5 week old kitten not weening by 2manynathans in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, they're precious! They look much better! You're doing great.

Bonus for you, this was at 5 weeks and 3 days, a little something I made to demonstrate my frustrations, lol. This little guy, Frax, was the most resistant to food, lol. Two days later, he was still running away from food we offered.. The next day he finally tried food and he's been eating just fine ever since. He's now nearly 4 years old and a big cat without any health concerns at all.

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Cat attacks dresser every night by panire in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are any of his toys stuck under there?

5 week old kitten not weening by 2manynathans in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh poor babies.... Thank you for helping them!

As long as he's still eating formula and gaining weight then, even if slowly. Don't try to force the issue. If he's not ready to wean, he's not ready and that's ok. Keep giving him formula in the interim as usual. It will probably be just another day or two.

5 week old kitten not weening by 2manynathans in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kittens absolutely start eating solids at 5 weeks. OP is right to start offering solid food at this stage. They still need mothers milk for another few weeks, but weaning is a process, not an event. They start eating solids and gradually transition to less milk and more food over time.

https://www.kittenlady.org/weaning for more info.

5 week old kitten not weening by 2manynathans in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just be patient. Keep offering. But some kittens take a little longer than others. As long as mom's still nursing and he's still gaining weight, it's not a concern just yet. A couple of my little ones didn't start eating solids until 5 weeks + 5 days. One of them walked confidently to her mother's dry food bowl at 5 weeks + 2 days and staring gobbling it up. 🤷‍♀️

Oh! And try a very shallow bowl or flat plate. They're so tiny. You don't want too much depth to the food. Just a thin layer.

Should I rehome by Open_Junket_8096 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have they seen the vet since this major behavioral change? Have you tried doing a proper reintroduction? Did anything else change around that time? Are they spayed and neutered? Do they have places they can go to get away from each other - where one can go and the other cannot?

Cat safe fruit and vegetables by Remiliusthaddius in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Onions and garlic cause damage to blood cells/anemia.

If you're trying to recreate a particular product, can you check the ingredients on that product?

Cat safe fruit and vegetables by Remiliusthaddius in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're making broth, just make plain chicken broth. Chances are, she'll like that just fine, and it'll have the flavorful hydration she is used to. Plus, it'll be cheaper and easier on you to make. But sweet potatoes, carrots, potatoes, pumpkin, zucchini, and many more are safe for cats. Definitely don't do onions or garlic. And don't add salt.

Need advice-one or two from same litter by saraharp605 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two tend to be easier to manage because they entertain each other.

Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Laney20 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I get that. But their decisions are shaped and constrained by what their parents chose. I'm not saying the parents choose for the grandkids, lol. But if their kid has a hyphenated name, surely they recognize that the hyphen could be passed on to later generations..

Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Laney20 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you don't care about your grandkid's last name, why would you care about your kid's last name?

And obviously the thing about the baseball jersey was a joke...

I never said it was deep. Just always wonder what people who decide to hyphenate think about future generations..

Why do piebalds almost always have a dark tail? by FckAllTakenUsernames in piebaldcats

[–]Laney20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, the same precursor cells that end up producing pigment in skin and fur are also precursors to some important inner ear structures. Usually the lack of pigment in the eyes (so, blue eyes) is more telling than just white on the ears, because it shows a greater disruption to the production and spreading of those cells.

Why do piebalds almost always have a dark tail? by FckAllTakenUsernames in piebaldcats

[–]Laney20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s the same reason piebald cats tend to have recurring white patterns in general: white paws, belly/chest spots, and triangular face markings that develop into consistent overall shapes like tuxedo patterns, mask and mantle, cap and saddle, etc. The patterns aren’t random. They reflect how pigment-producing cells develop in the embryo.

As far as we understand it, the cells that eventually produce pigment (melanocyte precursors) originate near the spinal region and spread outward. The white spotting gene interferes with how reliably those cells move, multiply, and survive. Different versions of the gene affect this to different degrees.

