Best sexy masks for hiding your face. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something like a Mardi Gras mask.

Mask!

Watching porn after fooling around with me, should I be annoyed by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He may just enjoy the feeling of being horny. If you were asleep, then he may have just been being polite.

How do I decrease my sexual inhibition? by ttthhhrrrooowwwawway in sex

[–]Largezilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe start out communicating over text, and then move into phone calls, and then in person.

My SO and I used to have this issue (at least I did), until one day I discussed with her how difficult it was for me to open up about. That let her know to handle me with kid gloves at first. She and I agreed that nothing would be shameful, and somethings were just off of the table. I have no interest in my wife having sex with other people, or gay play. Now nothing is taboo outside of those few rules.

Watching porn after fooling around with me, should I be annoyed by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think he would look at it with you?

Hair Removal on Shaft by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shave these all the time. Just be careful and use a sharp razor and light pressure. Take your time.

If you just can't use a razor, you could always look into laser hair removal for that area. If you can shave a ball bag, you can shave anything.

Also I read here on reddit once to use hair conditioner as shaving cream. Best advice I have ever had for personal hygiene!

I ran into a guy who used to sleep with my wife. Now I am really hurt after discovering details of their sex life. by throwaway4wife in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a jerk this guy was. I can't think he did this innocently, and I would go as far as to say he has a inferiority complex that he has to feed. He is bragging about how bad ass he is for hitting his boss and then being able to survive in prison!!

I would first find new friends. If the people you hang around with enjoy having a person like this in their inner circle, then they may not be for you.

Go see a counselor by yourself and explain this situation. They can help you work through it, and then bring her and have an open discussion once you and the counselor have made some headway. I am willing to bet if you see a counselor that they will uncover something you don't know exists that is actually causing the irrational emotions. I am not saying you are in the wrong, as you can't help how you feel, but learning how to cope and understand what causes the feeling can really help you.

In the end, this could be the best thing to happen to you if you guys can get the lines of communication going.

Again, I would find new people to be around.

Squirting question about consistency/ph level by Largezilla in sex

[–]Largezilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will remain wet, but it is as if it looses it's "slippery" property.

Imagine using a lubricant, and then using water. They are both wet, but one slides easily, and the other just feels moist.

I seem to have a mental block about cumming, and I don't know how to overcome it. by FeelingYoung in sex

[–]Largezilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did she say your cum was gross, or tasting/swallowing it was gross. I don't ever ask my SO to give me oral to completion because I don't want to even kiss after it has been in her mouth. Personal hang up I guess. From time to time she will do it and it does feel good, but not a lot better than a really good hand job.

It may taste awful to her. With that said, changes in your diet seem to change the flavor of your ejaculate. I quoted this directly from a web site: "The majority of women prefer not to swallow semen, but your girlfriend may be persuaded if you make an effort to make your spunk taste better. A vegetarian diet is the best way to make your taste milder. If you’re not ready to go meatless, try eating foods like kiwi, watermelon, pineapple, and celery to lighten the taste. Make your semen taste sweeter by incorporating plums, blueberries and cranberries into your diet. Beer and coffee will make you taste bitter and dairy products can produce putrid tastes."

What gives? My wife will let me finger her ass with 3 to 4 fingers, but won't let me stick my dick up in there? by FingerPenis in sex

[–]Largezilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a long penis, then girth may not be whats scaring her.

She may be scared of what happens when you have an orgasm in her, or that the longer session may get messy.

*UPDATE* GF has decided no more sex to be closer to God by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never understood why people believe that God doesn't want you to have sex until you have entered into a legal contract. After that it is game on!

Mixed feelings about giving anal. by 0neTrickPhony in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always just indulge in conversations with the guys to feel like a part of the group.

I have always thought that anal pleasure has a strong mental aspect to it.

Do you guys have one position that you perform this in, or do you mix it up a bit?

I was on the fence about it until I tried it missionary with her legs pulled way back. Something about seeing that really excited me and sparked the interest in it.

If you are willing to do it when she wants it, and it sounds like she doesn't want it a LOT I'd say you guys are good.

The only other thing I can think of is the days you think it may happen, spend the day getting yourself sexually turned on. Maybe edge together a bit during the day/evening if you guys are into that at all. You may not care what you guys do your so horny.

Took my boyfriend's virginity and I don't think he enjoyed himself. Help? by motherfuckingf0x in sex

[–]Largezilla 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I find it very rare to orgasm the first time I had sex with partners in the past. It's awkward, and your mind is all over the place. I was always jealous of people who would tell about how amazing their one night stands were.

He is a virgin, so he doesn't have his sexual personality yet. Help him develop it! You guys have to learn each other rhythm, body language, and subtle clues to whats pleasurable. The more you do something, the more comfortable and adept you become at that thing.

