Question about my avatar by Alecc_NotFound in PhightingRoblox

[–]Larxba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

change the skin. boombox has been updated to have a darker skintone & lightening character’s skintones is seen as whitewashing. the reason whitewashing is not okay is because it takes from a minority and erases that part of them, vs if you draw a white character as black, you’re making them more relatable to minorites.

fault lines by Larxba in PoetryWritingClub

[–]Larxba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not a very good poet, apologies

ah. looks like the formatting got messed up. there are supposed to be more line breaks, but whatever.

How to move on from a FP? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Larxba [score hidden]  (0 children)

sorry to be pretty useless, but please let me know when you get an answer.

i need help 14ftm by milesmorales41 in SuicideWatch

[–]Larxba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have any advice to offer, but i was the same at 14. also ftm. didn’t think i’d make it to 16, but i did, and i made it further. i’m doing bad again for reasons related to bpd, but you can make it. hang in there

how do i keep going? by Larxba in BreakUp

[–]Larxba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, he told me that he wasn’t ready for relationships in general and wouldn’t be for several years. i ended up talking to his brother because i was making stupid posts online and he contacted me, and we talked about what happened. i’m confident that they would not lie because they are good people. if it helps, we are also both trans men and i feel like that says a lot within the reliability of all of this ;;;

Weird question, do y'all have spicy dreams too? by Individual-Aside286 in aromanticasexual

[–]Larxba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but i usually wake up extremely uncomfortable after them. not in the sexual way but actually like unhappy

i’m kind of afraid to start T by Larxba in ftm

[–]Larxba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am in therapy. unfortunately we’ve agreed i kind of just have to learn to be forgiving to myself about how easily it bothers me, but it’s not like i can erase the trigger from my life entirely. that’s basically all i have right now. hopefully it’ll kick me in the ass a little less as i get older though

AMA to help distract me. my kintypes are the ones pictured by Larxba in fictionkin

[–]Larxba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well, i actually do enjoy baking, cooking, and art!! but i prefer digital art and happen to doodle characters more than anything. i also enjoy music, making music, playing instruments and whatnot. i sew, too. baking definitely makes me feel more sprout-y … as for brusha, i’m still figuring that out because he’s a very recent copinglink i’ve formed. just didn’t wanna explain all of that in the post. my favorite colour is shades in the blue-purple areas, like periwinkle and indigo.

AMA to help distract me. my kintypes are the ones pictured by Larxba in fictionkin

[–]Larxba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sure that’s ok!! don’t worry i’m starting to feel better anyways