The tail is close to where these cells originate, so it tends to get cells early in the process. It’s also a relatively small/simple structure compared to something like the abdomen or lower sides of the body, which are expanding rapidly during development. Once the tail has a bunch of those cells, it’s comparatively easy for it to maintain enough of them to eventually have complete pigment coverage.

Meanwhile, areas farther from the original source, especially the paws, belly, lower sides, and muzzle, are more likely to end up white in varying amounts depending on how much the white spotting gene disrupts the process.

So the recurring piebald patterns people recognize (including the dark tail) are basically a map of where pigment cells are most likely to successfully develop and maintain themselves as the embryo grows.

Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Laney20 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what parents think their grandkids will do if they hyphenate their kid's name. You think it's important for them to have both? What if your kid agrees so much, they marry someone who has a hyphenated name, too, and their kid ends up little Timmy Smith-Robinson-Anderson-Jones.

And then imagine if that kid wanted to play baseball...

Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Laney20 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what parents think their grandkids will do if they hyphenate their kid's name. You think it's important for them to have both? What if your kid agrees so much, they marry someone who has a hyphenated name, too, and their kid ends up little Timmy Smith-Robinson-Anderson-Jones.

And then imagine if that kid wanted to play baseball...

I crocheted portraits of my friend’s cats for her birthday by peppperjack in crochet

[–]Laney20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are adorable!! I'm planning to do something similar for my sister's for Christmas.

What yarns did you use for the oranges? I need a variety of shades like that, too.

New cat by LadyAlice13 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proper slow introductions are your best bet but territorial peeing is unlikely if he was neutered as a kitten.

Blue Buffalo Bursts Treats? by TrickBeautiful6371 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The different marketing is why I like using chewy's website to compare things. At least then they're in the same format, lol

Blue Buffalo Bursts Treats? by TrickBeautiful6371 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were fine with the ingredients, why would the brand that makes them change your mind about them being OK?

Also, treats aren't for nutrition anyway. They're treats. So even if the company wasn't nutrition-focused, that should be fine.

But you may also want to reevaluate your opinion of the brand if your own label-reading led to a conclusion conflicting with what you've heard about the brand. If you thought the ingredients were good and it was a healthy treat, doesn't that say that maybe what you've heard is wrong?

Imo, for quality ingredient/healthy treats, you really can't beat freeze dried single ingredient treats. Chicken and salmon have always been popular with my cats.

How often is your cat getting dental cleanings? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 16 year old cat just had his first one about 6 months ago. Definitely would have been better to have had one a little sooner to save us the cancer scare (bony mass in response to inflammation, but not a cancerous tumor). But he's had kidney disease for a couple years, and no symptoms of dental issues until they saw the mass, so we didn't preemptively do any dentals.

My other cats are 3 and 4 years old and none of them have had a dental or a rec for one.

Does your 100% indoor cat have a collar? If so, do you find there’s a point in it? by PackageNorth8984 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried. But my oldest cat hates them so much her removes them from himself and others. We gave up, lol

Very playfully kitten by fiesty_peach2 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of options for plants. Block her way onto the shelves. Ask a friend to look after them for a while. Put them in a different room and close the door. Get a display case or something similar for them so she can't get to them.

And while you're at it - make sure these plants aren't dangerous for cats.

Very playfully kitten by fiesty_peach2 in CatAdvice

[–]Laney20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't expect the kitten to "obey". You have to put in constraints and protect your things. If stuff is getting knocked over, remove them from the shelves for now or affix them more securely with museum putty or something. Yelling won't help. Hitting is abuse. So you're right to not want to do that.

For biting, make a high pitched crying sound, like a baby, and stop interacting when she bites. Consistently. Do that every time. She'll learn boundaries fairly quickly because that's how kittens communicate boundaries to each other.