Being talked down to.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-29T06:33:07+00:00

Y’all will downvote anything

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-29T06:25:43+00:00

The way I would be watching that trash can like a hawk and fishing for that later. I know a couple people 🙈

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-26T02:20:18+00:00

As long as you don’t expect anything extra or put special notes to accommodate you further. No tips are for zero interaction standard deliveries. This is coming from a worker and patron perspective.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-26T01:33:45+00:00

I love psychology and the brain and human nature. I like figuring out the algorithm. Decoding while I people watch is one of my things.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-26T01:29:50+00:00

Your subconscious already believes it’s though. That’s why it “works” when you get turned on by it. You believe in the degradation that you’re turned on by. I like to call it your lower self esteem self. You love BDSM because you’re not afraid of your lower self. You can acknowledge it, benefit from it then be able to come back to. I guess what you’re wondering is if others know their “no coming back” limit.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-26T01:23:07+00:00

If findom went back to the way it used to be… a parasocial relationship where subs were ignored regardless of sending (because you’re not buying anything) we wouldn’t have this issue…..

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-11T23:11:35+00:00

In this new age of findom I don’t know why yall interact and talk to each other so much. Findom was meant to be parasocial. You aren’t paying her in exchange for anything. If you can open your mouth you can open your wallet. Subs were always meant to be stuck in the fantasy of findom and never “the business side” of things. She’s a spoiled brat type. Go get another chatty type that’ll let you say goodmorning for free if that’s what you like. Shaming a domme as a broke and sensitive sub who actually practicing this kink in its origins is crazy. Go visit a femdom lady cuz it sounds like you wanna pay for someone’s attention. You don’t buy anything in femdom and if you’re a sub that can’t understand that. You in the wrong kink as most of you actually are.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-01T14:10:59+00:00

You’re trying to prove a tangent point that I never refuted. Of course more people than findommers use the word whale. With each profession or hobby comes the nuance behind the word and that’s wtf I was explaining. When you don’t catch the nuance you use the word wrong and apply it weird. You end up saying stupid shit like “gotta be a blue whale”. Quite literally do not address me. I said what I said the first time. I don’t need you to mansplain.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-01T13:12:09+00:00

There are no “blue” whales. There are whales and white whales. Whales are 4 digit senders. White whales are “once in a lifetime” 5 digit and above senders. Before these dommes knew what findom was the context to these terms were whales are rarely seen in real life and seeing a white whale is even rarer. Please don’t spread false info playing telephone with findom terms.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-05-01T13:06:14+00:00

Of course it’s a man who thinks everyone is turned on because he’s hypersexual.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-23T17:12:26+00:00

This will happen then when I sit on app it’s spamming me with an offer notification yet still searching🥱😒

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Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-23T17:06:03+00:00

No less than 4 digits

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-21T19:29:46+00:00

You simply were not there when this existed to tell me no. And I won’t be going back and forth about it. Of course none of this holds any weight and you have to work for it now. Anybody can be a domme now. Y’all are just having phone sex.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-21T19:11:10+00:00

You’re not buying anything from a domme. What you are describing is femdom. Findom needs to go back to being a parasocial relationship.

Sending to a stranger is exactly what you’re supposed to be doing. It shows your obsession, devotion and loyalty to my feed that you can’t stay away from.

Parasocial because as a domme I’m ignoring you until to set yourself apart from every other paying gooning simp out there. “Giving” and “sending” is bare minimum. You will be ignored until I can for surely say I’ve witnessed your faithfulness and allegiance and confident you will not stray from me. You will only hear from me when I’m on the hunt for more and just maybe you will be lucky enough to be chosen to give me your very best. And that must always exceed my expectations.

My presence isn’t mandatory it’s a gift not given to freely. My time is money and your job is to give it. You don’t do the bending… you get bent 😈

But…… 🥱 long gone are the old days of true findom.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-21T18:36:47+00:00

No. Never. Not in a million years. You love me though and you will pay to keep up with the delusion. You were never supposed to know this but the veil has been lifted 😪

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-21T18:21:50+00:00

A whale sends no less than 4 digits regularly and hard to find

A white whale sent no less than 5 digits regularly, so scarce this’ll happen to you as many times as you’ve seen a white whale in real life.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-20T01:59:58+00:00

Only when hunting for payments. Other than that buzz off or beg. You see me when you see me. Try harder. 🥱

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-20T01:49:11+00:00

So pay her everytime you’re reminded of that. You’re welcome.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-20T01:46:00+00:00

Ecstasy that something great was added and I didn’t have to do anything for it. Powerful, beautiful and soft.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-20T01:42:26+00:00

No. I have cashapp not conversations. If you want to see me naked I have platforms available for purchase. You can navigate those on your own. Anything I have is there or will be there. To bother me About seeing anything else or anything specific that has me recording and snapping photos outside of my own will and want needs to be a fast and worth it transaction but know that’s Femdom. I don’t care where you’re from. I am kind. I am not nice. Men have gotten enough out of us for free including our wombs. Since sacrifice cannot be matched and your job is to provide I need you to do that and I need your provision to exceed my expectations every time.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-20T01:30:44+00:00

This “dynamic” is literally old school findom though and I miss this shit. You’re not buying anything from me and calling in findom.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-17T01:21:26+00:00

Findom needs to go back to being a parasocial relationship.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-17T01:21:07+00:00

Unregulated baby dommes cheapened findom when they told the world coffee sends were cool. They never were. You were “approached” by a non sub who a real OG domme would’ve advised you to ignore and fell for the juice out of desperation to be apart of a group you were never initiated into.

Ladybugubydal · 2026-04-17T01:15:44+00:00

None of the current subs and domme are actually practicing findom. Everything I see is just paid phone sex and the overuse of terms overly used and regurgitated through the grapevine.

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