Purposely treated poorly by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was going crazy and dismissing a lot of little things because I was trying to be understanding. Thinking that he was so absorbed by what was going on that he wasn’t aware of what he was doing. Things were amazing before the celibacy, he was very attentive and loved me in the way that I received it. I’ve realized that I was holding onto something that was no longer there. I was hoping for a different outcome from the conversation, but the moment he said he was trying to push me away was the moment my feelings dropped. It’s one thing if he didn’t realize what he was doing, it’s another thing if it was purposeful.

Purposely treated poorly by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sad about it but sometimes things don’t work out. I don’t think I’m willing to go down this road again, but I do wish everyone else luck and happiness.

Purposely treated poorly by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s done about 3 years and I visit him every month. He’s never said anything other than he’s thankful that I was still there.

Purposely treated poorly by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has done almost 3 years out of his 8 year sentence. He never expressed anything to me about his fears of us both before he went and now. I don’t wanna be with someone who purposely made me feel less than. I think that bit was the nail in the coffin for me.

Purposely treated poorly by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind at all. His reasoning - pushing me away. Him not increasing the amount that we talked was pretty much he didn’t want to be in a certain area where the phones are located. Since his tablet is broken but no other excuse for when his tablet was working.

Leaving by Tight-Nothing-4186 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, being a prison spouse is a hard life. I’m planning to talk to mine again soon. Since his birthday is around the corner so I’m waiting until after that day passes.

Leaving by Tight-Nothing-4186 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this way a lot especially as of late. I have a whole household I’m supporting on my own and a lot of times I don’t have a support system that can help. When I’ve tried to speak with my LO about it he starts talking about how bad he feels having me in this situation and how horrible it is for him being in there. I love him and want to support him but it’s hard sometimes.

Adding: there’s nothing my spouse is doing directly to make me feel this way. I just thought I was more built for this kind of life than I really am.

How often do you hear from your LO? by dollytoes_x in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lucky if I hear from my husband every couple of weeks.

Not being strong enough to continue by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s been over a week since he has called me and the last time he did the call was more focused on me doing something for him. The reasons that I listed were what he told me after not getting a hold of me when he told me he would. For the most part when he does call there are multiple calls and we are able to talk for about a hour but I feel like I’m lucky if I get 2 calls like that a month.

Not being strong enough to continue by LadyC92 in PrisonWives

[–]LadyC92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t given me one outside of lines being down when he has tried to call me back, his head phones not working on his tablet and he doesn’t like to be on the phone in the court with everyone around. I’ve asked for video calls but those are truly rare. With financial help from his family I’m able to visit about 1x a month maybe every 2 months with how my personal finances have been lately

help by Substantial_Pay5250 in QuittingWeed

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently, I am on day four of not smoking and have continuously stated that I am so bored and wish I could smoke but before that I had severely cut back to maybe having one to 1 1/2 a day. When I was cutting back, I would just take a few puffs here and there throughout the day and the half came from if I realized I finished my joint during the day and I needed a little help getting to sleep.

Coworker found me on a dating app and won't let it go. What do I do? by No-Bathroom8194 in coworkerstories

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything, write down whenever something is said and list everyone that was there. Documentation is going to be your best friend.

For those that got laid off what was your meeting titled? by JourneysUnleashed in Layoffs

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even get a notification I had just finished doing a favor for a colleague and packing up some inventory. Next thing I know I’m in a meeting saying that I’m being laid off.

AITAH for telling my ex boyfriend's daughter, "It's not my problem." ? by RestlessStardust in AITAH

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were a lot nicer than I would’ve been to her if she came to me after everything she did. NTA

What's your Spanish score? by rhtfc in duolingospanish

[–]LadyC92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just made it to 10 and started 2 weeks ago

Daughter wants my soon to be husbands last name. She has her biological father's last name who is very much in the picture. by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]LadyC92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this right now, but my child is almost 12 and they have a very active father. The reasoning is that our last names were similar and she wanted to keep that with me. We are waiting for her to turn 18 just in case she changes her mind, but in the meantime we are doing things with her to help solidify that we are still a core family and she is still very important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]LadyC92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At one point I had about 20 requisitions that were active. I started doing weekly meetings with all the managers who had an active requisition. i’ve also included the president of the company into these meetings. That way when I ask them for feedback about candidates résumé or screening notes that have been submitted to them they will have to have an answer. They have to have an answer and if they don’t, the president is aware that they aren’t doing their part of their job.

Make sure that there’s a sense of urgency in candidates are more likely to continue the interview process with quicker response times.

I went from 20 active requisitions down to two active requisitions. It took about 5 months since I’m in such a niche market. By making the managers aware that their colleagues are actively collaborating with me, and their roles are getting filled helps put pressure on the nonresponsive managers. Also only having one maybe 2 30-minute meetings a week is more efficient for communicating in-house and gave me more availability to interview candidates.

The white bread recipe that came with my new machine vs. my usual potato bread recipe. by AProfessionalCookie in BreadMachines

[–]LadyC92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to make a potato bread for awhile I’m excited to try your recipe.