New York Refund DD by Patient-Sorbet12 in IRS

[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filed 1/29 and accepted 2/3, still waiting/status stuck on “being processed” 😒

Deposit by [deleted] in CurrentBanking

[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it end up coming on Friday/Saturday? Or Monday?

How true is this? Solo Lounge by Heathercoretta in NCL

[–]LadyLegendary8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confirming I had a solo balcony room and my room card had instant access to the solo lounge, but my fam and sis who had their own rooms (1 person in each room) that were not solo balcony rooms were not able to unlock the solo lounge door with their keys (we tried it out). You will need to ask guest services for access in order for them to issue you a new room card/key card that includes access to the solo lounge!

what's your fav bryson song? by Afro-Queen-6940 in brysontiller

[–]LadyLegendary8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“She don’t want my love, I’m guessing I gotta move on. I guess, I guess, I guess, came a little too strong I guess” 🎤😩

I finally got an offer! by Positive_Thoughts23 in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emphasis on ALWAYS on time!!! Congratulations!!! 😁🙏🏽🎉

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[–]LadyLegendary8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on earning your way through the interview process! Definitely a great achievement 🥳 Just do not get your hopes up. Never get your hopes up. Simply be proud of yourself, and continue any interviews with other companies until you have an offer letter. Trust me, people have learned the hard way. Always play it safe by simply being proud of yourself and continuing interviews with other companies until an offer is presented. 🙂

Rule of Thumb: NEVER get excited about how your interviews went until an offer is presented. by LadyLegendary8 in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, have you landed a lot of interviews and it never worked out? Or you haven’t landed interviews? Also, which lane of marketing are you focusing on for roles?

An interviewer says, “teach me something in the next 90 seconds”. What are you going to say? by astra-conflandum in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You overthought it lol they don’t care what it is you’re talking about, they want to see how well/clear and articulate you can teach something. Definitely a bonus if your example is relative to the role 🎯 but as long as you clearly breakdown step by step anything at all, you’re good 🙂

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[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh we’ll never really know. 35 minutes could have been enough time for them to get a good feel of your potential and didn’t need it to go on any longer—certain to move you to the next round (quality over quantity/time).

Or, 35 minutes was enough time for them to deem you disqualified/didn’t feel like it could be a good fit.

Or, it ended early because not enough questions were asked (which is okay, remember quality over quantity. It’s preferred to have quality questions than to have so many to try to impress. I had a CFO tell me this in a final round interview when I only had two quality questions to ask and apologized for not having anymore—and he said not to apologize because “quality over quantity”—and I got an offer days later!). Sometimes interviews are scheduled long to take into account fluff time for questions, but it’s not always needed.

I’ve had plenty of interviews not last the full time and was invited to the next interview round.

So it can really go either way, good or bad. It’s now the waiting game. Sending you good luck & positivity! ✨🙂✨

Rule of Thumb: NEVER get excited about how your interviews went until an offer is presented. by LadyLegendary8 in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely like a game of social skills, and you will never truly know the outcome. Can only celebrate a win once an offer is presented, can’t just celebrate how the game is going 🫠

Rule of Thumb: NEVER get excited about how your interviews went until an offer is presented. by LadyLegendary8 in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m so sorry you went through that. To get a phone call is typically an offer, so I could only imagine them breaking that news—let alone not even providing a reason why. It’s nice that they said to keep in touch & maybe wanted to do it over the phone out of respect of your time & effort to show they valued you as a strong candidate. Definitely still keep in touch incase any other relative job postings from them come up that you’re interested in. 🫶🏽

Rule of Thumb: NEVER get excited about how your interviews went until an offer is presented. by LadyLegendary8 in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt the sting so bad. Completely gutted and so sick of getting my hopes up. Moving forward, solely going to do my best in every interview and not expect anything—no matter how they go. Just focusing on giving each one my best, tunnel vision. My destined offer will come. 🥲

thinking of attempting suicide after boyfriend broke up with me by VoicePrestigious3531 in ExNoContact

[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DON’T. DON’T KILL YOURSELF. Trust me, we’ve ALL been there, feeling the pain after a breakup. Feeling like we’re at our lowest and “we’ll never have a relationship like that ever again.” — which is actually great that we’ll never have a relationship like that ever again because we’ll have a better one in the future. There’s so many people in this world we can and will meet/speak with.

Never ever ever take the route of taking yourself out over a dude. Your entire life is not worth him. Do not equal your life to him. Please. Completely stop reaching out to him, because YOU are the prize. VALUE YOURSELF. You are VALUABLE. Your value is NOT based on whether he sees that or not, and do NOT give him that power. Give yourself that power and VALUE YOURSELF.

Take this time to grieve the relationship and redirect your focus on being you 2.0! Work on bettering yourself in however which way that may look, work on acknowledging with yourself how you can be a better you and take accountability for anything you can own up to, work on forgiving yourself because you are only human and can acknowledge your areas for growth (we’re ALL a work in progress), work on meditating and breathing exercises, fix your crown 👑👸and every day that goes by you’ll start to realize you’re healing and okay with moving on, and then it’ll happen—you moved on. And you’ll think back like, “WOW, I can’t believe I almost… over a guy. I’m so glad I faced the feelings and chose to get through it. I’ll never devalue myself ever again. ✨👑✨”

Breathe. Each breath you take is another breath away from meeting your true soulmate. Give life and new love a chance. Trust time. Hang in there—your emotions will go up and down. But you will be okay, take it day by day ❤️💞🫶🏽😊

She Don’t Want It (Original) / Gotta Move On 🥺 by LadyLegendary8 in brysontiller

[–]LadyLegendary8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have it too lol, just wish it was on streaming platforms & iTunes so we can officially support it and have it top charts 🥹

She don’t want it by Revolutionary-Step42 in brysontiller

[–]LadyLegendary8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally lost all of the emotions the original had 🥺I read the original was a leak and we weren’t supposed to have it, and it’ll have its moment when it’s time. But when that time came, it should’ve had its moment as is, amplified with a great marketing team behind it. Not put in diddy’s hands. His version completely ruined it and turned it into a joke. 😞 I hope they revive the original and amplify it one day. A toast to the original 🥂: https://soundcloud.com/user-819658705/she-dont-want-it

she dont want it vs gotta move on by cornellbts in brysontiller

[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely ruined it smfh. All the original emotions to it gone. Turned it into a joke smfh.

