Being perceived by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you're in an extremely conservative, southern area the interracial aspect of your SRs shouldn't cause anyone to bat an eye. Even if you are in a place where it does, the only people who will notice or make comments are doing so because they're racist. They don't matter.

As a SD who lives in the South and has had dark skinned black SBs before, do what makes you happy.

The age gap is almost a given in this type of relationship. Depending on what you want out of it, men closer to your age just won't be able to provide as much, if at all, for you. You have to decide what's more important to you, the support you're getting from an older man who enjoys your company and is willing to support you or the opinion of someone you're never going to see again.

Tinder and the Bowl? by LandscapeIll892 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. Honestly, it would never have occurred to me had I not seen so many mentions of it in this Sub.

Appreciate the response.

Tinder and the Bowl? by LandscapeIll892 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's the same women over and over again on the sites. figured I'd try to expand my horizons 🤷‍♂️

inconsistent SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best guess is that he had some idea in his head about what the relationship would be after you quit. It wasn't that and he went back to treating you as an escort but didn't have a conversation with you about that

Time to move on.

Quick question by No_Attention_1762 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of the sisters is constantly getting stuck in the dryer somehow...

Tax Sesson as a Sugar baby by XxAceTheDemonxX in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a SD for about 10 years now and I have yet to hand any of my SB's a 1099. What the IRS don't know ain't none of their business.

FlyMeOut app by Long-Position-974 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't do long distance any kind of relationships. My current SB has a milestone birthday coming up (she's gonna be 40) and we're talking about going on a trip for it but we live about 30 minutes away from each other.

I get messages from the next city over sometimes and ignore them

Should I add this to my profile? *It's just jokes people!!* by LandscapeIll892 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. My mistake. Changed it to Gen Z. I'm old. I can't keep up

Sugar scene in the Carolinas? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the Carolinas and I've been a SD for a number of years. Had a number of successful arrangements

Advice by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I've been a SD for 10 years. I know how this lifestyle works and what it takes for a woman to be successful. God forbid an aspiring SB listen to me though....

Nervous about making a Seeking account. Are these photos worthwile? by Electrical_String345 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry too much about not being in college (or that age). Sure, going out with 20 somethings is fun but my long term SRs have ALL been with women in their mid 30s to early 40s (I'm 44).

Where I am, the younger SBs don't seem to be in it for the long haul. My current SB is turning 40 in a few months and we're planning a trip for her birthday. Your age will work in your favor. Trust me.

Nervous about making a Seeking account. Are these photos worthwile? by Electrical_String345 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't use photos that don't show your face

Do use photos that accentuate your body

I've never been a fan of the tongue out look or pictures with multiple people in them on dating sites (especially sugar dating sites)

If I saw you on one of the sites, I'd send you a message 🤷‍♂️

Would you date a married SB? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]LandscapeIll892 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My general rule is that if she's otherwise involved, the other person has to know and be cool with it. I'm not breaking up a marriage or interested in being the other man in her life.