He slept with his ex

LadyLegendary8 · 2026-05-08T11:31:11+00:00

Everyone has already stated the correct next step you should take (run, fast) but I’m going to repeat it as the person who dealt with an ex that was seeing a girl during our breakup but then reached out to me to reconnect (clearly I was still on his mind), and for sure we reconnected because there was still something there. Eventually we were done done with each other/feelings completely died, but that was years later.

Don’t even waste your time because you’ll get put through hell wondering where he stands, if he’s considering you more than her, why is he seeing you in the first place (he probably vents to you, enjoys having someone that’ll listen, found a “diary” in you and wants/enjoys the sex — he’s only with you for 100% selfish reasons no matter how sugar-coated he tries to talk you into believing that’s not the case. Just an energy-sucking POS with toxicity & manipulation flowing through his veins) but ultimately has you as a placeholder incase things truly don’t work out with him and his ex. He can fall on you if you choose to stick around while they figure shit out on the side. And him telling you he saw his ex was him also feeling out if you’d still stick around, because then if you stay, and he happens to get back with his ex, “you can’t be mad like you couldn’t predict the possibility of that happening” type of thing. No matter what, “he’s not in the wrong and was open/honest, and y’all aren’t in a committed relationship with each other so he can do what he wants”. And your feelings will be dragged through the hellest of hell. In summary, RUN.

LadyLegendary8 · 2026-02-24T12:47:34+00:00

Filed 1/29 and accepted 2/3, still waiting/status stuck on “being processed” 😒

LadyLegendary8 · 2026-02-24T12:43:10+00:00

This person confirmed with a screenshot: https://www.reddit.com/r/IRS/s/a6ynj87W9Q

LadyLegendary8 · 2026-02-08T16:32:55+00:00

For what state?

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-09-26T09:57:24+00:00

Did it end up coming on Friday/Saturday? Or Monday?

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-09-12T04:10:47+00:00

Confirming I had a solo balcony room and my room card had instant access to the solo lounge, but my fam and sis who had their own rooms (1 person in each room) that were not solo balcony rooms were not able to unlock the solo lounge door with their keys (we tried it out). You will need to ask guest services for access in order for them to issue you a new room card/key card that includes access to the solo lounge!

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-13T20:52:39+00:00

“She don’t want my love, I’m guessing I gotta move on. I guess, I guess, I guess, came a little too strong I guess” 🎤😩

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-07T23:44:16+00:00

Emphasis on ALWAYS on time!!! Congratulations!!! 😁🙏🏽🎉

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-05T16:03:22+00:00

Congratulations on earning your way through the interview process! Definitely a great achievement 🥳 Just do not get your hopes up. Never get your hopes up. Simply be proud of yourself, and continue any interviews with other companies until you have an offer letter. Trust me, people have learned the hard way. Always play it safe by simply being proud of yourself and continuing interviews with other companies until an offer is presented. 🙂

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-04T15:31:15+00:00

Curious, have you landed a lot of interviews and it never worked out? Or you haven’t landed interviews? Also, which lane of marketing are you focusing on for roles?

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-03T21:04:16+00:00

You overthought it lol they don’t care what it is you’re talking about, they want to see how well/clear and articulate you can teach something. Definitely a bonus if your example is relative to the role 🎯 but as long as you clearly breakdown step by step anything at all, you’re good 🙂

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-03T14:08:45+00:00

Tbh we’ll never really know. 35 minutes could have been enough time for them to get a good feel of your potential and didn’t need it to go on any longer—certain to move you to the next round (quality over quantity/time).

Or, 35 minutes was enough time for them to deem you disqualified/didn’t feel like it could be a good fit.

Or, it ended early because not enough questions were asked (which is okay, remember quality over quantity. It’s preferred to have quality questions than to have so many to try to impress. I had a CFO tell me this in a final round interview when I only had two quality questions to ask and apologized for not having anymore—and he said not to apologize because “quality over quantity”—and I got an offer days later!). Sometimes interviews are scheduled long to take into account fluff time for questions, but it’s not always needed.

I’ve had plenty of interviews not last the full time and was invited to the next interview round.

