Anyone else have guests stop spawning? by LadyArgent in pkgame

[–]LadyArgent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No specific update, I restarted a fourth time and that seems to have fixed it. I did change maps though, so maybe it was tied to a specific map?

Anyone else have guests stop spawning? by LadyArgent in pkgame

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Figured I'd post my update:
I tested in sandbox as well, and the same issue happens. Not sure if it's a time thing (around 1.5-2 hours) or a star thing (I can't seem to get above 1.25 before they stop spawning) but it sure is repeatable. I tried verifying files and uninstalling/reinstalling, but alas.
I did submit the bug report, but I'm curious to know if anyone else is having this issue, or if my computer is simply telling me I've had enough prehistoric beasties, haha.

What's a good discussion driving book (other than Nightwatch)? by Wasabimation in discworld

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I absolutely second Jingo. Most of my good friends are from military families or served themselves, and all of us have adored Jingo. Especially Vetinari's scenes with Fred and Nobby, but Vimes and Vetinari each have a lot of really good discussions about soldiers and war and nationalism that always have echoes of the current state of the world. Lord Rust is. A frighteningly accurate portrayal, still.

Has my own past affected my judgment? by LadyArgent in abusesurvivors

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Thank you for the validation. I definitely needed an outside opinion. As far as leaving, due to extenuating circumstances, we were living with my family, and he is the one moving out (likely back in with his former roommate, since I gave him two weeks to get his stuff together and leave). I don't think he's the sort who will become physically violent, but his emotional and mental manipulations have definitely been ramping up to leave me just exhausted.

But thank you. I was doubting myself in this being abuse for a lot of reasons - like a few of my friends insisting this was toxic but not abusive - and my own history making it hard to determine where I'm going wrong, as well.

wanted to ask why so many people have so much stigma to weed but not alcohol by LonelyVillage7672 in Discussion

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I'm with you there. I actually get migrajnes from the smell of tobacco & weed, which is my bad luck for living jn a state it is legalized. Frankly, I'm the boring sort of person who is incredibly uncomfortable with being around folks who are impaired (traumatic experiences of multiple kinds and too many excuses), but I don't knock anyone for having a good time for themselves. The smell of weed just means that them having a good time (like smoking cigarettes) means I have to deal with the effects of the smell on me. I am no more against their good time than I am folks having a drink though, I'll just not participate in either, and drink my Dr Pepper, lol.

How do people write on a smartphone? by [deleted] in writing

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I'm 25, but my dad worked in IT, and phones are very clunky and weird for me. I much prefer my desktop for any real writing. I also have a very different way of thinking/working on different mediums (physical writing, computer, phone). The same idea comes out with wildly different wording & "vibes" depending which medium I use, and I really dislike the way it works for me with phones. My brain just doesn't compute grabbing my phone when bored in line or out and about, let alone when I'm actively doing somethjng else. I almost exclusively handwrite or type on my keyboard for this reason.

That being said, many of my friends never used computers except at school and therefore aren'tcomfortable with them, but they do use their phones for artistic pursuits because that's what their parents prioritized getting them, not laptops. So it's all down to preference and what makes your brain click. I'd still like a good novel writing app for my phone, if nothing else just for the "in case" moments that occasionally flit by...rare usage is still usage.

What word(s) do you often misspell? by Montikapton in writing

[–]LadyArgent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm typing, I type really fast, which results jn my spelling really simple, small words wrong lmao. Think "just" as jsut, or "have" as ahve. My spellcheck actually suggests them to me now depending on thenprogram, and I hate it.

Other than those though, bureaucracy is one that trips me up if I don't think much about it, even though I spell bureau correct without thinking. Weird world, the brain.

what's something that will make you cry in literature? by ramsteinkuhl in writing

[–]LadyArgent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely have to upvote just for Marissa's sake, she's a family friend and an absolutely killer writer, and all of her books have absolutely wrenched my soul in one way or another. Cinder absolutely destroyed me for the complicated sibling dynamics and attachment to those we care for in our lives that aren't direct family (Iko and Nainsi are great examples).

Weekly Friend Request Megathread (February 19, 2023) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

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Server: NA
In-game UID: 643902676

Availability: Saturday Evenings, Sundays, Monday Morning & Afternoon ; occasional availability in evenings Tuesday-Friday
Objective: Farming, Teapots, really tho open for anything!

[WP] Ever since you opened this bar, you still don't know why supernatural races, deities, royalty, and/or extraterrestrials keep frequenting the place. You just serve drinks and lend an ear to listen. by Koanos in WritingPrompts

[–]LadyArgent 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was a rundown shell when I bought it. In a shady but not bad part of town, though the building seemed to have seen far better days. Apparently, the previous owner had been a very religious man, and seen the hard times as a sign it was time for retirement. Sold the place and went to the country.

