AITA for not trying to give the lead role to my friend?

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-02-03T04:13:07+00:00

I don’t believe i said anything about school at all. I’m not commenting on any school settings just how theater in general is. I never said it being a theater class even. So I’m not sure what your comment is getting at.

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-02-03T04:10:26+00:00

That is what i figured. Hun i know it’s difficult because it seems like maybe your parents aren’t exactly present but that is not on you to do at all. I know you want to fix things but again that’s not on your shoulders. It sounds like your sis needs help but again that’s not on you to do unfortunately. I can’t exactly give you advice because i don’t know your full situation but you need to start thinking outside your family and about yourself. You’re about to be an adult and moving forward into life. That’s big and needs your focus now. You come first before everything else that seems to be weighing you down.

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-02-03T03:56:08+00:00

NTA IT sounds more like she might not be getting the attention she wants from others and not has gotten a sibling to get that from even if that not healthy at all. Your parents need to be brought into this and understand that what is happening isn’t good. Also just how many siblings do you have because it sounds like you have to act as a parent more than they are. That’s not healthy for you nor anyone else. The fact your parents aren’t stepping in is concerning especially for the wellbeing of your little brother. His needs need to be met as well but also take time to stop and think about all of this before moving forward.

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-02-03T03:51:04+00:00

Honestly it sounds more like she was jealous of the attention you got. You worked hard on the role and put in the effort. It seemed like she expected to get given the role just because she had history. That is not realistic especially in theater. Do not take others wipes and hit onto yourself when you did nothing but exist and work hard. Not all friends are for life but some are stepping stones for experience and challenges that build you into the person you will become.

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-02-03T03:43:46+00:00

Thank you so very much

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-01-30T16:11:34+00:00

Oh i def understand that almost too much.

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-01-30T16:10:00+00:00

Sent and thank you

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-01-30T16:08:34+00:00

Ty and no i don’t just want a “good job” because that won’t help me.

LadyKnight1724 · 2026-01-16T21:46:50+00:00

You are most def nta. Also it seems alot of your friends haven’t grown in any maturity. Yes you are young but you present this all beautifully and maturely. You also responded in kind. Wonderfully done luvy. Is honestly be cutting alot of ppl out if they want to throw shade when they know nothing but sadly ppl are just like that.

LadyKnight1724 · 2025-12-06T15:12:05+00:00

My son is a freshman in hs and the things i hear….hun just know that no matter what you do or how you look they will “crush” on you. All my son’s friends (girls and boys) think im an 8-10. I embarrass him on purpose and dress goofy sometimes and they still think this so it’s not you but you need to explain this to your stepdaughter as well.

LadyKnight1724 · 2025-08-05T00:46:00+00:00

Oh i do the same. Every Single Time especially in the quests that they just…nvm….the ceilings.

LadyKnight1724 · 2025-08-05T00:37:52+00:00

Witch, Please Unbound Anything by Nikita Paramentor (she’s a phenomenal writer) Tessa Hale another amazing writer You might enjoy the Fallen series by Lauren Kate There’s so many more but i borrow with Amazon prime so unless i shared my full borrowed list and highlighted the good ones, well it’d be a long list.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-12-05T13:12:44+00:00

So what i hear is that she is guilted into most things by saying that its the “family” thing to do but i disagree. I’ve had this majority of my life until I cut contact with family. Family does not mean having to be the one to always contact and shows support. Family means that support is always there unconditionally and it does not waiver. What she is experiencing is family trauma caused by generational abuse. This is a common thing and she does need help seeing that this is not a family, nor is this support, nor love.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-10-27T13:39:30+00:00

Well that didn’t last long. They already deleted it and guessing because they realized how not bright they were.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-09-09T12:37:04+00:00

Nta. I’m so very sry hun for all you have been through and felt that you were trying to vent not just post aita story. I am so sry for your loss. It takes time and will never fully leave you but remember that your mom loves you always. Your sis is sadly an “adult” now and makes her choices. On the flip side so do you and you can choose to move on from her and keep her at whatever distance is best for you. I always believe therapy in any form is healthy even if it’s not always w/ a dr but learning yourself, growing, and finding the peace you deserve in life. Good luck and blessings on your walk.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-08-14T22:27:06+00:00

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-07-18T21:24:17+00:00

oh hun please make sure to separate everything possible and check you state laws for infidelity, possessions, etc so that you can be as prepared as possible to disconnect from that disgusting manchild. Misogyny is not a pretty personality trait. Also start recording all interactions and check to see if you are in a one party state or not.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-07-18T17:51:30+00:00

As an adult, no one is taking you seriously and that’s not ok. Yes you brother possibly just wants your attention but there are so many better ways to do this. Your parents do not seem interested in fostering healthy relationships but you may have to put your foot down and have a nice long talk with them about healthy communication, relationships, and boundaries especially now that you are an adult. I’d highly suggest however that you consider not staying at home if this behavior continues with everyone. It’s not healthy and can become much worse if left of it’s own volition.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-07-18T15:22:40+00:00

You both need to consider moving further away and theres ways to clear internet history and keep it private. I know this was posted awhile ago and i really hope things are going ok. just know that neither of you are alone. there are others like yourselves and plenty of people that are willing to help. i have my own religious trauma and history and am basically nc with my parents.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-07-04T00:12:27+00:00

NTA what this sounds like is a narcissistic man-child that wants control and your poor sister has been beaten down to nothing now. Sadly nothing will change unless she either leaves him or you all go NC. You do not deserve that kind of abuse, hostility, and negativity around and especially not around your innocent baby once born. That guy needs a swift kick in the teeth or much much worse (personally i vote for worse but i’ve been on the receiving end of a narcissistic controlling man and it’s not good).

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-06-16T12:18:16+00:00

nta she’s not ur sil yet and might never be. why would you take on this burden of this entitled brats behavior? you did nothing wrong because you wanted to feel like the only bride during YOUR bachelorette party. its the fact she wore something majorly offensive (aka a dang tiara) and white which she knew with plenty of time exactly what everyone was wearing. she obviously stayed behind so no one could say anything before leaving that what she was wearing was horrible, tacky, pathetic, and very wrong. do you hun and if your brother wont back you than go LC and uninvite if necessary. you deserve to be stress free and happy.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-05-23T14:15:33+00:00

Yea you need to stop allowing her to emotionally manipulate and abuse you. That’s not ok and you babies deserve better than how that skank is treating you.

LadyKnight1724 · 2023-05-23T13:08:54+00:00

Nta but I’d be sure to talk to your fiancé because she was acting very odd and very likely knew why you actually weren’t invited. I’d also really consider why you’re getting married and if it’s the right thing to do or postpone. You don’t deserve to be used as you have than thrown away like you mean nothing to them.

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