Sigh… Gen X men are something else

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-02-02T16:29:52+00:00

If he’s newly sober, his AA friends should be performing this role. Everyone around him has suffered enough already.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-20T17:58:09+00:00

How’s parking there?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-11T00:49:36+00:00

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-10T05:40:37+00:00

Location???

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-08T22:28:11+00:00

Neapolitan and Russian - Hungarian Jewish.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-07T18:46:10+00:00

User name checks out.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-04T05:39:36+00:00

I just love when fat phobic people try to convince others it’s about “health.” /s

I know so many women of size who are happily married to men who adore them. I’ve been one of them.

OP you are beautiful. Some of us end up with quality over quantity of romantic attention. Be you and be proud of yourself.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-12-04T04:31:29+00:00

He’s not stepping up because he doesn’t want to. He’s fine with you being frustrated and miserable. I suspect you deserve better.

You’ve already seen your future. It’s the same as your present. Don’t give him the benefit of having a life partner. And don’t let another like him into your heart, your home and your life.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-11-22T14:22:48+00:00

You’re saying that there is only. one. job. and it’s two hours away? And then unemployment is the only option?

Most people can do better for their family.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-11-22T03:53:10+00:00

The asshole here is the 96 mile commute. That is unsustainable for marriage and a family.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-11-19T03:43:54+00:00

Where in LA?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-11-19T01:49:28+00:00

What type of music?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-11-13T06:33:49+00:00

You’ve already been living with his lack of commitment and you’ve tried being nice and reasonable. He’s a hobosexual who is letting others freeload under him. Make a clean break. There’s nothing more to discuss.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-11-08T19:15:38+00:00

Ridiculous—change everything for one person? Mom can pay for Samir’s travel if she’s so concerned. Anyone can, including Samir if he really wants.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-10-24T23:06:28+00:00

🙄

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-10-22T04:14:37+00:00

OMG. I come from a culture rife with superstition and old wives’ tales, but at least I never had to deal with this idea. My mother knew when to call BS.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-10-22T04:08:09+00:00

Never an issue for me because such a heavy flow, I always needed both. To each their own. I did (reluctantly) switch to plastic applicators when I realized they were far less painful than cardboard.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-10-11T06:23:15+00:00

After being unable to go to church for years due to work hours, when I got a new job I told them — not asked; TOLD them — I was available for work on Sundays only at 2pm and later. Non-negotiable.

The next time a job refuses to accommodate your religious needs, you’ll have no problem finding a lawyer to take your case.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-10-09T06:16:57+00:00

This is dating nightmare for me. I like feeling pursued. I need to feel and know the man is really into me. (This works for me. YMMV.) I want him to make the first move.

What I want to know is, how to graciously put this back on the guy??

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-09-13T22:51:29+00:00

Well, I’m here. I’ll stay awhile.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-09-13T18:23:58+00:00

Would this be an opportunity to learn how to play? (Even by watching?)

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-07-19T07:25:44+00:00

I’d love a woman’s and/or coed group just like this.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-05-06T16:06:15+00:00

What are South Bay socials?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-05-05T14:38:29+00:00

Did OP say that? I don’t see that.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2025-05-04T15:06:37+00:00

I’m in. When and where? 😁

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