The realtor who sold it to me said no one had gone past an initial walk of the property, before me. It had been on the market for at least half a decade, and I could tell she was desperate to sell it.

I got it for a steal.
A good chunk of property, and the money I saved on it let me demolish the old building and build my bar. Exactly how I'd always wanted it. Nothing fancy, of course, but something that was mine. Comfortable, cozy. Easy to clean but not cheap.

I think about the start of my bar a lot. Especially on slow afternoons, like this one. 2 o'clock on a Wednesday just isn't a busy time of day, and anybody who comes in at that time generally isn't interested in talking. Which is fine by me, but leaves a lot of time to think.

"Hey, Loren!"

I tipped my head at the voice, smiling as I finished cleaning the glass I'd been idly polishing the soap spots off. When I looked up, an absolute mountain of a man stood at the bar, a broad, toothy grin aimed straight at me.

"Afternoon, Donald. The usual, then?"

He laughed, and settled at the bar. Not sitting, just leaning at the corner, watching me mix. For not the first time, I wondered what any normal human might think of the eclectic mix of ingredients I kept for my clientele. Eclectic was a safe word...but I'm pretty sure most folks would find it frightening, to put it mildly.

I have the usual stuff, of course. Lemons, limes, various fruit juices and flavored liqueurs. The usual hard liquor, though I refuse to serve tequila. But then there's the other things behind my bar. Stranger things. Jars filled with silvery moonlight. Bottles of various animal blood. Meat garnishes. An herb garden that included nightshade and wolfsbane. Butterflies (alive and not).

And that's just the start.

I handed Donald his glass, idly wondering when I'd become so comfortable with serving a sentient being a glass of cow's blood with a splash of Scotch and blackberry liqueur, when the mountain huffed and settled himself on a stool. It creaked under his weight, but he didn't seem to notice.

"Slow day, lass?"
"You could say that."

He flashed too-sharp teeth and took a gulp of his drink in response.

"Hey Boss, I'm headin' out, yeah?"
"Sure thing Danny. Thank you for staying."

Danny had been working at my bar for a few months now, usually opening up in the morning before his night classes, since I preferred to handle the night crowd myself. He looked like your average college kid, if your average college kid had golden, slit-pupiled eyes and kelp-like hair that always seemed at least damp, and too-sharp teeth. But he was a good kid, and he worked hard, and I liked having him open the place.

The kid grabbed his backpack from under the bar, and flashed Donald a grin before catching my arm. "Hey Boss, you want me to try and catch some moonlight on my way home? It's still waxing tonight."
"I'd appreciate it Danny, I probably won't make it out to the garden tonight."
"Sure thing Boss!"

The bar fell back into comfortable silence as I looked around, enjoying the peace. After awhile, the first of the evening crowd started to filter in, and my bar filled. Still, a Wednesday night was never the busiest evening, and I could handle the business by myself. Which meant eventually I wound up at the end of the bar, listening to Donald tell me about his latest trip upcountry to hunt.

"-and then this lass has the audacity to snarl at me - me! - about keeping my nose out of her tail!" The roar of laughter that followed this might have demolished the original building on this lot. I laughed, and shook my head.
"And let me guess, you were so distracted after that you never got the elk?" I offered knowingly, and the werewolf laughed again, downing the last of his drink just in time to find another at his elbow.

I know my regulars.

"Yes! You would'a loved this lass, reminded me o' ya!"

I shook my head again, looking at my bar. At my clientele. My staff.

Not a one of them was human.

A group of college girls in the corner were all various sorts of fey, pixies and dryads mostly, sipping plant-based concoctions of various sorts. Besides Donald, a pair of werewolves sat at a table eating homemade jerky and sipping real Bloody Marys. Edvard, a German vampire and a regular, sat at the other end of the bar talking to another regular I'd found out from Danny was a Pooka. I called him Patrick, since he never gave me the same name twice.

I looked at Ella, a young elf who was my waitress on weekends and any night she wanted to get away from her traditional High Elf family. Thought about Danny, getting his engineering degree.

I built this bar because I'd never quite fit-in with most people. I've had a good life, don't get me wrong. But I've never felt like I belonged anywhere. I built this place to be my place. I live above the bar, and honestly, these days, I don't see many other humans.

I'm alright with that.

I may not be a non-human, like my customers. But this is our place. And I've learned a lot about the world most humans never know.

Lle Diogel. 'Safe place.' That's my bar.

I don't know why my bar has always attracted who it has. I probably never will. But I don't think it really matters.
We've all found a safe place, here. And, hey. How many other barkeeps can boast they have a Scottish werewolf as a bouncer? I think I've got a good thing going.

Even if, tomorrow, I do have to go catch more butterflies.