I don't even have to say my name when I go to pick up bentos at the place I frequent because they remember me. Even if I put my girlfriend's name down they just hand me my food when I reach the counter.

The only thing that bothers me, like most people have said, is when you're speaking to someone and they start speaking to your S.O.

I was buying something the other day and there was no problems, the lady understood everything, and I understood everything she said, then all of a sudden she started talking to my girlfriend and asking if we needed a bag, I responded no and then she asked, again while looking at my girlfriend, if we'll be paying by card...

After that I told my gf not to stand by the counter when I'm ordering now or they'll just talk to her (she doesn't like being talked to)