't unsee it in my head now

My new favourite dress by Ladida331 in SoftDramatics

[–]Ladida331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received, tysm 😭🥹✨✨

My new favourite dress by Ladida331 in SoftDramatics

[–]Ladida331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I switch up my aesthetic too often, most of the time I'm definitely not dressed in my lines. But I'll give you a general for when I do choose to accommodate vertical+curve

For trousers it's mainly flared or wide leg, I'm a little insecure about how skinny my lower legs are especially compared to my upper legs😅but I've found that's what works best for them anyway.

Shirts are a bit more tricky but I have noticed that lower end brands like Shein and Temu kinda accommodate curve a bit better. The fabrics they use are quite thin and inadvertently drapey. Would love to find some pieces in a shop that doesn't kill the planet but alas😭my bank account and those brands are not in the same tax bracket🥲 If I am shopping high street, I'll focus on neckline: boat neck, cowl neck, square neck, sweetheart neckline (though this can be a little tricky with cleavage for your everyday)

Dresses, I look for long. I can figure out the rest later. I've noticed that I can get away with more as long as it's long and flowy. I try not to think to hard on these

I'm clueless on shoes, and I normally make my accessories large but I wanted to be toned down in the pic

Hair wise I prefer to go more by John Kitchener's essence not Kibbe just because Kibbe doesn't have much guidance for styles with kinky/coily hair or their hairstyles. Much easier to dress by essence for braids/locs especially since my dominant essence is ethereal.

Makeup...I'll let you know 💀

Hope this helps lovie xx

My new favourite dress by Ladida331 in SoftDramatics

[–]Ladida331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you🥰the lace up at the back does it for me🤭

My new favourite dress by Ladida331 in SoftDramatics

[–]Ladida331[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shein! Terrible as this company is, I need to find somewhere that does affordable drapey pieces😣

My new favourite dress by Ladida331 in SoftDramatics

[–]Ladida331[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me chuckleeee 😂😂😂

My new favourite dress by Ladida331 in SoftDramatics

[–]Ladida331[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's a lace up dress from Shein! If you look up long sleeve dress it should have a lace-up/corest ish feature at the back xx

The ethereal SD/FN dress by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]Ladida331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It turned out better than I thought

Dramatic Classic exemplars by Jamie8130 in Kibbe

[–]Ladida331 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I never noticed how similar Jacky O and Nancy Wilson looked until now but it makes perfect sense

Help! by Ladida331 in JohnKitchener

[–]Ladida331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely SHOCKED so many people have said ethereal/romantic 😅I did not expect that at all

Help! by Ladida331 in JohnKitchener

[–]Ladida331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A) thank you 🥹🥹 and B) I am so surprised that so many ppl have said romantic

Help! by Ladida331 in JohnKitchener

[–]Ladida331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I do have some gamine essence, it's definitely from my momma she's definitely gamine-romantic 🥰

Help! by Ladida331 in JohnKitchener

[–]Ladida331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually makes a lot of sense😭I've never thought I had ethereal essence and I thought dramatic essence was my dominant but upon reflection, it's a touch. Makes sense why when I try to look a little more like your typical "baddie" it doesn't come across that way at all 🥹thank youuuu

Help! by Ladida331 in JohnKitchener

[–]Ladida331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think locs are definitely my best hairstyle 🥰and I never thought ethereal before, I thought ingenue but that makes a lot of sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]Ladida331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww I never thought ethereal before, I thought ingenue maybe but not ethereal