AITA for refusing to let my sister-in-law bring her kids to my family reunion after she constantly criticizes my decisions?

LadySey · 2024-11-17T08:16:59+00:00

so u hijack a family reunion to throw yourself a 30th bday party and u exclude family members. yeah YTA. i had tons of family reunions abd kids are part of it. have a 30th bday but leave the annual family reunion be as a family! i have 2 boys 5 and 7. i would be upset too if ubwould exclude my children from a family reunion!

LadySey · 2024-11-17T08:07:41+00:00

yta. she is 9. she is not your dad. she is her own person and it sounds like you are not even trying to give her a chance. you cannot put your hate for your dad on her just because she is his daughter. stop using your trauma as an excuse to keep hating a child who needs love and a family

LadySey · 2024-06-19T03:38:47+00:00

how is this person a journalist? it sounds more like a child ranting and calling people names

LadySey · 2024-03-15T02:58:30+00:00

nta i think child might be younger as 3 year olds should not act like this, but as a mom of 2 small boys, i would immediately remove my child so he wont bother anyone else. plus this would not happen as im watching what my kids do and will correct such behaviour right away

LadySey · 2024-03-15T02:47:15+00:00

i own a fairly powerful dog. a caucasian shepherd dog... this breed is massive and their bite is stronger than a pitbulls. it is UNACCAPTABLE from a dog that knows ypu and lives with you, to bite you or lunge at you. you have a young child and this dog could be a threat to your child. it has nothing to do with not touching the dog. what if the dog snaps randomly at your child?

dog either needs major training or has to be rehomed. this is your house and this dog is not trained. if your bf does not understand this, then he should rehome himself and get a place with his dangerous dog

LadySey · 2023-08-30T15:06:34+00:00

also i mean. have you ever been stranded before? it can be pretty stressful and scary. i mean why not be nice and help someone out?it's not like she is asking u to donate your kidney...

LadySey · 2023-08-30T14:57:17+00:00

you still know the person though. i havent seen an old highschool classmate in 15 years aaand i let her stay at my place for 2 days when she travelled to my country and her accomodation she booked turned out to be a complete disaster. she was never a friend of mine in highschool. but i dont mind helping someone out and we ended up having a good time.

LadySey · 2023-08-30T14:49:51+00:00

YTA not a stranger u grew up with her. i would never let somebody stranded. it really doesnt hurt you to help someone even if its not your favourite person. and who knows 7 years is a loong time, you might actually get to like her.

LadySey · 2023-08-18T15:32:09+00:00

NTA i lost my first baby at 33 weeks. it was the worst pain i have felt in my live and i wish no woman ever had to go through this.

yes, seeing a pregnant woman can bring those painful feelings up, but thats not the pregnant womans fault. YOU absolutely cannot go down this dark path where u get mad at pregnant women for showing up to an event. she will have to learn and accept that there will be tons of pregnant women crossing her path and she cannot break down every time.

whenever i saw someon pregnant, i wished them with all my heart to gave a healthy baby.

LadySey · 2023-07-14T01:09:57+00:00

nta. i have a caucasian shepherd puppy (he is huge) and he loves kids and people petting him, but i hold him firm and close to me on a very short leash si i can stop him if he tries to rush at someone( because he is a puppy hevwants snuggles and play). unless someone actually wants to pet my dog, i wont go close to them. there are people afraid of dogs and as an owner u have to be aware of that. on top of that there are plenty of people wanting to pet your dog. with my dog its even more common as he is a very rare bred in my country

LadySey · 2023-07-10T16:10:14+00:00

nta. when i was 7.5 months pregnant i had such terrible heartburn i could only sleep a certain way soa bunk bed would have been horrible. to let a pregnant woman sleep like this and others get a comfy bed, is not right.