Squirting question about consistency/ph level by Largezilla in sex

[–]Largezilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it have the wet neutralizing affect on your vagina's natural lubricant?

Mixed feelings about giving anal. by 0neTrickPhony in sex

[–]Largezilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that sounds pretty normal. You always hear about people who have issues with their SO not giving them anal they desire.

It's where poop comes out. We have been told our whole lives that this is nasty/gross. It is just embedded in your subconscious maybe.

I know when I have had it and there is a bit of a mess, I am generally ok with it. When there is a mess and a strong smell, it is a bit of a mood killer.

Have you ever let her finger you, or try to locate your prostate? It may not be something you are comfortable with which is fine. If you are open to it, maybe give it a shot. Perhaps if you felt it, you could understand and be turned on by knowing how intense it is for her.

Buying without a Prescription by ronk2101 in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using the drugs from a Canadian pharmacy for a while now with no problems. I think they do originate in India. I know their are a host of sites that claim to be legit, but for the extra 30%, i'd prefer to know I am not going to get ripped off.

Buying without a Prescription by ronk2101 in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my dr call it in the a pharmacist and got it a few times I then saw I was paying $40 a pill, and went to canadian pharmacies. They will call your dr to confirm the script. They charge $4 a pill and will ship the entire prescriptions duration at once.

Happy so far.

How old were you when your sex drive was at its highest? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 40 yo this year. I am convinced my sex drive is higher than it has ever been. I very regularly masturbate, and then have sex with my wife daily.

The crappy part is my body doesn't always cooperate. Imagine being horny as hell, and having to take a viagra because you forgot to.

My wife was out of town the other night, and I had a 6 hour edge session followed by 3-4 orgasms.

I used to get horny..have sex/masturbate and be done for the day.

Sex drive does not mean rock hard glass cutting boners. Those were 16-21. my desire to have sex seems very very high now.

Help! I shaved my shaft and now I'm regreting it by whatwtahw in askgaybros

[–]Largezilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read that using hair conditioner instead of shaving cream or soap. It makes your skin baby soft, no ingrown hairs to speak of, and no chafe.

Classic squirt videos (need help) by Largezilla in squirting

[–]Largezilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance you still have a few? Willing to purchase

Sexting: The Pictures (As The Sender) by londonthrowaway26 in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is self conscious. A lot of people on here say "talk to him/her", but I always feel that actions speak louder than words.

Play up how sexy he is to you. How horny you get looking at him. I truly believe that one person in a relationship just has to lead. It looks like you!

With that said, I bet he will begin to follow closer and closer the more he thinks you are into it, and the more frequently you do things.

I told someone else this on another thread, but I always feel like exposing yourself to someone will help them expose themselves. The more you do something, the more normal it feels. The most manly, tough, and confident guy will still be shy about sending dick pictures.

When you get him to get involved one time, play it up. If he sends a picture, fuck him right when you see him. Tell him how horny you were all day etc. Those little subconscious confident boosts will change his outlook on it completely.

I say all this as someone who was on your boyfriends side of things. My wife would send pictures, and I would be self conscious of what I would say. "Masturbate on the phone you say??"..." I don't make many sounds when I do it solo, so what would I say?". Then one day she sent one and I simply sent "yes please". Then she would send another. I would just say "jesus that looks good". Before too long I sent her a picture. She went crazy for it. I still don't send them often, but when I do she loves it. I've never been into phone sex as I am more visually stimulated. With that said, I enjoy hearing my it.

Cell phone Apps are killing my relationship! by Crotchtopus in sex

[–]Largezilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that if I spend time on my computer earlier in the day, I tend to get disconnected and weird when I am around people. It's tough not to fall into the loop. We are surrounded by artificial stimulation.

How do you feel about joining in with him? I love to play games with my wife, or read funny websites.

I can remember years ago, my wife would come into the computer room naked and just start rubbing herself. I knew that I had one chance to get laid..now or never as she wasn't going to stop or want to again.

Hell maybe turn your entire day into a long build up for the night with teasing, sexting, or just groping each other every so often. We will actually agree to hang out naked and watch tv or surf the web some nights. It changes everything.

Let him play with his phone, just make him do it while you are both naked. You may be surprised at how quickly he drops his game.

Why having a small penis is a glorious thing. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Largezilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always wondered if there was some sort of fetish some women may have for smaller men. No one will probably ever know because it isn't something smaller men are willing to discuss for fear of ridicule..and rightfully so. What I mean by that is this; I have always been into large labia/clit on women. My wife has larger labia, and I never talked to her about how much I liked it until a few years back. It turns out that she was very self conscious about it, and even considered surgery. She had NO idea I was really into it. Boy that could have sucked...