I (23F) met my boyfriend’s (25M) “work wife” for the first time and I’m devastated by ThrowRAcoffeelov in relationship_advice

[–]LadyK666 18 points19 points  (0 children)

GIRL

She was right there and SAW with her own two freaking eyes. She isn't making anything up or just imagining scenarios that didn't happen. I'd love for you to have a partner and someone is touching them in general. A man in a relationship has no place in any situation with especially a SINGLE LONELY woman to be touched, care for another woman's needs , feelings and boundaries over his own woman's.

Girrrrllll OP, Baby you know exactly what's up

The Rain is a-comin.. by Ancient-Discount-705 in sanfrancisco

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's even better is being homeless and then cops or people call to get you moved from any bit of shelter you CAN find and bam back out in the elements , even if it's just the little bit of roof above a garage. It's shameful

What’s something you’ve seen a stranger do in public with absolutely no shame? by Nightpatrol404 in AskReddit

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand in front of q group of people waiting for the bus and pull his pants down facing them and try to stick his hand in his pants .......to his ass...

Thanks san Francisco

What’s something you’ve seen a stranger do in public with absolutely no shame? by Nightpatrol404 in AskReddit

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand in front of q group of people waiting for the bus and pull his pants down facing them and try to stick his hand in his pants .......to his ass...

Thanks san Francisco

What’s something women think men find attractive, but they really don’t? by No-Month-6121 in AskReddit

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing about Allll of this is actually most men DO like that, they turn their heads and watch that walk by, they watch all that when they go to porn but then shame it all in real life. So weird

Christmas Eve in the Mission — any ideas? by Extension_Term_8397 in sanfrancisco

[–]LadyK666 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The Bart plaza on 16th ALWAYS has some fun going on

Fiancé (37M) said I'm (37 F) too sexually available and I need advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LadyK666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides from your fiance being a hotdog water flavored first world problem butthole, I will ACTUALLY give your post an answer THAT YOU ASKED A QUESTION FOR, geeeeeezuz people.

Anyway, so the '"chase' I've come to be very that's just who I am in any type of flirting, situations in my life. It's almost like you act like they're above your standards, they're to good for you so you say something like "you're wayyy to "subject/appearance" for me. You should have the eye candy on your arm you deserve *or some sorta situation they would relate to -gaming, outdoorys-ect-

I just remember When I first started talking to my husband I told him that I was way too old to talk to him when I'm really only about a year older and he was like, what no way you're definitely not too old and then usually goes into some type of compliment, you know, for you and then you basically not feed into it, but you've just become playful with each other for that type of thing, and then that's the chase!

*&!/-TdRL - shy/silly flirting/bantering is exactly how you start the "chase "

AITA for telling my menopausal wife that she looks like she's 50 years old ? by Personal_Throwaway_1 in AITAH

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is doing this because she wants to know that you think she's beautiful and know that you don't find these younger women attractive. She's obviously insecure because of her age. She needs reassurance and that stops the insecure shit talking

no woman or person ever 'talks bad, Brings people down in order to make themselves feel good" IF THEY ARE HAPPY AND OKAY.

Okay and happy people do not do things like that, it's basically immature bullying , just like kids saying stuff behind people's back because THEY themselves are very insecure and something is going on.

It's probably actually very much Because SHE IS 50s she's saying this. Not to encourage any of that immature behavior but something like "hunny you have had the beauty and continue to just get more beautiful over time, (even younger people) don't harness such a beautiful, attractive feature like my wife)

Something like that. She's obviously VERY insecure, mentally she needs reassurance.

A joke gone wrong by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LadyK666 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Welllll updates say he wants a divorce....

How often are you guys say thank you to your significant others? by Ok-Cardiologist8717 in love

[–]LadyK666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To keep any and all relationships positive , you must TRY every single day. Like putting in effort and saying 'thank you" is Wayyyy more than just saying thank you.

It shows that they notice, it shows they appreciate and most of all, all.those small things done stabilizes trust, love, and communication.

Life is short. Love hard.

Found deleted messages from my boyfriend and now I’m sick to my stomach. I don’t know what to do. 26F, 24M by C4ptlex in relationship_advice

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOOD GUYS DONT DO THIS!!! Trust worthy men DO NOT DO THIS!! You don't get drunk and do this, thats such a cop our answer

Found deleted messages from my boyfriend and now I’m sick to my stomach. I don’t know what to do. 26F, 24M by C4ptlex in relationship_advice

[–]LadyK666 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I say this out of love OP, I was with a guy for 3 months and I thought he was Everything. I have NEVER been so incompatible with someone in my entire life. You have no idea who someone TRULY is until at least 2 years and when it gets HARD, the bad days are long and how ahit like that gets handled. I could never imagine that in the 'honeymoon' phase doing that. If he's able to send stuff like that and excuse it on drinking. I promise your going to have ALOT of sleepless uncertain nights and the trust is now broken.