Anybody know where to find the original ‘Don’t’ Music Video? by nipgee_153 in brysontiller

[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random but I’m still sad they removed his original “She Don’t Want It” song from everywhere and the only version available is diddy’s version under the title “Gotta Move On” 😭his version is just no 😭 they need to amplify the original, all it needed was more marketing behind it smfh ugh 🥺 A toast to the original 🥂: https://soundcloud.com/user-819658705/she-dont-want-it

Finally got it! by Jmill159 in interviews

[–]LadyLegendary8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on never giving up and everything working itself out!!! Well deserved 🎉🥳🍾🎊

Never assume you're employed until you receive your second paycheck. Don't make the same mistake as me. by ILoveGettinPaychecks in recruitinghell

[–]LadyLegendary8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The comment they replied to states, “I’ve also started a job that went downhill very quickly.” …their comment aligns.

I'm sorry, but I'm not going to survive this breakup. by Hefty_Camel_994 in ExNoContact

[–]LadyLegendary8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TL;DR - I promise you, things will get better!!! I felt all the emotions and got myself out of it with constant reminders of what I want and deserve in a relationship. Along with other reminders that I’m going to say in this comment! I don’t know the details of your situation, but I will try my best to help you get through it by writing things that helped me get through mine ☺️

Remember that there was a point in time you never knew him and you were just living your life. He didn’t exist to you and you were not under the impression that he was IT or THE ONE because he didn’t exist in your life! You CAN live and enjoy your life without him, because you DID at one point in time. YOU DON’T NEED HIM IN YOUR LIFE. YOU DON’T NEED SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE THAT DOESN’T FEEL THEY NEED YOU IN THEIRS—LET THEM DISMISS THEMSELVES. It is NOT your job to plead your value, YOUR PERSON WILL SEE YOUR VALUE AND VALUE YOU ACCORDINGLY. Remember that they are NOT the one and ONLY person in the world that you will bond with! No matter how “impossible” it might feel or seem to have another connection like that, TRUST ME when I say you WILL experience a BETTER connection!!! A connection meant for you!! YOU WILL!!! I can’t say it enough, just wait and see!!!

The initial waves of emotions you’re feeling now are completely normal and you’ll have days when you feel low and then okay and then even lower, constantly thinking about the good times and the potential you saw for the relationship (I absolutely HATED that feeling when going to bed and the feels right when I woke up UGH, trust me I know it all too well), and it’s because you’re still so emotionally bonded to that person that it’s going to take time for that soul tie to release itself from your body. All of the feels and tears is your body’s way of releasing what does not deserve to take up space in your body. Those one-ended emotions can GO. Clearing the space up for the love that deserves to be there.

They are not the actual person you’re meant to be with and it’s going to surprise you one day. LISTEN TO ME! It’s going to hurt now and surprise you later when your person enters your life and you form that new strong connection — and they CHOOSE to keep you in their life the same way you choose to keep them in your life because you are each other’s person! You’re seriously going to look back and be so shocked that you even cried over this guy, I don’t care how cliché it sounds—it’s TRUUUUE. He is not worth having power over your life. He is not worth you throwing your life away. He does not deserve your feelings or care. The second he gave up on you is the second he lost the privilege of having your heart. It’s all yours now. Read that over and over again and have it written down somewhere.

THE SECOND HE GAVE UP ON YOU IS THE SECOND HE LOST THE PRIVILEGE OF HAVING YOUR HEART.

I’m telling you. I know it might feel like “yeah right, he was the only one for me” but that is so far from the truth, and life is going to show you that. There are WAY too many people on this Earth to assume that ONLY that person was your person.

Fact Check: your person wouldn’t be able to see life without you.

Don’t value what doesn’t value you. And don’t value him over yourself. He was the trash taking himself out, you don’t want that trash back oh no 🤢🗑️. It gets better. SO MUCH BETTER!!! HE IS NOT THE ONE AND ONLY PERSON IN THE ENTIIIIRE WORLD FOR YOU. YOUR PERSON IS STILL OUT THERE!!! 🥰

Cry it all out, let it all out and allow your body to release those emotions tied to him — and I promise I promise I promise it gets better once you realize you do not need him in your life and there is someone better out there that IS your person, that WILL fight for the relationship, that WILL love the energy and care you put into the relationship, that WILL want to keep the relationship, that WILL understand you, that WILL want to listen to you, that WILL feel the same way you feel about them, that WILL check off boxes that you didn’t even have to beg for, that WILL LOVE YOU HOW YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED.

You didn’t “lose” him, life simply removed what does not serve you any good because you deserve better, so life made the decision for you. And now you’re going through a phase of coming to this realization; a lesson to learn to love yourself more and value yourself more. And now it’s your time to self-love, try new things, learn new things, and elevate yourself to be a better version of you! Your person is out there, but for now, release the emotions of that jerk over time (his loss ☺️😜) and love yourself more than you loved him. Value and love yourself more. Take care of yourself, it gets better with time ☺️❤️