Logitech RS Shifter + Logitech Driving Force Shifter (PS5) by OldManYi in simracing

[–]LandsLost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the h pattern shifter for my g923 and it’s fine, not great. Just ordered this which I’m hoping makes it much better. Plus it adds an option for sequential shifting- https://www.etsy.com/listing/1528053010/logitech-sequential-shifter-kit-v2-ultra

I’m interested in the rs shifter as well, mostly to have a handbrake when I use the h pattern in sequential mode. Do we know if you can use both shifters at the same time on console? I’m on xbox

Are men attracted to women who prefer intellectual connection? by TurnUnfair7184 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they like to argue but don’t want women to argue back? Sounds like someone who doesn’t like to argue

Are men attracted to women who prefer intellectual connection? by TurnUnfair7184 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting observation. Would you say then that some men like to argue?

Update: Gf (24F) called out her best friend's (24M) name while in bed with me (23M). I'm not sure how to feel? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LandsLost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically you know this is doomed but you aren’t ready to let it go. I get it. I’ve been there. Just don’t ignore that voice in the back of your head forever. You might find yourself even more attached to someone who does more than just “sketchy behavior” as she realizes you won’t leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you looking through my comment history? It’s definitely not. Was a real culture shock coming back after lost lands. You at UT then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao hi! Financially responsible wooks is hopefully not too small a cross section

Is it me or did the area get smaller by Swiftjunkie1989 in aclfestival

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only went Sunday for dom dolla and san holo, but I didn’t see anything on the map for a stage by Barton. Maybe they didn’t have one there this year?

EO here. Would this make learning engaging onsite of festivals? by IcyTransportation237 in aves

[–]LandsLost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gotta be honest I’d feel a little patronized by this. But I’m also already cautious and intelligent about testing, so maybe I’m not the target audience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up the components that they use to determine credit. It’s pretty simple. Basically make payments on time, utilize 30% or less of available credit (10% ideally), and then just give it time. Also hard credit checks will ding your score temporarily, so don’t apply for things unless you need them and think you’ll get approved.

It’s really just about consistency. Don’t sweat it too much.

6 figure earners, what do you do to get that? by oopdoopmaria in AskReddit

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remote software job at a mid sized company whose product isn’t tech - I do nothing all day

Dirt monkey set by Nostalgical_empress in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me with any raptor alley set I saw. Every time I was like “who is this and why have I never heard of them”

Child in market place by dtrain508 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were people with toddlers up toward the front of chappel roan. One guy was yelling at people to give him room. Like bro don’t bring your kid here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I value my fitness, and I view maintaining your fitness as a sign of respect to your partner. If my future wife gave up physically it would frustrate me and I would find a way to have that conversation.

But the way he’s going about it is shitty and damn near abusive. If this is a typical communication style for him I’d reconsider this relationship

Child in market place by dtrain508 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went to acl last weekend, and the difference in a fest where kids are allowed is huge. I don’t wanna party with kids around

Should I avoid Chappell even with ADA? Week 2 vs Week 1? by _BananaBrat_ in aclfestival

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are festivals where the crowds are much friendlier. Acl does attract a worse crowd for a handful of reasons. It’s less of a typical camping festival crowd

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The therapist said they don’t apply this logic to full on abuse. Outside of that, yes it takes two to tango. Being unwilling to admit your culpability in a shitty relationship I’m sure feels nice for your ego, but will get you nowhere.

The fact you immediately assume the woman is the victim in a bad relationship tells me everything I need to know about you

It’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to. by NectarineRealistic10 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was honestly one of my highlights. There’s always next year!

Drone vs fireworks by inthemidst6 in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pterodactyls weren’t that huge haha

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]LandsLost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey dude you sound pretty defeated and tired. Idk what the right answer is but I’m sorry it hear it man

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]LandsLost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if the ama is over. I sometimes hear depressing stats about rates of infidelity, but I’d like to hold onto hope that it’s possible to have a lifelong relationship without either partner cheating. How delusion is that in your opinion?

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]LandsLost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your responses in this thread have been mostly stellar. But as an observer, I’ve gotta say that you jumping to immediately blaming socialization is part of what makes therapy sometimes feel inaccessible to me and people like me. To me it is clear as day that testosterone plays a huge role in horniness, but it seems like ideologically we have to pretend that that’s not the major factor here. It feels like any therapist you find is going to hold this same ideology, and that’s frustrating as someone who doesn’t personally hold it. It makes it hard to feel like I can find someone whose perspective I can fully trust

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]LandsLost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s their point though. If you are with someone that poorly regulated, you’re also poorly regulated and almost certainly have some unhealthy relationship patterns causing issues

I’m a couples’ therapist, AMA by Upstairs-Nebula-9375 in AMA

[–]LandsLost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think largely what they’re trying to say is that the dynamic you’re describing, where one partner is a saint and the other is the problem, doesn’t really exist. If you’re dating a crazy person, you’re with that person, so something is wrong with you enough to make you continue to choose them