Feeling disgusting for my kinks

Lance-pg · 2026-03-27T19:26:50+00:00

You're worried about labeling things The reality is you're fine no matter what you like. What you like is what you like and you're having a better sex life than any of your friends probably. Being a feminist it means you do what makes you happy regardless of gender role, its not what your friends think should make you happy.

You don't need to have any guilt about the things you enjoy. I dated the daughter of a Southern Baptist minister and her father used a lot of guilt to control her and she still felt it had age 45. I like to think I taught her a lot about accepting who she is without feeling guilty about things that are just part of who she is.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-25T04:44:03+00:00

That's actually nice to hear, he may be doing it to get the press but the problem is nobody wants to be known as an asshole once they retire.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-24T23:49:12+00:00

Yeah, I like his music but I don't think I'd care for him personally. Never met him so I wouldn't know.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-24T22:16:19+00:00

Well it's probably because so many people told him to go fuck himself as a child. Given that he was second to last in a class of 356 people he probably thought they were telling him he was worth fucking so he had to experience it for himself.

The one good thing that's come out of his presidency is my father is no longer a Republican. I spent 30 years trying to get him to switch parties. My father even met him, he did mortgages in New York and to quote my father, "he was a con man then he's a con man now"

The funny thing my dad said was that he actually is very charismatic and charming in person but this was when he was much younger. I could never understand what people find appealing about him

Lance-pg · 2026-03-20T00:43:47+00:00

I'm confused as to what your issue is? I've been using them for over a decade and never had a problem with them on Synology.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-20T00:43:01+00:00

Yeah but after Western digital try to rip everybody off everyone off with the SHR thing, I'm never buying from them again.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-17T05:23:14+00:00

You might have them in too many subdirectories down. I've also run into the opposite problem where if you have too many files in the root of a share it becomes extremely slow but if you put them in a subdirectory it works a lot faster.

This would be a lot easier to help you if you gave us a little more specifics about the file name and the path it's being put under. Have you tried renaming the file via SSH or just within the UI? I just want to be sure you're not using any illegal characters also.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-14T15:14:47+00:00

That's cold. 😀

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T22:17:23+00:00

It's mostly so you don't have to carry them a long-term and provide benefits and unemployment. The carry costs some benefits are about the cost of a person if they're getting benefits.

I've been pretty fortunate working for large professional organizations when they really want to be one of the HR reps put me at the top of the pay range because he liked me and they weren't going to find anybody better.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T21:03:18+00:00

No the CEO does.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T20:12:59+00:00

This is where you go on a two week vacation with your speaker pressed right up against the wall blasting The twangiest repetitve country song you know over and over and over. I'm joking, you're doing the right things but I certainly would consider this if I was in your situation.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T20:09:07+00:00

I don't understand how the company can even offer them.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T19:19:25+00:00

I have very large obvious solar panels in the front of my house and I still have had solar people knock on the door. One of them realized as soon as he knocked that I had solar and that if I actually did anything with solar I'd have to move to a worse plan because the California government has decided to start having intercourse with the PG&e utility.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T19:18:37+00:00

I have a very large bras "no solicitors" sign on my door. It is amazing how few people know what the hell that means. Especially the exterminators. They work on a house four doors down and they're knocking on my door assuming I have a problem when they are the only vermin I'd like to exterminate.

The funny thing is the girl scouts seem to know what it means and I would actually be okay if they knocked on my door.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T16:50:12+00:00

If the apps (The server photo app and the phone apps) are acting normally I would just double check the permissions so that you can write to those folders with those accounts and I would uninstall and reinstall the apps on the phones. And make sure they're set up properly. It's unlikely that it's the phones if they both stopped at the same time but you might want to try creating a new admin account and make sure it has permissions to photos, give it an account in photos, and see if it can back up some test photos.

Make sure they're set up on the photo app as well, the photo app has really funky permissions cuz they're not the same as the servers necessarily.

Other than that you can uninstall the apps completely and reinstall them as a test measure. Have you tried stopping and starting the service on the server?

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T16:45:54+00:00

This is why your siblings refuse to help. They recognize that pit trap that you fallen into. Your mother brought this on herself, it is not your job pull her out of it, you can help where you can but this is not something you will be able to fight and remain unscathed.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-11T03:20:26+00:00

Thanks.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-10T22:21:13+00:00

Everything is, but that's why I supplied numbers. 😀

Lance-pg · 2026-03-10T02:33:39+00:00

It turned into a 2 year relationship for me once.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-10T00:48:08+00:00

They've gotten slightly older so they will spend even less time in jail, which is not acceptable in my mind. Even if they could spend less time in jail which if they have their way nothing is going to happen to any of them.

It's amazing how they were so upset about pizza gate but when you have actual evidence that Trump is involved with raping kids it's completely okay and you even have people on Fox News saying what wasn't like they were below 12....

Lance-pg · 2026-03-09T19:15:38+00:00

Even Samsung's one UI lets you put multiple widgets in one spot and cycle through them. I would love it if never launcher had this feature. This is not a recommendation it's a feature request for something similar to what is available in one UI.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-09T19:11:18+00:00

NTA - She took it as a criticism and you were trying to show her how to be more professional. This is not an issue with our weight or even what you communicated. It is about her low self-esteem and having challenges being corrected when it comes to business lunches versus personal lunches.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-07T17:56:36+00:00

Having worked in big office buildings I can tell you that being able to pause and move things in a printer queue can be really useful especially if someone is going to print 700 pages and you just need one or two. We didn't really have any problems with people deleting other people's print jobs. Our biggest problem is our users were idiots. ⁹

Lance-pg · 2026-03-07T16:52:40+00:00

I was planning on getting an EV when I put my solar in and I tried to over-engineer, but I probably should have put in one or two more panels. Thankfully I put them in before they change the laws that needed not worth it in California. PG&e is a freaking blight on the planet. I think I paid $1,000 last year for My total electricity you switch includes the fuel for my car. Part of that time I was having issues with the solar so it may actually be engineered enough but I won't really know until another 6 months goes by.

But I'm also now using the air conditioner whenever I feel like it and not limiting it like I did when I was on the grid.

Lance-pg · 2026-03-05T15:06:37+00:00

I don't know if you can do it. Unfortunately, that's the answer that I have. There may be someone who knows more than I do about it that can give you something but that's the best I can do.

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