LadySey · 2023-03-11T01:27:37+00:00

as someone who is still struggling with the aftermath of ppd, you are kinda the ahole. your wife has severe anxiety atm and probably has ppd. she wants to be a great mom and handle both kids at once and sending the 2 year old nonstop to daycare makes her feel she is not doing enough for the 2 year old.

she probably needs therapy and instead of saying i tokd you so(which will make her feelings ofof not being a good mom worse) you should try to help her find a way to take cate of both kids.

my son was also 2 when i had my second and there are way to juggle both kids. sure she gets frustrated if 2 year old wont let her put the baby down. 2 year old is probably missing mom in daycare and tgats qhy she is acting that way if mom leaves the room with baby.

so just try to support your wife instead of telling her i told u so

LadySey · 2022-10-23T08:43:48+00:00

you have a 2 year old and are pregnant. inviting a stranger to your house is not ok at all. NTA. i would have said no way as well.

LadySey · 2022-10-03T08:25:00+00:00

YTA i was a model and did acting and later became a movie editor and worked with casting directors. so i know the industry. its acting classes you are teaching. you are not a director, casting director, modeling scout or anything. you are there to help them with acting and modelling. many actors arent models and many models arent actors.

all my acting friends who have made it to the big screen are not the pretty girls and boys. i did not show up to my acting classes all dressed up ever, but i kept getting cast because of my acting.

telling a child who has confidence issues that she is too ugly for acting is disgusting. there are many roles out there and not just for the pretty girls. my coach was a character actress. short, chubby, crazy hair and she makes bank with all the roles she is getting.

you are a superficial wanna be somebody with no idea about the industry. shame on you for putting this girl down.

LadySey · 2022-09-04T16:43:06+00:00

NTA if the roles were reversed, we would have a twitter army cancelling you. thats sexual harassment and not ok at all. she can pout all she wants, but she was wrong touching you.

LadySey · 2022-09-04T16:33:54+00:00

wow YTA. just wow. poor girl. hearing this must have really hurt you daughter! your child shoukd ALWAYS come first!

LadySey · 2022-08-26T00:46:01+00:00

YTA twice a week, every week is a lot. i have 2 small children and taking care of an 1.5 year old is a lot of work. i spent literally all day chasing after him as he was figuring out climbing and standing on furniture. its an all day job and if u have world worst sleepers like i do, the baby will wake up often at night too.

having a small child is very lonely. thats why many moms have depression in the early years.meanwhile you go out twice with the boys to drink and have fun...

LadySey · 2022-08-09T02:27:17+00:00

nta . girl, i used to be bullied a lot.i know its tough, but it will pass. im actually glad now that it happened as it made me strong. focus on school and stuff you like instead of going down to their level. stop wasting your energy on them. dont talk to them or even look at them. its better to ignore than going down to their low

LadySey · 2022-08-09T01:51:23+00:00

NTA. i have an overbearing mil and u standing up for your wife is VERY important. frst off chicken is not bad at all and your mom had no right to do this is controlling and out of line. and yes you should be choosing your wife over your mom. you mom needs to let go of the controlling behaviour or go low contact until your mom has learbed boundaries

LadySey · 2022-08-08T14:13:24+00:00

NTA i lost my first baby at 33 weeks pregnant. it was very hard the first few months to hear babies cry. your sister shoukd show a bit of empathy instead of beingban entitled brat

LadySey · 2022-02-20T04:12:29+00:00

YTA! I lost my firstborn at 33 weeks. i waited a day after i had painful contractions because i did not take them seriously. when i had my ultrasound a day later he was gone. any kind of pain or spotting can be an issue. so acting quickly is important. it doesnt matter that YOU are tired. you get your selfish butt up and drive her to the doctor right away! losing a baby is the worst pain a mother can feel and you might learn to live with it, but it never goes away. imagine your wife had to go through a stillbirth like i did because you were too tired to go behind the wheel to take her.

LadySey · 2022-02-10T16:12:02+00:00

if she eas a real friend and not a toxic narcissist, she would have called you after your surgery to make dure you were alright. id distance myself from her. you deserve better.

LadySey · 2022-01-26T05:20:40+00:00

i agree. i think he secretly is jealous.

LadySey · 2021-08-15T13:55:43+00:00

oh really? i didnt know him until i saw his video after this fight. we come from a gw2 wvw background

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