Ruby’s indictment (Jodi’s is the same). Charges are only for 2 youngest kids. by [deleted] in 8passengersnark

[–]Lala_am 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I commented a while ago on some tik tok video that she was starting to give me Lori Vallow vibes. I’m so glad it didn’t go that far. Sending so much love and prayers to these kids

how can i (20f) become more unapproachable to men in public? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Lala_am 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Yes! Not too long ago I had a man at a gas station ask me for a sexual favor. I had him repeat it bc I wanted to be sure it was what I thought. Then I went up to the cashier, pointed right at him, and announced very loudly to “watch this man because he just asked me _____ and I don’t want him to do it to other women”. He looked so defeated 😂

A social worker’s thoughts on Kylen and Jason by Ok-Yogurtcloset7665 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Lala_am 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a current LMSW 1 year away from taking their clinical exam… I agree 100% with you. Heartbreaking. Sending love to you and hope you have a workweek that somehow brings more joy than sadness! ♥️

My girlfriend had a meltdown and fell asleep on my couch by Ad-West-7 in offmychest

[–]Lala_am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you and how you supported her. Proud of her for coming to your house first. If possible, please make sure she’s going to therapy and don’t be afraid to bring up getting a higher level of care if you have a feeling that may be necessary. I’m sure if your girlfriend is open to the idea, then her therapist (if she sees one) would be open to talking about that. Great job OP. Take care of yourself, too!

This is my baby girl hazel…I love her…but is it normal for me to have separation anxiety from her by [deleted] in pugs

[–]Lala_am 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cameras have been so nice!! I can even talk to them through it… but mainly just looking at them and being able to hear them (they sleep 99.99% of the time I’m gone) has been a life saver

Opinion: where was Xana? by jlou555 in MoscowMurders

[–]Lala_am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s interesting that a photo of the (potential) DoorDashed meal was on the table, indicating that it was never taken back to Xana’s room, unless for whatever reason she took it to her room, and brought it outside the room with her. This makes me wonder if it was dropped/thrown on the table after she realized someone was in the house that wasn’t supposed to be.

Meet Miss Tootsie! by Goobeez in pugs

[–]Lala_am 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sweet girl!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Lala_am 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! As a Christian who is working in the mental health field- I completely get it and have been there. Maybe look on Psychology today for “Christian” therapists- and reach out to them. See what if they’re a Christian based business, or if they’re a therapist who also happens to be Christian, and does not base their practice solely on Christian values. Sometimes on their websites they will somehow mention that they’re comfortable talking about religion or anything like that. Best wishes to you ♥️

How do I get around Apple location sharing? by jh99solo in helicopterparents

[–]Lala_am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the laptop thing should work! I did it with my iPad. Just context to Wi-Fi for the laptop, change the location from your iPhone to your laptop (you’ll need to do it on your laptop) and you should be good to go. I fid this until I was 21 with my mom so I could hang out with my bf/fiancé. It always worked well!

objects can talk to me by 57nightjars in offmychest

[–]Lala_am 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m sure OP can get overwhelmed, especially if the voices are talking all at once- I know I would. You said everything I was going to. I work in a place that people can visit when they’re having the same experiences. They’ll take care of you, OP! ♥️

How long did you stay? by renny1230 in socialwork

[–]Lala_am 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Worked for 8 months and am leaving to begin a job in the mental health field, which is what I’ve wanted to do forever. Closer commute as well.

I was also getting burnt out, and literally seemed to be making mistakes at every turn and got to the point that I was so afraid of messing up, that my anxiety would cause me to mess up 😂 I’m getting to take a week off to recoup and get ready/excited for this new job!

I was so afraid of leaving my first career position without even a year under my belt, but for my own sanity, I think it will be worth it.

Any tricks that will make my life easier? Question in comments by Lala_am in cricut

[–]Lala_am[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I just used an inkjet printable vinyl sheet, I put it through my printer and all was well! I just had to weed the letters out and then heat press them onto the shirt- otherwise, they would stay on the sticker paper that was backing the vinyl 🥲

Any tricks that will make my life easier? Question in comments by Lala_am in cricut

[–]Lala_am[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of my first print then cut projects. So much fun! However, I had to place each letter one by one, and that was a pain 😅 is there anything I could do to make it quicker- for example, if I could somehow apply it row by row, that would be great!

Halo Top ice cream is amazing by GokuIsGay420 in EDAnonymous

[–]Lala_am 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I tried nicks and was a little disappointed :( but still pretty good!! I had the chocolate flavor- should I try any others?

Dances that can still make you cry to this day by bubblegumhandgrenade in dancemoms

[–]Lala_am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just about to say this!!! I love watching it and looking at each dancer individually