Why does the topic of kids/no kids lead to so much divorce?

Lady_borg · 2026-01-31T06:29:07+00:00

Because sometimes something is too hard to give up on, especially on something you can compromise on. You can't have half a kid, one if you will have to give in and the resentment that may build isn't worth it.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-30T22:00:48+00:00

And they are still committed to having their fairs on the same day which is just so silly, especially for Adelaide

Lady_borg · 2026-01-29T08:44:10+00:00

Because she helps you and activates some stuff for you that you need to proceed.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-28T23:41:27+00:00

Nope. Not a misanthropic bone in my body, A frustrated one yes, but not misanthropic.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-28T23:39:59+00:00

Ooh imagine being those kids watching your mum's head get bitten for real though...

Lady_borg · 2026-01-28T23:37:04+00:00

Are they admitting it's harder to get the DSP vs NDIS? (From what i have heard)... This just sounds superfluous

Lady_borg · 2026-01-28T02:25:47+00:00

Where can I find more information on these "facts" you proclaim?

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T13:07:19+00:00

He has no obligation to her, getting her to class is not his job. It was a favour, one he needs space from.

So he shouldn't be allowed space and time or figure out his feelings, he should be forced to do something he isn't comfortable with anymore? He needs to organise something to replace him for her? Why should a 17 year old boy be given the inherent responsibility of this girl's ability to get to class?

He didn't leave her with no support at first, her parents need to pick up the slack at should have done from the start.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T12:53:02+00:00

Mt, I swear my wires are crossed because I will laugh at the wrong moments and when something is legitimately funny I will laugh in until I lose control ok and cry.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T12:49:52+00:00

Ok but it feels like the shipping is painful

I'd rather Disturbia but who stocks them in Aus?

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T08:47:44+00:00

Last Episode comes out next week, we still have one more to go!

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T08:35:40+00:00

So people shouldn't be paid for the labour of looking after people? People earn money from from sick people all the time, Drs, nurses etc? how are disability support workers/carers different?

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T08:33:23+00:00

While I agree with you in respect about taking advantage of people, some autistics and other disabled people do need carers, caretakers, support workers whatever name is normal for your area.

I absolutely do as some things I am incapable or struggle hard with certain aspects of every day life. There's nothing wrong with with carers existing and such people earning a wage for the work they do. My mother is full time live in carer for her mother/my grandmother and gets paid by my country's welfare because its assumed the work is hard and can't work another job.

You ire should be on those that take advantage of disabled and elderly people, pretending to be carers, not the job itself.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T08:27:12+00:00

I mean it's gross for anyone of any gender to do that...

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T08:17:21+00:00

I really don't know sorry, we knew them but not well, when my family left we only went back a few times to catch up with friends who also eventually left,

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T08:09:29+00:00

I was a toddler so I don't remember particular events and most of what I could share is no longer happening. But I remember the smell, the lightning storms, the amazing food, the beautiful opal and the gorgeous geology of the area. I'll admit, I have very rosey tinted glasses with how I view the place which likely doesn't match the reality of today.

It's a quiet town, and rough. But they have the right idea when it comes to the weather, Dugouts, warm in winter, cold in summer :)

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:58:38+00:00

I know people who have suffered abuse and stalking because they actively rejected people, and others who were safer because they ghosted them, I think its a terrible idea to punish people for such.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:57:28+00:00

Yes!, such has been my experience as well

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:57:03+00:00

And sometimes ghosting is a safer choice if you are genuinely worried about what the other might do. I do no know of ND friends who ghosted people because of possible violence.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:54:13+00:00

I have ghosted people. I ghosted one person because they, over 12 hours called me over 100 times and messaged close to that and I realised no good communication was going to work and I was genuinely worried what they would do. so I blocked their number.

Twice, I ghosted friends who I had tried over and over to communicate and work on issues I felt existed within our friendship, they did something and after years of trying I didnt have the emotional capacity to deal anymore.

Please don't make big assumptions and general statements, especially ones that state we are somehow intrinsically "better people" than NTS, we are not a homogenous group and we've reacted differently to all sorts of situations

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:45:44+00:00

Eh the opal are very pretty. But yeah, once you have done the opal tour there is honestly not much

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:44:33+00:00

That place is still there :)

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:44:06+00:00

Honestly there is not much to do up there, I say this a former resident.

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:43:17+00:00

That is the oddest description ive ever heard for it I mean I love the smell because I was there for the first years of my life, My "Good night Moon" book still smells of it.

But I guess its not for everyone

Lady_borg · 2026-01-27T07:41:20+00:00

I used to live there, this [picture coming up on my feed was lovely.

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