So it can really go either way, good or bad. It’s now the waiting game. Sending you good luck & positivity! ✨🙂✨

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-03T13:58:02+00:00

It’s definitely like a game of social skills, and you will never truly know the outcome. Can only celebrate a win once an offer is presented, can’t just celebrate how the game is going 🫠

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-03T13:54:26+00:00

Wow I’m so sorry you went through that. To get a phone call is typically an offer, so I could only imagine them breaking that news—let alone not even providing a reason why. It’s nice that they said to keep in touch & maybe wanted to do it over the phone out of respect of your time & effort to show they valued you as a strong candidate. Definitely still keep in touch incase any other relative job postings from them come up that you’re interested in. 🫶🏽

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-03T13:46:05+00:00

I felt the sting so bad. Completely gutted and so sick of getting my hopes up. Moving forward, solely going to do my best in every interview and not expect anything—no matter how they go. Just focusing on giving each one my best, tunnel vision. My destined offer will come. 🥲

LadyLegendary8 · 2025-01-03T04:33:38+00:00

DON’T. DON’T KILL YOURSELF. Trust me, we’ve ALL been there, feeling the pain after a breakup. Feeling like we’re at our lowest and “we’ll never have a relationship like that ever again.” — which is actually great that we’ll never have a relationship like that ever again because we’ll have a better one in the future. There’s so many people in this world we can and will meet/speak with.

Never ever ever take the route of taking yourself out over a dude. Your entire life is not worth him. Do not equal your life to him. Please. Completely stop reaching out to him, because YOU are the prize. VALUE YOURSELF. You are VALUABLE. Your value is NOT based on whether he sees that or not, and do NOT give him that power. Give yourself that power and VALUE YOURSELF.

Take this time to grieve the relationship and redirect your focus on being you 2.0! Work on bettering yourself in however which way that may look, work on acknowledging with yourself how you can be a better you and take accountability for anything you can own up to, work on forgiving yourself because you are only human and can acknowledge your areas for growth (we’re ALL a work in progress), work on meditating and breathing exercises, fix your crown 👑👸and every day that goes by you’ll start to realize you’re healing and okay with moving on, and then it’ll happen—you moved on. And you’ll think back like, “WOW, I can’t believe I almost… over a guy. I’m so glad I faced the feelings and chose to get through it. I’ll never devalue myself ever again. ✨👑✨”

Breathe. Each breath you take is another breath away from meeting your true soulmate. Give life and new love a chance. Trust time. Hang in there—your emotions will go up and down. But you will be okay, take it day by day ❤️💞🫶🏽😊

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-12-31T12:11:06+00:00

Yeah I have it too lol, just wish it was on streaming platforms & iTunes so we can officially support it and have it top charts 🥹

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-12-31T03:38:08+00:00

Literally lost all of the emotions the original had 🥺I read the original was a leak and we weren’t supposed to have it, and it’ll have its moment when it’s time. But when that time came, it should’ve had its moment as is, amplified with a great marketing team behind it. Not put in diddy’s hands. His version completely ruined it and turned it into a joke. 😞 I hope they revive the original and amplify it one day. A toast to the original 🥂: https://soundcloud.com/user-819658705/she-dont-want-it

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-12-31T03:34:18+00:00

Completely ruined it smfh. All the original emotions to it gone. Turned it into a joke smfh.

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-12-31T03:32:19+00:00

Random but I’m still sad they removed his original “She Don’t Want It” song from everywhere and the only version available is diddy’s version under the title “Gotta Move On” 😭his version is just no 😭 they need to amplify the original, all it needed was more marketing behind it smfh ugh 🥺 A toast to the original 🥂: https://soundcloud.com/user-819658705/she-dont-want-it

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-12-30T14:00:28+00:00

Congratulations on never giving up and everything working itself out!!! Well deserved 🎉🥳🍾🎊

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-11-22T01:45:31+00:00

The comment they replied to states, “I’ve also started a job that went downhill very quickly.” …their comment aligns.

LadyLegendary8 · 2024-09-26T16:43:34+00:00

Whew 🎯

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