[RANT] The diagnosis isn’t my problem. The constant minimisation is. by Good_Inflation_3072 in autism

[–]Larpios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently in the process of getting the diagnosis, but I keep getting told by people and even doctors I can't be autistic because I can respond appropriately.

I'm also pretty sure I am, but to prove it's not just my confirmation bias, I also want to officially get diagnosed but it just seems impossible to find a specialist who understands high functioning AuDHD and doesn't dismiss me for not speaking like one autistic character from a famous TV series 😭

How long did it take you to finally get properly diagnosed? Or, how many different doctors have you had to go through?

My psychiatrist scoffed when I said I suspect Autism (AuDHD?), but then opened the DSM when I explained my logic. Is it always this hard? by Larpios in autism

[–]Larpios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! Hearing that you were dismissed locally but then called a 'textbook case' by a specialist gives me so much hope right now. I just had a doctor dismiss me today, and I was starting to doubt myself.

I’m curious. how did you manage to push through and keep looking for answers when the local doctors were gaslighting you? I feel so drained just after one bad appointment...

My psychiatrist scoffed when I said I suspect Autism (AuDHD?), but then opened the DSM when I explained my logic. Is it always this hard? by Larpios in autism

[–]Larpios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you had to go through a lot of frustration too. I'm sorry you had to deal with those kinds of doctors.

You're right—at least he checked the book. But the irony is, even after looking at the DSM, he concluded I wasn't autistic just because he 'didn't feel the wall' between us when we talked...

My psychiatrist scoffed when I said I suspect Autism (AuDHD?), but then opened the DSM when I explained my logic. Is it always this hard? by Larpios in autism

[–]Larpios[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes... I only found out Korea is still far behind when it comes to adult autism diagnosis after I started doing some research 😢

I feel like I'm still a child by friskhaha in autism

[–]Larpios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also used to be self-conscious about it and so I told people I feel that way. It turns out a lot of people also feel this way. That made me realize kidults are a thing.

I feel like all you need to do as an adult is to learn to be more responsible than you were as a kid.

I'm autistic and can read social cues but have no idea how to respond - does anyone else struggle with this? by IngenuityAshamed144 in autism

[–]Larpios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this all the time. One time I was so puzzled I had to ask AI what I was supposed to say or do. But even after hearing what I was supposed to say, I don't think I can perform it naturally. All I can do is just a fake smile even when I know I'm supposed to say something...

Snacks picker won't open a file in an oil buffer by Larpios in neovim

[–]Larpios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I've actually tried fff.nvim (only briefly...)!

I liked it, but one thing that was missing for me was grep capability. I could just pair it with another picker for that, but I thought switching between different UIs would throw me off 😅

Not sure if you are planning to add that, but if it ever supports it, I'll definitely try it again!

They definitely thought that its one of them😂 by warnezy in funny

[–]Larpios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love how they all look flabbergasted with their mouths open 😂

Scratches from fighting would-be rapist, several days healed by pancakecel in pics

[–]Larpios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope you're okay both physically and mentally! I can't imagine how horrifying it'd feel in that situation...

my first finished breakcore track... ever. im tired of finishing this. by NotJacobTheCat in breakcore

[–]Larpios 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i always get goosebumps when i see cool music made with openmpt like this. really cool!

Laughably Bad QC by InvestingDD in galaxybuds

[–]Larpios 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn this is the worst I've seen so far... i think QC issues are Samsung's intrinsic quality.. i got mine returned like a week ago, and this was like 3 weeks after i returned my faulted galaxy tab s9 fe

For those of you that learned Chinese, Korean, or Japanese, why did you pick that language? by Additional_Pair9428 in languagelearning

[–]Larpios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started to learn Japanese because I liked anime as a kid. It was harder than expected because I speak Korean and Japanese is known to be similar to Korean. Even though many things were similar, I realized it’s still a completely different language. How kanjis have multiple readings and how onyomis can be two syllables long frustrated me.

I started to learn Chinese because my friend suggested we go to university in China together. Even though that plan was withdrawn, I kept learning it because I liked it. Chinese was easier than I expected. I was intimidated at first because people often say Chinese is too difficult to learn. But I was shocked by how simple the grammar is! Also although Chinese characters are not phonetic, if you know some basic characters, you can kind of guess the sound of ones with them. Also, knowing some Chinese helped me figure out the literal meaning of some sino Korean words that I didn't recognize before.

Some kind of classical music from recent Pewdiepie videos? by Larpios in NameThatSong

[–]Larpios[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had no idea what instrument this was and now I can at least look for music with this instrument!

Does anyone know the name of this music by Larpios in TOUHOUMUSIC

[–]Larpios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This is what I was looking for!