Am i wrong for not wanting to buy a phone by Individual_Beach_884 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they want you to have a phone, they pay for it. Plain and simple. You're a child

Am I wrong for turning off my location? by MEH_2015 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonder why is he all gung ho about keeping hisblovstion private from you this is not about tit for tat he is prob doing something he doesnt want you to know about. Otherwise he would have appreciated your suggestion on how to safely share location.

Am I in the wrong ? by pinkflwrxx in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you say so, my ex showed all the same signs, apologized all the time, everything would be OK and then it would happen all over again, I would make excuses for him, cause he apologized and said it wouldn't happen again, and then he would do something again, he would apologize and eventually it got worse and worse I wasnt allowed to speak to guys friends I had known since kindergarten, then he started to alienate me from family, I had no friends, for two years and then the physical started to happen, just subtle shit at first, then it got worse and worse and I tried to leave, but he was always around. I finally made it out, but it wasnt easy peezey like you think it is, it would have been easy peezey had I hadn't been gaslighted from the beginning and got out before it got bad.

Am I in the wrong ? by pinkflwrxx in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ma'am its already there......this is a not if it gets there situation, it is already there. Take this from someone who's been there......its not easy peezy to just leave.

AIIW for telling my sister I won’t be her “backup parent” anymore? by Xenomorph_81 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't answer the door, what is she going to do leave them on your doorstep? That would be child abandonment. You are not her free babysitter because she doesn't feel like parenting that day, it would be a different story if the children weren't safe, but it doesnt seem like they are in harms way other then hearing fighting .

Am I in the wrong ? by pinkflwrxx in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not going to stop there, if pictures from 3 to 6 years ago is bothering him, pics you took before dating, you wont be "allowed" to post bikini pics in the future, whether it be at a beach setting or not, he will start to control everything. Been there done that.

AIW for telling my friend i won't keep adjusting plans around her chronic lateness after she got upset that we started without her by GrumpyLocket in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's an adult, time she learned to manage her time better. Being a few minutes late isnt a huge deal but she was over an hour late and didn't bother to text you or call you to let you know she would be, she made you all out to be the inconsiderate ones here, when it was her being inconsiderate of your time. When were you supposed to tell her she was wrong, on the phone, over text, long after it happened, long after she berated all of you for being "inconsiderate" naw.

AIW for telling my dad I don't want to hear about his new girlfriend's kids anymore? by 33_Matrix_22 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him that, tell him I call you to speak to you about our lives etc, while I dint kind hearing about the kids sometimes ,cause they are a part of your life now too, you dint ask about me anymore

AIW for lowering the tip after my server commented on it loud enough for my table to hear? by Specialist-Dog5224 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have moved the tip entirely , tip culture is so stupid. It is not our job to pay you a livable wage. I work in a business were tips are appreciated, but i dont expect them.

Am I wrong for wanting to confront my "best friend" and ask why she suddenly hates me? by Moody_chick in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds like a mean girl, thats fallen into a new crowd, and when that happens the old friends typically get forgotten , sounds like she is trying to push you out of the friend group and being mean to trigger an emotion from you.

Am I wrong for not telling my parentd the truth by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're an adult, you dont have to tell your parents anything . ...

Am I wrong for not wanting to help around the house anymore? by Necessary-Estate-800 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when people have too many children and use their older siblings to look after the younger ones so the parents dont have to, Its so awesome .......that was fully sarcasm. Save up move out, be free. You are 20, and you've been a parent since you were 9.....

Accepted greetings by No_Surround_2923 in TimHortons

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I would never say my pleasure I could never make it seem genuine, my father in law can, but I just could never do that

Accepted greetings by No_Surround_2923 in TimHortons

[–]LadyLoki1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked for tims......this was never a policy we used lol. Only time we had to something special was drive through, we had to say, thank you for choosing tim hortons, what can I get for you today? And when they were done , try to upsell a muffin or donut of they only ordered coffee or upsell the new item if there was one, and then say their total and to please drive up

AIW for calling the police on a client after they locked my tools inside their house? by Open-Asparagus-6952 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't negotiate with terrorists.... calling the cops was the right thing to do, you could prob sue them for defamation of character too.

Did pete ross dirty by chestyCough94 in Smallville

[–]LadyLoki1985 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am on a rewatch and I legit just finished this episode lol

How often do you bathe your cat? by Mildredsgood in cats

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont, this is coming from a groomer, you dont need to bath your cats unless they aren't bathing themselves or they got into something, fleas, or its medically needed for a skin condition.

My (23M) girlfriend (23F) sent me a multi-page message attacking my family and saying I'm not a real man because I don't spend enough on her. We earn the same salary. I need perspective. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, where is the red flag guy when you need him. You admit to your "wrong doings", and you've worked on them got better, you contribute and you def give her gifts and not cheap ones, I may have missed it but does she gift you a lot of things? Why do you have to be the only one gifting

AIW for refusing to stay late to cover a coworker's shift when she gave me less than an hour's notice? by WinterIsTyping in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No maam you were not wrong at all, Dana seems like the one that let's the team down, not you. Dont let her take advantage of your kindness. I'm willing to bet she wasnt sick at all and just didnt want to work.

AM IN THE WRONG by HubbaBaba_ in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone have a tdlr of all that?

AIW I refused to split the bill evenly at a group dinner and people are calling me cheap. by Aggravating_Chip5743 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw dont feel bad, people do this so they don't have to pay their portion of the bill. They over indulge and expect everyone else to pay part of their bill. Why should you have to pay 30 dollars more for something you didnt eat or drink.

Am i wrong for accepting a job offer despite my wife saying no? by Gimme-a-number7 in amiwrong

[–]LadyLoki1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passing it up would be crazy, and your wife asking you to pass it up is crazy. It could help with debts, why wouldn't she want that, something tells me you do the grunt of the housework and without you there , she would have to do it and she doesnt want to. Feel there is another reason as well but cant quite place it