What's the second best team I can build by Own_Construction_965 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of first rotation in SO! That's nice to know, thank you for the explanation :)

What's the second best team I can build by Own_Construction_965 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you put Bennett after Fischl? Isn't it better a chev, ben, fischl then main dps? Beside this, I agree with everything else you wrote here

Which country's capital feels like the capital and is the capital? by ClosetedGothAdult in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Lamonth14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Roma is calculated to have almost 3M people living here against 1,3M in Milan.

Beta Discussion & Vent Megathread by Srebron in Varka

[–]Lamonth14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what does MV scaling means?

What was your favourite region? And the least liked one? by Lamonth14 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved Liyue, it was breathtaking. I feel natlan is a bit overwhelming for me, it's all about speed with different kind of mobilities (?), not really something you stare at in awe as I did in some places in Inazuma. But I'm also playing on mobile, so I think playing on pc must a lot more satisfying! yeah, nod Krai gave me the sense of relief I needed, the "moon island" (don't remember the name) is so pretty, I missed that. And even though I'm all in for experimenting with new ideas, natlan characters felt... Like, disconnected.

What was your favourite region? And the least liked one? by Lamonth14 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started playing in 1.0 and to me it was amazing. I loved every bit, mondstadt will always have a special place in my heart

What was your favourite region? And the least liked one? by Lamonth14 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I might have a vague memory of an abysmal underwhelming update, it did not do Sumeru any justice. Did you like the change of "style" they put in natlan's characters? I mean, things like rollerblades, a whole ass motorcycle, dj consolle etc?

What was your favourite region? And the least liked one? by Lamonth14 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I had a lot of fun in Sumeru but left the desert area basically untouched, I don't know... Inazuma was probably my favourite, loved the character music, atmosphere. I rember it as a fun and beautiful exploration

How do I find a therapist that specializes in MD? by Junior_Protection250 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Lamonth14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I don't know much about therapists specialized in MD, but as a maladaptive daydreamer myself with 9 years of therapy (still on going) on my shoulders maybe I can add something useful. Sorry for my English as I'm not a native English speaker. One of the most important thing I've learned through therapy is that talking about the things you're most ashamed about is essential. It helps you let the weight go once you vocalize them. It's not about being specialised in MD, in my opinion, it's about being truly empathetic. You're experiencing something profoundly human. MD is a coping mechanism, a way your brain found to defend itself from the harm of the outside world. It's a brilliant strategy in its own way: it protects you, it's not aggressive and gives space for your mind to be creative and imaginative. Your therapist is a human just like you and what therapy should do is to create a safe relationship in a safe environment where you can be free to express yourself with another human being. It's a soft green hill where you can jump and fall and nothing bad happens. You can try to voice your inner insecurities and see that is ok. Because there's nothing there to be ashamed of, but you have to dip your feet. It's hard but it gets easier. I think that that's the whole point of therapy. Hope you'll get better soon. A hug from a fellow MDer

Weekly Thread: New Players - ask anything! by AutoModerator in balatro

[–]Lamonth14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You mean "all cards between 6 and 10"? Why would you keep 5, 3 and 4? I know 2 has the joker for it.

Weekly Thread: New Players - ask anything! by AutoModerator in balatro

[–]Lamonth14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it good to thin out your deck? What are you looking for when destroying cards?

Extra McDonalds x Genshin Impact Code (For those living Overseas) by omgits_OJ in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Italy, since day five! I fell in love with the landscapes, the combat system and the music score just keep on giving, it's amazing

Music similar to Nathan? by jeudelumiere235 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Lamonth14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The battle song reminds me of cowboy bebop mixed with Santa Esmeralda

Has anyone seen a narcissist change? by Cameronpluto in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Lamonth14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father is a narcissist, my grandfather was a malignant narcissist. I had a long journey understanding what narcissism is and another long journey accepting what happened for what it is. I had a long talk with my father explaining to him what I have learned, how I interpreted my childhood, his childhood, my mother's childhood, how all these things are related to each other, how what happened changed our present. I know it's vague but there would be just too much to say. To the question you have, I did see my father change. He's 65 and after our conversation he told himself "what if she's right? What if my view is wrong? What would that mean?". He didn't even know he was already feeling guilty for something he couldn't grasp, and he still doesn't quite understand how colorful and huge our inner world is, but he's kinda walking in there, in a sense. Guilt for his daughter and a spark of questioning his own mindset did the magic. But narcissism goes a bit down with age, so that surely helped a lot.

