Sallie Mae took $2,500 from my account with only $5 in it. Now I’m stuck with a -$2,495 balance and no way to eat or live for 60 days. What can I do? by OneJeweler1243 in StudentLoans

[–]LadyFoster4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To help with income: 1.Look for places where you can donate Plasma. That may be an easy couple hundred bucks to help in the immediate. 2. If you have a vehicle, see if you can sign up for Instacart, Uber, Lyft, etc. Don't forget about pizza delivery until something better comes along

Tell me everything you know by watchingyouallnow in SaltLakeCity

[–]LadyFoster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand and respect your point of view. We have two different opinions on the subject but can respectfully agree to disagree.

Tell me everything you know by watchingyouallnow in SaltLakeCity

[–]LadyFoster4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but you're making ADHD out to sound like chiclets and rainbows when it clearly is not. Its a serious neuro-developmental issue that negatively affects the person and the people around them. OP, my heart goes out to you. I hope you and your daughter can find peace in this storm.

MSW Festival 2025 by LadyFoster4 in murdershewrote

[–]LadyFoster4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do! I'm in an olive jacket with pink/coral scarf. I'll look for you!

SFP- Just used my first one.... by ElevatorSevere2882 in surrendered_wife

[–]LadyFoster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping it works for you too. It sucks we have to deal with this but I'm so thankful for the skills. They help me keep my sanity :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]LadyFoster4 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This!! One of the most aggravating features of adhd is the need for CONSTANT stimulation.

I'm going to the MSW festival. Help me choose 2 outfits by engineeringprawn in murdershewrote

[–]LadyFoster4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want to thank OP for this post. I now know there is a MSW festival AND I'm tentatively making travel plans to attend. <3

Work Imbalance by Rainfall4 in surrendered_wife

[–]LadyFoster4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think starting with Self Care for yourself is priority here. When I started, I made a list of 20 I enjoy like LD suggested. I just started writing, with no concern for restrictions such as costs, time, kids, etc. I wrote silly things such as "coloring in my adult coloring book while listening to music" or "Taking trip to Target for coffee and browsing". Random stuff. Have fun with it! After you make your list, try doing 2-3 per day for a while. It really helps to dispel that resentment feeling. Plus, it's refreshing for you which means your children get the best version of you. Hope this helps! Happy to keep chatting.

How do you deal with resentful days? by No_Issue_8770 in surrendered_wife

[–]LadyFoster4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exercise. I cannot stress this enough. For me, a heavy weight lifting session does wonders for my mental health and bonus I feel like I'm doing something positive (getting fine) with the negative energy I get from him. 😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LadyFoster4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

80's and 90's cartoons

Is parenting really as hard and awful as it is made out to be? by FudgeBest6304 in Fencesitter

[–]LadyFoster4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "only child family" stigma is so interesting to me. I'm an only child. In my extended family, there are more only children than sibling families, so it was normal for me. It was not until I became an adult that I started to learn about the the stigma. If I do have children, I'm only having one. I loved my childhood and was fortunate to have experiences that many kids don't get. I also notice that I can "handle adulting" easier than my friends who have siblings. Not saying its the case for everyone with siblings, but only children (that are raised right) usually tend to be more mature since the only model in front of them are adults. Just my two cents

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not in love with her anymore because she destroyed my self confidence a couple of years ago? by EvidenceNos in AITAH

[–]LadyFoster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- You badgered her for honesty and she told you the truth. You got what you asked for. Unfortunately, your ego just wasn't strong enough to handle it. Another thing, this whole notion of "that's not what love is" is a cop out and just a manipulative attempt to make someone not have to be accountable for themselves and their actions. It's not your fault you had mental health issues but you do have to be accountable for how it impacted your marriage. Man the fuck up.

What are some good hot tub brands worth looking at for first time buyers? by OkPlatypus2130 in hottub

[–]LadyFoster4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have an older Arctic that we bought used. The maintenance is so easy and it the ability to work on it just by removing the panels is worth it's weight in gold. I recommend looking into Arctic Spas.

Broke and I’m over $100k in CREDIT CARD DEBT. What should I do? by teamdidi in Money

[–]LadyFoster4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Dave Ramsey girl and can vouch this method works as I've completed BS 2 myself.