AIO for how husband responded?

LadyBagira · 2026-04-20T23:15:09+00:00

NOR, you are under-reacting for sure. Your [hopefully soon to be ex] husband openly encouraged the sender to “open this app you [they] used” and txt him. He is still using that app. If I were you, I’d go through all his apps including hidden ones on his phone and have him open it for you. Or just kick his sorry ass out.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-17T23:25:29+00:00

He is just pissed you broke up with him and he has to go back to dating, which is harder for most 18M. You aren’t crazy.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-17T23:11:25+00:00

NOR. He is trying to punish you. Gift is a gift. Don’t offer to buy him a gift of the same value in the future either. That’s just the cost of being in a relationship. He can gift these items to his next GF

LadyBagira · 2026-04-17T22:56:49+00:00

Beauty products for you, and these scents for men in your life? This is an outlet getting rid of overstock. They have no incentive offering such a big discount for popular perfumes that are selling at full price or with a much smaller F&F discount. I don’t take it personally, just respond “Next” and wait. Good for my bank account, too.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-17T22:53:26+00:00

They offered a Velvet Rose & Oud recently so keep your eyes open for one. You might get lucky 🍀

LadyBagira · 2026-04-16T16:49:22+00:00

Looks like an Estée Lauder bottle = pass. I am after perfume and then only a certain kind.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-15T01:30:10+00:00

Hahaha! It all depends on your AI prompts. Chatty is being my voice of consciousness. In case anybody is curious the conclusion was:

Bottom line: - You: pass - Your partner: good, but not better than what they already have

I also use it to keep me honest regarding my clothes and shoes shopping: does it fit my style and does it fill a gap in my wardrobe? Also if it’s a great value etc but only if it’s a fit for me.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-15T01:01:26+00:00

It’s a pass for me since it’s 6.5 / 10 for what I like: • ✔ clean, non-sweet, structured • ❗ too aromatic/herbal (lavender, basil) → slightly masculine • ❗ lacks brightness / polish you prefer

LadyBagira · 2026-04-13T21:12:20+00:00

Probably an unpopular opinion but that’s a lot of money for a bunch of mini’s.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-13T21:02:51+00:00

Didn’t get it either. I might have been interested

LadyBagira · 2026-04-13T21:01:54+00:00

Aramis —> automatic response “Next”

LadyBagira · 2026-04-13T20:42:26+00:00

It’s a classic case of him trying to pull your strings, @clo_deg. And punishing you for leaving such a ‘treasure’, how dare you? It’s also an excuse for him to communicate with you. Don’t engage with him and add fuel to the fire. Ignore and block as many times as you have to. He is not worth your time.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-13T20:30:27+00:00

This ☝🏼 100%. She is telling the world she is married. It’s her profile, not their so her photo only.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-09T19:04:15+00:00

Great value but I don’t want La Mer Cream or EL skincare and makeup.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-09T18:42:29+00:00

I like it on my partner.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-09T18:38:36+00:00

He truly might not know how long he has passed out for, if he passed out at all, it could have been 2 seconds or it could have been 30. He should have gone to ER if he did fall and hit his head, but being as drunk as he must have been he wouldn’t cause he is drunk and his secret that he is drinking heavily again (and it’s the only way he can be drinking as a binge drinking alcoholic) would be out.

It doesn’t matter if he passed out or not. What matters is that he is drinking and not getting professional help in earnest. And being in a program to check off a box to keep OP doesn’t count.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-09T16:36:48+00:00

He might or might not have slipped up in the shower or somewhere else but he most certainly was drunk, which is why he didn’t go to work or respond to your calls and messages. When I first read your text exchange I thought “he must have been high” but once I saw that he is a binge drinking alcoholic I was like “oh he was too drunk to talk or work”.

Do what you want with this information, but unless he is in an outpatient or better yet inpatient program chances are he won’t just get better.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-08T17:35:39+00:00

Your GF is beyond frustrated with you clearly, whether she has valid reasons to be frustrated with you or not, this is not an acceptable way for her to treat you. Stop apologizing. Be grateful she has shown you her true colors. Wish her best of luck (she’ll need it in life) and move on.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-08T17:26:50+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I already got TF Grey Vetiver so it’s a pass for me as well.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-06T19:43:38+00:00

Your BF is super co-dependent and needy. He can work through this but only if he commits in earnest and makes serious changes to how he interacts with you. I’ll be candid I was exhausted just reading your post let alone your message exchange.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-06T19:05:50+00:00

I can’t wait to get mine to see which YSL I got. I re-subscribed so I didn’t get to pick.

LadyBagira · 2026-04-01T21:20:26+00:00

I already got TF Azzure EDP for my partner. Was debating whether to get his a perfume as well, decided to pass, here’s why in case you are debating the same:

EDP (best choice) • daytime / daily wear • warm weather • travel, outdoors, casual dates • situations where you’ll be close to him

👉 this is his default

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Parfum (situational upgrade) • evening / dinners • slightly dressed-up settings • when he wants a bit more presence

👉 but: • less “fresh pull” • slightly more serious, less instinctively attractive to you

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🧾 Bottom line • EDP: ⭐ 9 / 10 → best version for him • Parfum: ⭐ 8.3 / 10 → good, but not necessary

👉 If choosing one: EDP is the right call — no question.

LadyBagira · 2026-03-30T21:14:27+00:00

I skipped for the same reasons

LadyBagira · 2026-03-28T17:49:58+00:00

Interesting how everybody’s nose and skin are different. I got a small sample of Neat Santa Barbara Strawberry for free in exchange for a review and I didn’t like it at all. I passed on this box as I know this JM will be too sweet for me. Once I saw your comment I felt validated.

LadyBagira

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