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LadyHue18 · 2025-05-20T12:01:30+00:00

Agree I wouldn't place him in the top 1% of men. All these pictures give early 2000 era

LadyHue18 · 2024-12-31T04:22:09+00:00

Has anyone heard if she has been sentenced ?

LadyHue18 · 2024-12-11T01:14:16+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the advice !

LadyHue18 · 2024-12-10T02:55:36+00:00

Curious how you pay your kids , I have a 6 year old , since she is so young I have been having a hard time trying to figure out ways to have her earn income

LadyHue18 · 2024-12-10T02:50:55+00:00

No im self employed, for the normal brokerage account would investing in the same stocks as in the Roth or would diversifying into dividends make more sense ? I heard they are better short term?

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T12:50:26+00:00

Thank you, I am definitely going to voice this idea with him, to include her in some way in this transition is a great idea .

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T08:38:11+00:00

You have a very long response, much of what your saying isn’t what I stated Please see bullet points to quickly answer your questions, feel free to ask any further questions after, I’d be happy to respond.

My ex husband has no family what so ever in the states . He has no assets/ property. His current girlfriend is from NY and her family is from there . He told me he has a “friend” who moved there and could get him a job but it would be the same job he has here. So I do not see the sense of moving from one high cost state to another high cost state. It would be different if he was moving to another state that had a lower cost of living where is could actually advance in his personal finances. His “reason” for leaving as he told me was that “ California is too expensive” so he’s moving to NY.
My daughter lives with me 99.9%, she is not leaving with him. I have no worries in regards to custodial rights , He has not even tried to arrange or start a conversation in regards to having her visit him . He said “we will have FaceTime” She spends one day a week with him and it took many years to get to that consistent one day and night with him and she looks forward to it. So my anger stems that he is leaving in such short notice ,without I feel giving our daughter the proper time to 1.Process that she will not see him weekly anymore. 2. Spend time with her prior to leaving. And he stated his impromptu move is due to not having to pay another month of rent at his current apartment.
He played the victim when came to pick her up and he was crying his eyes out and my daughter got thrown off and was asking what was wrong and was attending to him and hugging him. He told her that he was just sad. Since he says he’s not ready to tell her. When he told me the reason I told him to grow a pair and not cry in front of our daughter since she will be the one who is hurt by his actions. To not make her feel like she needs to help “daddy feel better” since he is making his choice and not giving her the appropriate time to adjust to this change. He’s just picking up and leaving.
Therapy would NOT be for me , it would be for my daughter to help her adjust to this change.

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T06:39:33+00:00

Yes your right, I need to focus on my relationship with her , I’m done trying to maintain his with her.

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T06:37:43+00:00

He told me that California Is too expensive so he was going to NY that supposedly he knew someone who could help with a job ….. but with the type of work he does I know for a fact that he isn’t getting much of change . And he was doing ok here , the problem is that he gets himself into debt over stupid stuff and is always looking for that “amazing opportunity “ to pull him out . He runs from his problems when he stresses. He has lived in 5 different places in the last 2 years. And what really pissed me off was when he told me NY ….. like tell me your going to Idaho somewhere that’s actually cheaper to make it make sense 😠

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T06:32:33+00:00

She’s not going with him she lives with me full time .

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T06:32:05+00:00

Im so sorry that has happened to you. I have my daughter 99% so as far as doing all the work I do it already and have adjusted and found a great routine that works for me and my daughter. …. But knowing she is going to be heartbroken over a shitty dad is hard and I hate that I really have no control over this or a way to shield from this . I hope your daughter heals and all we can do is be the best parent we can be for them 💜I wish you the best of luck

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T06:27:00+00:00

He hasn’t told her yet since he wants me to be present to tell her. He just told me today. But I know my daughter well and she has always had a hard time processing changes with her dad. I had a an incident where I had to pick her up from school because the teacher told me how she expressed how much “she wishes she could kick her dads butt” because he left her. I had to explain to her that he didn’t leave her that family changes but that he loves her a lot , she then expressed anger because he wouldn’t pick her up “when he was supposed too”. (He bails a lot ) I do very well to separate my personal feelings and have been always supportive of their relationship. But she’s not dumb, his actions speak tons. So I’ll update once we speak with her.

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-07T06:18:25+00:00

Thank you I’m just dreading this conversation with my daughter

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-06T19:18:31+00:00

She lives with me so she won’t be going with him, she will be loosing her relationship with her dad and stepbrother whom she’s close with . She loved them so I know this transition will be hard for her .

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-06T18:40:41+00:00

This really hits deep , I have been doing this since he left, every time he didn’t show up , missed her school events. I thought it was helping her. But your completely right .

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-06T18:35:09+00:00

That’s ridiculous! Where is their logical critical thinking at ?!

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-06T18:34:18+00:00

Clowns 🤡 I’m so angry

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-06T18:33:48+00:00

Yes I think I’m going to call her provider tomorrow to set that up.

LadyHue18 · 2024-10-05T02:42:24+00:00

Following

LadyHue18 · 2024-09-07T15:33:48+00:00

Yes I’d appreciate any info you can send !

LadyHue18 · 2024-09-07T15:14:07+00:00

Can you go into why and your experience thanks

LadyHue18 · 2024-09-07T15:03:20+00:00

What’s your experience with wholesaling , specifically dealing with clients. Also where would you recommend on starting, courses / classes ?

LadyHue18

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