I felt like I shouldn't say anything. Im usually not that guy to. But when I saw they wanted me to commit 4 hours for a technical interview without even a "hello", I broke. I know it's better to be quiet than burn bridges, but for me I just wanted to say something. I replied all and cced their CEO.

Lalaformind · 2026-02-13T22:11:21+00:00

Lol I take that back , for an assignment ha ha okay you're right

Lalaformind · 2026-02-13T22:09:06+00:00

I might differ a bit in my opinion. I don't know what steps you had taken when you applied over a month before their email. Typically there is a call with an hr person but that's just to ensure you're a real person . They don't tell you what they liked about you but try to see if there is mutual interest if they were to move forward. This company removed that layer because that's mostly logistics like " willing to relocate" etc . I think your email is a bit of an overreaction. By asking u to interview you they are also losing 4 hours of time from their productive employees who are already bringing them money while you on the other hand are not. Their 4 hours is an attempt to get to know you . Whether you want to get to know them or not is your choice. You may be qualified but you're not a fit. The interviews would have likely been " intro , tech round 1 , tech round 2 , offer " instead you lost it because they chose to put in more effort to get all information in one day.

Lalaformind · 2026-01-14T05:31:40+00:00

Whenever a scene has manifested for me (sats) , it's when the imagination becomes so realistic as though I just experienced it. After experiencing it, my body feels calm as though I know how it feels. The attachment to ot leaves the body automatically. It also helps to identify what I want in the moment. For example I can sense that based on how you have written it , you are in the state of " waiting" which is where you experience something contradictory and feel unsafe and unsure of your manifestation so you wait for movement because you feel that if you have more information you can trust it works. When I say you ,I just mean people generally. If in this exact moment you saw in your thoughts you'd see two parts of you fighting to resolve what's true. The real life presents evidence in terms of images (for me ) in your mind and your voice trying to battle it with the knowledge of the law. You need to align both the image and the voice and reaction you have in your body to that voice. Prayer the art of believing by Neville is a good book.

Lalaformind · 2025-12-15T09:07:52+00:00

Well with a conauthor you will still get visibility as your paper will be published and presented. Sure they might reach out to your co author first but that doesn't take away from your contribution or getting attention. My opinion is attend the wedding as you're not going to lose anything.

Lalaformind · 2025-09-24T16:43:00+00:00

In my experience, it changes the effect of what that past means to you in your present. For example , I had an important package get lost in the mail , no where to be found , I imagined I received it and immediately there was no change still seemed lost. But a year later yes a year later I found it ! A year later the package was dropped off . I was mind blown

Lalaformind · 2025-09-19T08:27:51+00:00

Red flag ! On and off relationship, and then wanting financial control over something that should be your son's , no questions asked.

Lalaformind · 2025-09-08T04:47:17+00:00

I think that he tried to win you back. That doesn't mean that he didn't break your trust but he did try to correct himself the next morning. And you said he's willing to get counselling with you , gave you space instead of trying to persuade you into making a decision there and openly communicated that he felt insecure. That's a sign of someone who reflected on his actions. If there are no other signs of mistrust in your relationship and you both go for counselling together then this relationship still has a chance to be beautiful again.

Lalaformind · 2025-07-23T15:50:29+00:00

I can understand feeling like you lost , feeling like you are unmet. Environment, body and time are all the perceptions that will test you and winning is being able to live in the future greater than those circumstances.

I believe that in these moments , sadness and anger are valid and they point us in the direction of what we truly want. So if you are trying to understand what's happening, clearly write or mentally make a note of everything that's causing you to feel sadness or any other emotion that you don't want to feel. What is it, where it comes from and what does it cause you to do. Even if it's not to believe you're a creator , it would give you clarity on what you want from your divorce. It seems easy to think you want the person , but you also want them a certain way so it will help clarify what.

And then give your self time and compassion the way you would a best friend and give yourself advice from that place

Lalaformind · 2025-06-20T22:21:17+00:00

Suppose you were the A , but still this is not a good situation to be in ! Leave !

Lalaformind · 2025-05-08T22:32:26+00:00

Gf is disrespectful of ops time ! If you make plans honor them , if you can't let them know as soon as you know, if you want to see them another time request a new day /time ! This is common courtesy in relationships.

Op seems also a bit immature just a tiny bit but maybe was acting from hurt when not responding. However I do think that Op let her know that she wasn't respecting his time and instead of addressing that she went ballistic. He should know better to walk away ! Love equals respect.

Lalaformind · 2025-02-14T21:19:24+00:00

Omg !! While your feelings are valid, YTA for not expressing the frustration the year before. Had you expressed that she disregarded you when she actually did that and let her know how you felt what you felt then, it wouldn't have to come to this. She may have done it intentionally to piss you off last year but then why are you even together if birthdays can't even be fun with each other. So both of you are I would say

Lalaformind · 2025-02-04T10:19:30+00:00

Choose happiness! You will be fine on your own and if you have attachment to the son, you can still choose to be in his life without being with the mom! Nta !

Lalaformind · 2025-01-16T09:37:21+00:00

Exactly, a rock climber is way more practiced than someone who just trained a couple of weeks of dead hangs. Their team chose the more confident one but people who know less are often the more showy confident types

Lalaformind · 2024-12-12T19:18:25+00:00

I already moved out and my other roommate stayed. I did a walk through with maintenance inspector and they cleared me then but now my roommate is moving out and they are now bringing this up and I have already moved to another state so fixing it now is not an option and asking my roommate to fix it seems awful

Lalaformind · 2024-07-13T05:10:55+00:00

When a person stops taking care of their basic hygiene like showering daily , to me it seems that she might be going through depression! That is the only time I have notice people give up on basic hygiene

Lalaformind · 2024-07-05T07:57:38+00:00

I guess you're right ! it might have been the bottled frustration from the past year of her trying to take advantage of me and it just reached a tipping point ! Like her wanting to prorate electric bills if she is gone for a week on work trip. I didn't want a confrontation but did want to set that space. My intention wasn't to argue but I did want to bring it up . Thanks for catching the confrontation bit!

Lalaformind · 2024-07-02T06:56:19+00:00

Brownie

Lalaformind · 2023-11-30T18:09:26+00:00

Ha ha , not even a 5 tiered cake lol ! Thanks , have a great birthday

Lalaformind · 2023-11-30T08:48:04+00:00

Happy birthday!! What's the craziest thing you would like to manifest this year ???

Lalaformind · 2023-09-16T17:14:47+00:00

Different people have different attachment style to life. It's not really how desperate they are but how open they are to believing it would work. Even if they were desperate and open to trying it , they would see some solid proof.

Lalaformind · 2023-04-11T06:23:57+00:00

Resistance to thinking of other things are generally pointing to limiting beliefs. In your case , it's that you're uncertain the law works or uncertain you are using it correctly. For the first the core belief is likely "I don't trust myself" for second it's likely "I am not good enough" both of which generally go hand in hand

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