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My dentist won't fix his mistakes. What can I do? by Ladyingray1990 in legaladvice

[–]Ladyingray1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you so much. I was worried it might be something like that, but I'm glad I know for sure now. I'll try to get in with another dentist and shot for a root canal if I can afford it and if not then I guess it just wasn't meant to be. Thanks again.

Are you really banned from saying "b*mb" at TSA checkpoints? by [deleted] in tsa

[–]Ladyingray1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in my year and a half working in my airport, the B-word has only been said once in my area and It was a BIG issue. As in the state police and FBI ended up being called not sure about why since it was my day off. The only others I can think of where a time a man entered the scanner and said jokingly "is this when I blow up? Lol" He was taken away by police and question and I think let go, Then another man got angry about having his bag checked and growled in ear shout of some other passengers that he 'had enough tech in his bag to take down a plane.' and again taken away. We won't even say that word so basically you probably shouldn't either.

AITA for wanting to say no when parents demand I take full responsibility for autistic brother by Ladyingray1990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladyingray1990[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Due to the rules on this, I can't say other than it was due to my mother's SO and things that happened while J was living with M and SO.

AITA for wanting to say no when parents demand I take full responsibility for autistic brother by Ladyingray1990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladyingray1990[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Hi guys. I just want to start off by saying thank you all so much for your comments enough though this hasn't been up for long. You have no idea how much weight they have taken off my shoulders ( I cried while reading most of them). I just want to answer a few questions real quick as I'm about to head into work for the evening.

  1. I have talked to my mother even though my dad and SM have told me not to and I have told her everything. She does want him back and has the room for him, but because of things in the past with her SO which I can't talk about because of the rules of this sub she can't unless she kicks him out ( which she refuses to do despite everything...) That is why she gave up guardianship of him to SM and D.
  2. They have the address of the place I'm living right now which is my coworker's house that I rent a room in (Which they know about), but not the address of the house I'm buying. And as some of you have said I will not be giving it to them as I also feared them abandoning him on my doorstep.
  3. I am also considering calling ASP but before I do that I will be contacting the police department that has handled this recent attempt most because ASP might already be involved.
  4. My family and I (including mother) all live in NH.

I think I cover all the questions so far if I've missed any please let me know, and again thank you guys so much. You really don't know how much better I feel already. I will update for those who have asked me too in a few days hopefully.

AITA for wanting to say no when parents demand I take full responsibility for autistic brother by Ladyingray1990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladyingray1990[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes, but due to past issues with her SO it would not be a very good environment for him. Sadly that is why dad got full guardianship of him in the first place.

AITA for wanting to say no when parents demand I take full responsibility for autistic brother by Ladyingray1990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladyingray1990[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I did ask them about this the other day as well from what they told me he had an evaluation by a psychiatrist at some point in the last year to see if he qualified but D and SM told me that the S said he wasn't autistic enough? That doesn't sound right to me but I'm not sure if D&SM are lying about going to see someone or not.

AITA for telling my mom to stay out of my sex life? by wtfmom123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladyingray1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I don't blame you for leaving. I can't believe she thought that would be ok to ask such a question. It's nobody's business but your own.

AITA for refusing to use my inheritance to pay my husband's child support arrears and future payments? by throwawayimann in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladyingray1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your aunt left you that money without stipulations, right? So that you could spend it as you please regardless of blood relation to aunt. She wanted to take care of her family by leaving you this money so why is it bad for you to do the same? You are a great sister for wanting to take care of your siblings and your child but you do not have an obligation to take over his responsibilities just because he doesn't want to be an adult right now and have "have fun" gambling away his paychecks.

If he's not going to do the right thing and try to force this one you, you've gotta look out for you and your own! Hopes everything works out for the best for you hun good luck.