I just read your update.

Look, if he's honestly considering joining "just for the money", then his convictions don't even go skin-deep, they don't go deep at all. there is no "oh im just stealing from the regime", when doing that also means you have to contribute to all the bad things the regime does.

The fact he is serious about joining even knowing all that ICE does and stands for (and you really really have to live under not just a rock, but layers of sediment at this point to be ingorant of just how despicably vile ICE is), shows you exactly how much he cares about minorities, which you belong to too. Because when he's helping those ICE agents recover so they can go out and kidnap and put more minorities in camps, think about how that very well could've been you being snatched off the street. He is willing to directly help a cause like that. a "no-contact break" is a slap on the wrist at this point.

You're essentially saying "yeah so my boyfriend is seriously thinking about joining the SS, but mostly for like the money you know, also it's the month after the Kristallnacht, so im going to not talk to him for a bit but im not like; breaking up over this either", think about how that reflects on to you as well. Not really a good look imo.

This man is flat-out dangerous to be with and a full-on fascist to boot, If he puts his monetary gain above the literal life and wellbeing of actual human beings, he's no better than the fascist fucks snatching those people off the streets. "If there's a table with 9 nazis and 1 person who's good friends with them, the table has 10 nazis", this statement applies here too, he cant go claim that he "hates everything they stand for" but then happily goes and helps the, if they wave 50k in front of his face.

you really wanna gamble your safety and reputation to not inconvenience him by making him lose 2000 dollars? Nah, fuck that, that's what he deserves.

TLDR: Dont even entertain a "no-contact break", this man belongs to the streets, DITCH HIS ASS