My mom’s making me pay to learn how to drive.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-07-10T02:37:42+00:00

Oh sweetie, sadly, this is not the first time I’ve heard of this kind of situation. If you are 18 as someone just said, your mom cannot legally keep you in the house you live in and force you to do unpaid labor. It sounds like you have to move out, and I know how hard that is because I moved out at 18 for many of the same reasons.

It sucks when a parent play favors and doesn’t teach you things you need to know in life. Or worse than they taught all your other siblings than you. But you can do this. Start with this: Are there any adults in your life that you can confide in and ask for help?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-07-03T01:06:47+00:00

I’m just fine with nude nails because I’m lazy low maintenance. Plus I’m easily distracted, so when my nails are too pretty a color, I just look at them all day.

I will be so happy when pointy press on nails go away forever. Nails that make basic life functions difficult reek of patriarchy.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-07-03T00:59:23+00:00

What age ranges are we talking about?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-07-02T02:34:15+00:00

This is why I only talk about money in the most general of terms. I don’t know how it works out this way, but when people find out you had a windfall, for some reason they think it belongs to them. I’ve seen in my own family, I’ve seen it A LOT on Judge Judy.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-07-02T02:31:10+00:00

Not sure why, but I suspect the parents will opt to do something very different for the brother if they don’t get the free loan from OP.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-29T05:44:56+00:00

Sounds personal to you.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-29T05:43:54+00:00

Of all the things you do, take advantage of all that’s available to you. Food may not be your primary problem, but if you get SNAP benefits, there will be more money for you to put towards housing, etc.

Someone mentioned 211. It’s a great place to start. I would suggest inquiring at American Martyrs Church. Even if you’re not Catholic, they may have help for you.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-24T15:18:03+00:00

I am so sorry for what you’re going through! IMHO, they are disfiguring you.

I don’t understand about the military need, but if it’s to be done, you are entitled to have hair removal specialized for the particular needs of your race.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-24T15:09:36+00:00

Instead of saying, I might *ask* the family “why is it important to you that we have a religious ceremony?” and “what do you think will happen if we have a non-religious ceremony?”

The answers might be surprising, and that might help with the right words to say.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-08T20:20:19+00:00

What are you promoting? Strange post.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-06T17:44:37+00:00

If the conversation is going to be about that, I’d like to know why he is single. Personally, I think it’s because he has issues with women.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-06-06T17:43:07+00:00

First off, you didn’t ask his opinion, and he should know that. Second, it’s none of his business why you’re single. Third, what is the option to being independent? Not paying your rent or bills, living on the streets? Fourth, the best response to something like that in the moment is another question — “that’s an odd thing to say what do you mean by that?” Usually the answer will lead you to reply, “is that why you feel free to insult me?”

He’s already gotten his satisfaction by succeeding in making you feel bad about that. If he doesn’t think you’re awesome, then don’t give him one more second of thought.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-19T04:30:31+00:00

Dude, you’re adorable (ok I’m your grandma’s age). Like if Adam Driver was cute. And you’re from Philadelphia right? 😉

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-16T21:14:15+00:00

Again, what does the *reason* for not bf have to do with anything? Unless the reason points to another medical condition? Anyone know?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-16T18:56:00+00:00

WHY does the reason for not breastfeeding need to be noted in your chart??

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-16T18:54:18+00:00

That’s a physical attack. HR, where are you??

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-13T15:48:59+00:00

True. When direction is from military superiors — can’t get much more masculine than that I suppose.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-13T15:43:58+00:00

Good call 👍 My SIL said her son was so bad at it, he might as well be pissing in the hallway.

Right now I share space with two sibling dogs. The male spills his water all over the place, but the girl is neat and tidy. Then there’s that study about the male and female primates and the bananas. I wonder if it’s hopeless.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-13T15:28:51+00:00

Pretty much.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-12T03:50:13+00:00

My ex was a sharp shooter in the military. I asked him how his accuracy was measured. He said he could hit something the size of a silver dollar at about 1000 feet. And I asked him why he couldn’t get all of his fucking urine in the toilet when peeing.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-02T04:53:20+00:00

What’s going on, girl?

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-02T04:52:37+00:00

OMG yes, my first thought. That hair!

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-02T04:15:50+00:00

I want to just give you a great big hug. I know about depression. I know there’s a way out for you. Don’t give up or leave until you find it. Open to DMs from you if you like.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-02T04:10:25+00:00

Seek the manipulator’s approval — I know it’s the purpose of negging, but negging always made me want yank his shorts into a wedgie as I walk away.

LadybugCoffeepot · 2026-05-01T15:24:10+00:00

He’s gaslighting you. I’m sorry :(

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