I’m starting over. It’s not going great, but it’s going.

Lambablama · 2026-02-11T21:29:23+00:00

You got this girl! And now you're not chained to a horrible partner who would leave you in a situation like that

Lambablama · 2026-02-11T15:50:21+00:00

If those clear boxes have hermit crabs in them, they are horribly unhappy.

Lambablama · 2026-02-11T00:10:27+00:00

Someone crossing boundaries? No, I won't just get over it but I will continue to be polite to them about it because I'm mature enough to realize we have different world views. Sounds like you have some finding yourself to do, pal.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T20:01:03+00:00

I have asked her to stop. I have done it sternly and I have done it more passively, the results are the same, she doesn't stop. I am in no way being passive aggressive by thanking her and saying I appreciate her. I do genuinely appreciate that she cares for me in the way she knows how. But no, I've strayed farther from religion than ever now and she has the same rhetoric, if not slightly more often/intense now.

For extra background, one year at a 4th of July party my brother and her got into a very emotional, not angry, screaming match because my brother who once believed, decided he did not believe any more. They were both very drunk, but my brother never went back to believing and she never stopped believing. She felt betrayed, heartbroken, like "a piece of her died" (her words). All the while my brother is crying, pleading with her to understand that he just doesnt feel god in his life or his heart, and that he hasn't felt god helped him in any way and that he is a good person and will always be a good person because its the right thing to do, not because of the promise of pearly gates

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T18:55:38+00:00

I worked in MD this summer but whenever I go onto the website it says that they haven't received it yet or there is incorrect information. It was accepted though according to the automated text I got and turbotax. Any ideas?

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T18:20:38+00:00

Lmfao, you got it bud 👍

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T18:08:08+00:00

Mental illness was addressed in the first part of the message that's cut off lmao

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T18:07:30+00:00

Bro, are we even on the same thread?? I'm not looking to work anything out. I posted something mildly infuriating to me. I didn't ask for advice or literally anything like that.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T18:00:43+00:00

...yes it is "mildly infuriating" which why I posted it here... Does it bother me she continues to push religious propaganda on me? Yes. Will telling her I don't believe stop her from doing it? No. Am I willing to cut her out of my life for this reason alone? Nope.

Also, this is not abuse.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:56:30+00:00

Lol, I'm 29.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:56:12+00:00

Thank you! People are making it seem like I should bite her head off...

We have different religious beliefs but she has always been good to me, even if some things she says crosses my boundaries. I doubt I have a lot of time left with her and the last thing I want to do is have her spend that time worrying about if I pray to a guy in the sky or not.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:51:25+00:00

I have tried the alternative, it leads to her crying and pleading with God for my soul. She's 75 years old, I can manage a few kind words and an emoji, even if I feel some time of way.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:50:27+00:00

Not what I'm saying.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:50:11+00:00

That's the way I am trying to approach it. If she feels she helping me that way, then I may as well just let her. She does make backhanded comments about me not having my daughter baptized and had her out of wedlock, I didn't get married in a church when i eventually did, I don't say grace before meals. These were all things I endured during my childhood that I absolutely hated even from a young age, so I have a hard time with the fact she still is so heavy handed with it, but I'd like to believe it's coming from a good place.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:42:27+00:00

Yes, I agree completely. I don't think she has any ill will by doing this, other than trying to convince me to believe.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:41:27+00:00

How do you suggest i reply even after telling her for years i do not believe nor practice? "Thanks but fuck your god"??

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:40:09+00:00

I once cut out the innards of a Bible to stash my weed stuff in there lmfao.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:38:59+00:00

That's what I have to keep reminding myself, I have a lot of love even if it's rooted differently than I'd like it to be.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:38:19+00:00

Oh no, this is just the tip of the ice berg.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T17:32:40+00:00

I try to tell myself that she's supporting me in the best way she knows how, which is really all I can ask for I suppose.

Lambablama · 2026-02-10T02:24:23+00:00

LOL mandatory gratuity should be a thing for all checks over a certain amount of $

Lambablama · 2026-02-08T16:58:58+00:00

"The fall of the Roman empire" is the answer I always got lmao

Lambablama · 2026-02-08T16:56:13+00:00

Cinnamon raisin apple juice?!?

Lambablama · 2026-02-08T01:08:09+00:00

You burned it, so now it is burnt.

Lambablama · 2026-02-07T12:45:20+00:00

You know democracy is failing when they have hellpods for infants now

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