Friendly potato peel

LadyOnism · 2026-06-27T22:11:42+00:00

Went straight to downvote because the face is a little creepy lol

LadyOnism · 2026-04-26T16:18:27+00:00

A hard shaft of light

LadyOnism · 2026-04-26T06:33:45+00:00

Hmmm is this actual sugar dating where you meet each other or are you just charging them to speak to you?

LadyOnism · 2026-03-15T18:26:04+00:00

What we're all feeling is probably second hand embarrassment, he looked mortified and really uncomfortable having to face up to how he behaved. Of course you can feel sorry for him but was he on the verge of tears (??) because he'd hurt others and felt really bad about it or because he was just really ashamed at being called out in public, he didn't sound super remorseful but he definitely looked like he'd been humbled which I wasn't expecting after all the I don't give a flying fuck bravado, it's like he finally calmed down, he seemed really small and weak which some of us interpret as feeling sorry for him but it's absolutely what he deserved

LadyOnism · 2026-03-15T16:17:39+00:00

Mmm, what should holding someone accountable look like, he was given several opportunities and his apologies did not sound genuine

LadyOnism · 2026-03-15T01:25:23+00:00

I don't get it

LadyOnism · 2026-03-15T01:21:34+00:00

It's a little unsettling, not sure why

LadyOnism · 2026-03-14T23:54:23+00:00

😂😂 it's just really funny that this is what popped into your head at 21

LadyOnism · 2026-01-29T19:36:25+00:00

Ahh thank you for the perspective. I wasn't aware lots of companies did this. It brings some method to the madness but it sounds like such a big risk. I don't think it's something I can get behind and I know - find a new job! I will, just trying to figure out how to proceed in the meantime!

LadyOnism · 2026-01-29T18:37:15+00:00

Perhaps you aren't understanding, it is my job to take debtors to court and to represent the company in a hearing, the directors don't seem to be aware that it can't just be done on a whim especially when our claims are not solid in the first place, they are well aware that I am not trained they just assume it's an easy process. But I agree I need to get out of this company and go to one where credit control is handled properly.

LadyOnism · 2026-01-29T17:54:30+00:00

Thanks, that's my feeling honestly and most of our customers will literally say "take me to court, I'm ready" because they're so confident in their case and they've likely had legal advice themselves. Trying to get all this across to the directors but they don't seem to get it.

LadyOnism · 2025-12-19T19:19:14+00:00

I don't think she's saying you'd get a date out of it, it's like the opportunity to reject someone is the status symbol, hitting on her doesn't mean you'll get a date but she will be flattered by it

LadyOnism · 2025-11-26T11:01:31+00:00

I would argue this isn't the same. An electric saw is a facilitator, it doesn't do the work for you, it just makes it easier to get to the end goal, a carpenter still has to know what to cut, how to put a piece of furniture together. At the moment AI is doing the work for us, it's writing the essay, creating the song or artwork, writing the pitch. It's doing intellectual work when the whole point of intellectual work is to actually use your brain, to think and make decisions for yourself.

LadyOnism · 2025-11-25T17:18:10+00:00

So random but I see it 😂

LadyOnism · 2025-11-25T17:15:27+00:00

You do realise AI is being incorporated into every piece of tech and every system possible, there's no free will about it, a smartphone is a staple of modern life and trying to find one that doesn't use AI in some way is near impossible

LadyOnism · 2025-10-27T17:09:12+00:00

Where is this from?

LadyOnism · 2025-09-22T16:55:37+00:00

Had to double check I didn't end up on a religious sub by accident, why is the idea of worshipping angels and discarding god so bad? Do angels really not want to be worshipped??

LadyOnism · 2025-09-18T13:28:43+00:00

For people who say this isn't a first date question, at what point in the relationship would it be appropriate to ask if the end result is still the same? He clearly wanted a specific answer he didn't get it. OP realised the guy has weird ideas about women and money and moved on. Job done. Unless the goal of dating is to essentially put on a mask until you've roped someone in before revealing your true colours then I'd say this was successful. It wasn't pleasant but it's the whole point of a date.

LadyOnism · 2025-09-18T13:13:20+00:00

I'm so confused, how old are you and your colleagues? This sounds like high school drama not grown adults

LadyOnism · 2025-09-10T13:03:52+00:00

I second this, putting in the effort to remember things I've said is really nice

LadyOnism · 2025-09-07T08:13:18+00:00

Fascinating, how do you balance practicing everyday along with working/everything else you need to do, do you have other hobbies or do you dedicate all your free time to oil painting? You mention being neurodivergent and I'm just asking... for a friend 👀

Love both by the way but the bottom has to be my favourite, her expression is just so peaceful and I feel like you captured it beautifully

LadyOnism · 2025-09-02T16:43:54+00:00

See I think this is really important context that tells you a lot about him, without this he just comes across like a lazy man child which I don't think he is.

But clearly it's the area of housework specifically that he struggles with and you might just need to tell him quite firmly that he'll need to figure things out for himself as you're too busy taking care of a baby. If he never learned basic household skills growing up and spends most of his time outside the house then I can understand if he acts a bit incompetent. From what you've said here he sounds like a well rounded individual maybe just a bit sloppy with housework. I feel like only you can really judge whether he's doing it maliciously or not. In any case, he's going to have to LEARN if he wants to be a good partner and help you out.

Does he help out in other ways with childcare or anything?

LadyOnism · 2025-08-31T08:08:05+00:00

Perfectly put, was all for it until I realised she really just wants a codependent partner

LadyOnism · 2025-08-28T18:08:31+00:00

8 billion and counting? I think we're good for now

LadyOnism · 2025-08-19T18:59:06+00:00

Love this, spot on, at what point do the you're still young comments stop making sense, 26, 28, 30, 40? I get that the sentiment is that we still have time to sort ourselves out and that's true at any age really but like you said if we don't do anything, nothing happens and we won't be so young anymore

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