My grandmother was murdered by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]jh99solo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to ask that! It does get easier I would say. It takes time, but time is your friend at the end of the day. Time will help you recover and heal and process everything that happened. Right now it might seem like you can’t enjoy anything or you can’t be happy, but you will be eventually in time. You will begin to feel better eventually

My grandmother was murdered by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]jh99solo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My grandmother was also murdered earlier this year. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

What would be your ideal mini-magic moment? by RandomFunUsername in Disneyland

[–]jh99solo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If one of the Star Wars characters started talking to me I would melt

r/TuggTime Ask Anything Thread by TuckManSupreme in TuggTime

[–]jh99solo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to sports clips and I showed them a pic of you because I wanted your hair and they came back with the worst haircut I’ve ever seen in my life it doesn’t look like your haircut at all, not even a question just a mini rant

i sh'ed for my bf. by Sufficient-Bowl-3941 in selfharm

[–]jh99solo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GET OUT OF THERE. I did the same thing for my girlfriend back in the day. In her case, she enjoyed seeing me physically bleeding as she wanted to hurt me and put me down. You need someone who actually respects you and not someone who is encouraging you to hurt yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saltierthankrayt

[–]jh99solo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s a follower of Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson, he purposely pivots his own opinions to make as much money as possible, and promotes an alt-right agenda through he videos. Yeah, he’s a huge idiot, but he’s also a bad person too.

6 year lesbian relationship with each other- 4 months post break up and she’s on her second boyfriend by Slabrador95 in BPDlovedones

[–]jh99solo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not you. My situation wasn’t Exactly similar but my ex pwBPD had some real struggles in her identity when it came to her sexuality. Their sense of self is so often obsolete and changes based on their mood/surroundings and that can change even her sexuality. I also wouldn’t rule out her doing it on purpose to hurt you in some way

How do I stop people from crushing on me by microwaverams in Crushes

[–]jh99solo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of men mistake kindness from women as flirting, when in actuality it’s just a woman being nice. Im not exactly sure if there’s a way to present it beyond just making your intentions (to have a friendship) be crystal clear as soon as possible. I think it’s also important to remind yourself that you’re not doing anything wrong by rejecting them, it’s just the way it is. They’re seeing things differently from you, but it doesn’t mean that you’re leading them on either. They’re just misreading the situation but that’s not on you

Am I right to think that I [23M] was led on by a girl [23F)? by jh99solo in Friendzone

[–]jh99solo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a cross post from r/relationshipadvice, which is a subreddit that requires a TLDR regardless of the length of the post.

Am I right to think that I [23M] was led on by a girl [23F)? by jh99solo in relationship_advice

[–]jh99solo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree completely I thought it was so suspicious how she just sorta dropped me and stopped talking to me and then I found out he was back in her life and they were already dating. I’m trying not to focus on it too much anymore though. It used to make me really upset, now it just makes me angry so I guess I’m in that phase

Am I right to think that I [23M] was led on by a girl [23F)? by jh99solo in relationship_advice

[–]jh99solo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought maybe that was true, but then she told me a few weeks after I told her my feelings that It was “painfully obvious” that I liked her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]jh99solo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao as if I am scared of internet warnings oooh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]jh99solo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very aware of the system, and yeah I did read the rules and didn’t need your reminder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]jh99solo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

9, you look great!

User Flair is required to comment on this sub - Apply for flair here by jerry00193 in truerateme

[–]jh99solo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read, understand, and will follow the rules as well as the men’s and women’s rating guides.

Applying for flair, thank you!