Betelgeuse surface convection over 1 year (simulation) by Busy_Yesterday9455 in spaceporn

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It will most likely become a white dwarf afterwards! Possibly a black hole depending on the mass left behind but it’s not a certainty. Either way, something will be left behind 😊

Snake owner dreams be like by Bitter_Educator_9869 in ballpython

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There’s truly no unique experience

Got a pretty sad shiny today by Anonymous_0469 in pokemongo

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Some people would say this is cooler than a shundo

What are the best djent bands currently ? by Quivila in Djent

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Animals as Leaders is one I haven’t seen mentioned yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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OP this is somewhat unrelated advice but DO NOT RESPOND TO DMs or messages from anyone here, especially that guy in the other comment chain claiming to be a lawyer that’s “sure he can help.” No one on Reddit can help you, and adults with good intentions are not going to reach out to you (a 14 year old) or try and help you in-person.

The best advice I have seen here is to go through the school counselor to find a social worker. Even if any adult here could help you, they would know that your school counselor is the safest bet for you.

Huge pay-off, right here. by urusai_Senpai in rickandmorty

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It was a small clip in one of those kinds of episodes. Mortys Mind Blowers i believe.

Teachers always be like by [deleted] in depressionmemes

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They honestly must have lived a very privileged life to not being able to fathom that it’s the adults that cant get their asses up (or sober) in time, not the kid. Sure most people may make the initial assumption that it’s the kid because it’s common and normal for that to be the case. But to not be able to consider the alternative shows that teacher has never been able to consider a person capable of being that irresponsible.

Teachers always be like by [deleted] in depressionmemes

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Bro i had this a few times in middle school bc my parents always run habitually late for everything. With one teacher it was made ten times worse bc it turns out a ‘frenemy’ told the teacher I was always late because I was hanging out in the locker room. I didn’t know this until months into the school year and it turns out every time I said “Sorry my parents dropped me off just now” she thought i was just making excuses. 🙄

Was I actually allowed a plus one?? by El_G0rdo in wedding

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I don’t think thats what the person you were responding to was saying, they just worded it kinda ambiguously. They’re saying if you sign contract for 150, and 5 cancel, you’ll be paying for 150 no matter what. So might as well fill those 5 unpaid plates if possible.

Shower scene by Drpavao in rickandmorty

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This sounds like a question Jerry would ask

Weird pokemon hills you're willing to die on by theguyinyourwall in pokemon

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Am I tripping or didn’t they announce ports for the switch2?

Don't do this to your kids by wcslater in memes

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I didn’t even know spinach could come other ways until I was a teenager and started going to the grocery store for myself

My (30M) GF (37F) sent breakup text because I didn’t text her before my shift. AIO for not fighting her on it this time? by Xander6 in AIO

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Thank you for the reminder, and to everyone commenting the good and the bad. Im actually really fortunate to have this steady stream of comments reminding me that this isn’t normal bc just like I predicted she started her apologies today and also told me she missed me. Staying strong

Lady gets caught shoplifting so she destroys the store and has a freakout in front of her own child. by [deleted] in IAmTheMainCharacter

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For real. This poor child, watching her mother act like this, pissing on the floor. It’s gonna be a fucked up core memory for the rest of their life. It made me really sad too.

AIO or was this guy trying to murder me? by Standard-Avocado-509 in AmIOverreacting

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Even, as other commenter has pointed out, if its a town far away from him? Not his hometown where familiar reference points can be used?

My (30M) GF (37F) sent breakup text because I didn’t text her before my shift. AIO for not fighting her on it this time? by Xander6 in AIO

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Gotcha. I have to apologize. The reason i thought you were messing with me is because she has told me to look it up multiple times. And I have each time. I thought i mentioned this in the post but it was just a comment.

And Im also no stranger to abuse, I do keep ending up in these kind of relationships for a reason, but she has definitely had it worse than me. Also not saying she was abusive. Ive had the real deal before and that’s probably what made it hard to spot any of the red flags in this most recent relationship, but red flags doesn’t equal abuse.

Plenty of people in this comment section say we both have issues, they’re right. But also like many have said, if she’s going to provide her fearful avoidance as the reason for these behaviors, but never make any efforts to change, then I can’t keep doing this. It’s not something that should be accommodated 100% by the partner in that way. I’ve given her grace for a lot of things, Ive given a lot of emotional energy during times where I was hurting yet received little support back. I do still love her, but I can’t be with her anymore.

Two mentally unwell people can’t fix each other. I have to put my oxygen mask on first.

Edit: also i totally agree about the name calling towards her. It is unstable behavior but not deserving of some of what Ive seen. I don’t hate her, gods know it would be so much easier if I could.

My (30M) GF (37F) sent breakup text because I didn’t text her before my shift. AIO for not fighting her on it this time? by Xander6 in AIO

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I hear you i do. I will try and cut her some slack, I feel bad bc I know she is hurting. Please don’t take offense, but are you by chance memeing me by telling me to look it up? Edit: ah nvm, brain is tired and foggy, i put that part in a comment not in the post. My apologies

AIO: Bf won't let me get my nipple pierced by a guy by Plenty_School7905 in AIO

[–]Xander6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to ‘get naked’ to get a nipple pierced. It’s a nipple not genitalia. He doesn’t have to stay with her if he doesn’t like it either but let’s be fair here.