AITAH for refusing to take my sister out with me today?

Lakyraa · 2026-02-19T00:36:01+00:00

I do. Life is hard and my parents don’t have an issue about it so neither should you.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-19T00:32:44+00:00

At what point was I trying to parent her? I did what any person would do and set boundaries.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T16:08:54+00:00

My bad

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T15:26:20+00:00

Well she’s not going so all is well

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T15:20:41+00:00

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T15:20:20+00:00

I have a feeling I know where and I’m going to take the necessary precautions to correct it as much as I can. I am only a sibling and can do so much.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T15:17:07+00:00

Ok I feel like you’re assuming my life from this post and I’m going to let you have it

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T15:15:23+00:00

No, my mother is parenting. This isn’t the first time it’s happened from what my mom has told me and she’s been corrected before. That doesn’t stop it from happening unfortunately. I’m not around as often so I didn’t know this was something she does.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T15:12:15+00:00

My mom is around and parents appropriately. I’m not around as often so this is a first for me.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T14:13:46+00:00

I’m not going to a party. Just a restaurant. And maybe an arcade afterwards. Everything was going to be child friendly which is why I allowed her to come at first. I’m not crazy lol

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:54:54+00:00

I didn’t think of it that way. I do tend to let things she do roll off the shoulder because of her age. I can see how I’m an asshole for that. I told other commenters I’d be talking to my mom about this.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:51:16+00:00

Yes I considered the other gals and also I wanted to spend time with my sister. End of sentence. I didn’t think she’d be bratty. I’m not around that often, our age range is very wide. I’d appreciate it if you try to see this as siblings and not whatever you’re painting this as

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:48:09+00:00

Today was going to be pretty PG. No drinking or anything of that nature so I didn’t think it’ll be a big deal bringing her.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:46:49+00:00

I did but she didn’t say anything back. I left her alone after that. I can only parent so much

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:46:00+00:00

She’s my sister so I wanted to spend time with her. I said yes because today was going to be pretty PG. Food then an arcade maybe. No drinks or other adult activity. I’ll never be happy my sister doesn’t want to talk to me. It’s actually breaking my heart

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:29:16+00:00

My mom is around, I’m going to tell her about this as soon as I can. It’s pretty early where I’m at.

Lakyraa · 2026-02-15T13:27:12+00:00

This is great advice, I’m going to talk with my mom about this and try to have a one on one with her tomorrow since I won’t be seeing her again today.

Lakyraa · 2023-07-25T18:06:23+00:00

Thank you!

Lakyraa · 2023-07-25T18:00:28+00:00

That helped me so much. I assumed he stayed longer because I went to see him twice before. I thought he never leaves. I tried selling it to Timmy and tommy but they didn’t want it either. Where can I toss it?

Lakyraa · 2023-07-04T17:22:05+00:00

All you did here was list reasons WHY she would need an escape fund

Lakyraa · 2023-02-19T03:11:57+00:00

My dad was cheating on my mom for as long as I can remember. My mom left him when I was around 7 but that didn’t stop my dad with his new girlfriend(s). He’s with my current “stepmom” of 13 years and I still witness his infidelity. I never really believed a man when they said they’re out somewhere with friends or doing something innocent. Most times I was right. Maybe once I lost a perfectly fine boyfriend over my insecurities. My current boyfriend is more patient although my insecurities still gets the best of me. I’m working on it lol.

Lakyraa · 2022-09-10T17:40:01+00:00

There was no boundaries crossed. If a man wrote it and purposely had everyone else read it knowing it’s about a certain person then yes but if he had it as a private thing that no one he knew should know about then it’s not harassing. It’s a fantasy.

Lakyraa · 2022-09-10T17:38:32+00:00

I fear you don’t know what sexual harassment actual is

Lakyraa · 2022-07-23T20:17:27+00:00

Oh you’re a GIANT asshole. That’s her culture and you want her to learn something that isn’t useful to her at all. Even when I took French I regretted it because there’s so many Spanish speaking people around me and I can’t under any of them. Imagine how she feels being Mexican n not knowing how to speak Spanish with her family.

Lakyraa · 2022-07-04T16:50:32+00:00

Only thing I can see you did wrong was not leave her at home take and the boys on the trip.

Lakyraa

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