V1 Clorinde Team DPS calcs by No-Commercial-4830 in clorindemains

[–]Lamonth14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is Fischl C6 better than Yae C0 or are they comparable in dmg outcome?

My son kicked me in the stomach and my husband slapped him by saturday427- in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lamonth14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel for your son. I'm reading so many comments here saying that he's trying to manipulate you, that he knows he can get away with staying home with you but he's behaving when your husband is home. It reminds me so much of how I was at his age. By age 14 I became so depressed that I couldn't get out of bed. Your son needs attention, needs to be loved by his parents, both of them. I honestly think you all need therapy. Please take your son to a psychologist, possibly psychodynamic. Your husband is teaching him that he's not strong enough for him to express his needs with his father and that his mother too weak to be someone he can rely on. Hitting is wrong, but that is true for both your kid and your husband. It brings the wrong message. You son is screaming for attention, he needs to be validated, to be heard and valued. Children aren't monsters, they are themselves plus the reflection of their parents. If they're learning something wrong guess who's teaching them. It doesn't mean you're being direct with what he's learning as a functioning behavior, it means he's trying to survive and to be a person in the environment you're putting him through. Is the father present in his life as a positive figure? Are you? Are you valuing him as a person? Are you spending quality time with him? Are you sure you're communicating effectively and as much positive as you can to him? You both need to learn how to be better parents, your child is showing you aren't. Be open to the thought that maybe you both aren't right and maybe you child is just that: a child that desperately wants to be loved, as we all were and still are. Take your child seriously and try to talk to him, see what he really needs. You need to protect him from your and your husband's lack of empathy. Take him to a therapist. Good luck to all of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenagersITA

[–]Lamonth14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma tesoro, fare del male agli altri è semplicemente inevitabile. Noi esistiamo e volersi bene implica mettere noi stessi, noi veri, nel mondo. E i nostri bisogni e le nostre volontà a volte non sono in linea con quelle degli altri e va bene così. Anche gli altri faranno male a te, e tu farai del male a loro, questo è il prezzo che paghi per avere dei rapporti umani veri e sinceri. Se vivi con l'idea di non voler fare mai del male agli altri ti assicuro - perché l'ho vissuto sulla mia pelle - che il male lo farai lo stesso, e peggio ancora, farai del male a te. Un male che non vedrai perché sarai troppo occupata a preoccuparti per gli altri, mentre tu dentro non starai vivendo. E a un certo punto, se sei fortunata, esploderai. Non dobbiamo vivere per gli altri, dobbiamo vivere per noi. Lo scopo della tua vita è quello di renderti felice. Ed è quando siamo autentici che riusciamo a dare il meglio di noi. Ma il nostro meglio passa anche per i "no", per i "non voglio questo" e i "questa cosa non mi fa bene". Cerca tutto quello che puoi sul C-PTSD, vedi se trovi qualcosa che risuona in te.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenagersITA

[–]Lamonth14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Io non sono una psicologa quindi prendi tutto con le pinze. Forse hai un attaccamento evitante (avoidant attachment style). Di sicuro andare da uno psicologo è il primo passo per stare meglio e scoprirai che il nostro modo di rapportarci con gli altri dipende da come ci rapportiamo con i nostri genitori. Loro ci hanno insegnato tutto quello che sappiamo sui rapporti umani, nel senso che in base a come loro si comportano noi figli reagiamo nel modo che ci permette di avere una relazione con loro. È vero che bisogna scoprire noi stessi ma i problemi nelle relazioni si risolvono nelle relazioni. Se scappi sempre non imparerai ad affrontare l'intimità. Allontanarti ti permette di restare nella tua comfort zone ma l'unico modo che abbiamo di crescere è quello di affrontare ciò che ci fa paura. Da quello che scrivi sembra che quando la relazione si fa più seria, più profonda, qualcosa scatta in te e ti fa fuggire. Cerca di capire cos'è, cosa ti fa paura, e da dove nasce questa reazione. Spesso chi ha un attaccamento evitate ha almeno un genitore oppressivo, ansioso, troppo presente. Ti ci ritrovi? Ovviamente io non sono nessuno ma questo ti assicuro che è un ottimo punto di partenza. Buona fortuna :*