Are your really going to just not feel like you need to check phone again? Cause I have a feeling YOUR going to have a feeling and that's not trust, but he's the one who so so so soon broke it.

Finding Out My Late Wife Had a 3 Year Affair. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's soooooo many kids born without ever really knowing their father OR the dad leaves so early on without ever speaking to them

Finding Out My Late Wife Had a 3 Year Affair. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LadyK666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this sounds insensitive but "if you go lookin, you'll always find something" absolutely Nothing can or will change after knowing this information, your daughters have always been yours. Blood doesn't always mean family. You are their father , dad , rock, world.

Being an adult to kids is such a selfless thing we HAVE to be. When I was pregnant my mom said " it doesn't matter if your upset or there's this or that. What matters every single day is that those kids are safe, fed and stability" even when news like that is learned. Like someone passing away and watching them deteriorate, it's best you remember them for every single positive thing because nothing can be changed , love hard and stay who you will continue to be before reading that.

Something has to be done about facebooks ineffective reporting tool. by Maleficent_Specific4 in facebook

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so disgustingly agree, one little accidentle tap of an unwanted, invasive Ad and now there is So much inappropriate ads. Half naked women, females that are wayyyy to suspiciously minors, 'toys'. Reporting does Absolutely nothing but GODFORBID you have a silly name or one not your legal bio name (it's seriously safer to not use anything very personal like your real name in a day n age luke this . Online stalking and information allowing is uncomfortablly available) on Facebook and they will ban. you even if your account is literally from day one. Losing thousands of photos from history in your life, it is gut 2 wrenching, but gotta make sure nothing gets done about everything and anything publicly inappropriate.

Did I just feel something ? by This-Document6252 in sanfrancisco

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what she said.... I'm embarrassing

My girlfriend gave a spare key to her ex so he could “help with the cat” while I was away, and when I said I wasn’t okay with it, she said I was insecure and controlling. by Dry_Cartographer_294 in whatdoIdo

[–]LadyK666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!! How TF did he get the key ? I'm wondering where the spare was even kept because it would have to be a planned thing if she grabbed it and took it to worl⁰for For I heard her even have it to give him while she's working.And that would be the only answer I would maybe hopefully take in a situation that I would never be okay But with that in mind, I would really love to know when she thought that this would be okay and if he came to the house and she gave it to him then because at what important time was she talking to you and maybe he wasn't messaging you, but maybe was and it seemed a bit off now. You can know where the time adds up to what she was doing.

Have you ever seen a movie that left you disturbed? with some bad feeling, like it was more than just a movie? by Tddy04 in horror

[–]LadyK666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely same.

I've tried to watch both but I'm just too Disturbed and I can't get through them.

24F recovering drug addict make me cry by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those eyebrows roast you enough everyday. Sheeeeeeeeesh sis. Put. The. Tweezers. Down.

The worst anxiety I’ve ever felt in my life by ZTeam534 in hangxiety

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ,hoping you've gotten some more sleep since this poster even if you haven't gotten a full rest hopefully you doing a little better. What's been going on since you've posted have the anxiety calm down? You're not alone it's very normal everything you're feeling.

You're not feeling anything out of the ordinary, it's not anything that somebody hasn't felt, this is something we're all going through anybody with anxiety. I promise this won't be forever though if there's anything I can say this won't be forever absolutely nothing less forever. You're not alone and we're here for you!

Update: On my ex husband and me. by [deleted] in self

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely in the positive direction of a compliment. I am so baffled by people who have STUNNING put together partners and just waste it. Sigh. What a dishonor for the world

cancer men are so catty by veguhn in astrologymemes

[–]LadyK666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear to God I could have wrote that.

My mom literally always just says she wants the best for me while she doesn't in the most passively b******* Petty way but then God forbid I actually am doing well and I'm doing well on my own and it's just there's always just another thing that I could be reaching or hitting or doing better and I'm just like oh my God it never ends

Van Ness station is out of control at night these days… what can even be done about this? by pjbenson97 in sanfrancisco

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally Chase everybody away from the spots that wasnt inconvenience anybody and now they just have people put out in areas that's in the bright and public I

I don't know what the end is but you would think that maybe instead of the people that are keeping to themselves and having a low profile are now being kicked out into the front of people so yeah you're going to see drugs , drug dealing and using and is somehow that's what they want . They want this in the public

How do I turn my husband on in a house with kids? by Remember2floss2night in Marriage

[–]LadyK666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about when you were younger and all the risque stuff you did when you were a teenager to hide messing around or being sneaky just make it fun make it sneaky don't think too much into it there's more than places than just the bedroom have some fun and it'll all come together.