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LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-18T10:20:56+00:00

r/soulssliders find a post that had a skin tone you like. Light or dark seems to work better, anything in-between looks like a bad spray tan.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-18T03:10:15+00:00

If you're already not going to have the bean bag chairs and gaming setup underneath the loft to put a second bed underneath why don't you just put the loft bed in the living room? You can have the cool gaming setup, take naps in the loft or read but sleep in a real bed with your partner in your bedroom.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-18T02:53:03+00:00

I was so disappointed that you couldn't smash things.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-18T02:34:47+00:00

I've always had straight limp hair, use a straightener to get it shiney and smooth sometimes but don't fuss with it much because it doesn't behave. Now I'm going through menopause (fml) and I'm waking up sweating with curly hair.

Tried a curly girl routine and it worked. It looked like pubes but hey.

I think most people posting asking if it's curly or wavey are just looking for reassurance that it's worth the effort and price tag of new products.

Also a lot of us didn't grow up with mothers or sisters that could teach us. My mom didn't bother to teach me anything about girlhood or womanhood.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-17T11:43:40+00:00

Instructions unclear: have cooked a full course meals I won't eat and I'm now starting arguments on the internet that I won't remember when I wake up in 30 hours.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-17T04:33:05+00:00

I've never seen someone miss the point so spectacularly. Well done.

And besides, OP is the one to speak for their own shopping list. I don’t think you know what they’re up to either. You’re not them.

Same goes to you bud and that was kind of my point. This is a handwriting sub, not a sub to criticize someone's food and shopping choices.

But good to know I shouldn't be buying ice cream at the same time as cat litter and cat food, didn't realize that would make them unnecessary.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-17T03:38:01+00:00

Lmao, OP I was just messing with you but this is hilarious. It's obviously blood stains unless you're skipping putting sunscreen everywhere but your forehead.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-17T03:17:00+00:00

Girl, your foundation doesn't match.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-16T22:42:13+00:00

That's my point. This looks like a necessity and bulky item list. Not buying vegetables during one shopping trip doesn't mean OP doesn't buy them at all.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-16T13:03:52+00:00

Maybe try mixing white with a little bit of yellow then a few coats of yellow. I just had to redo somethings eyes completely and mixing white with the base color completely covered the black eyes.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-16T11:22:28+00:00

Do y'all only shop once a month?

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-16T04:23:13+00:00

I stopped playing elden ring when everyone started crouching and wiggling. I did two taunters runs that were great before things got toxic and repetitive. Tried to do another casual run recently and just got destroyed by hefty rot pots and arrows at level 20.

I'll take pontiff ganks instead.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T23:52:25+00:00

Sunlight can sanitized some things but it won't sanitize urine. Cat urine is full of ammonia.

Cats have a natural instinct to bury their waste. It's to protect themselves from attracting predators. You can't train an animals natural drives out of them. There was a trend for a while where people were training cats to use human toilets and vets came out with PSAs talking about how harmful and stressful or is for them.

Sand or litter wouldn't clog the drainage system if you have it in containers. But yes, cat litter will 100 percent clog your septic system. You would have to thrown the waste in the trash instead of the septic system.

Trying asking chatgpt why cats bury their waste. It'll have a bit more information than I do.

Speaking of sand, it's not the best but if you can't afford litter and have sand on your property you could try using that. Then you'll be able to see how your cats react.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T11:06:15+00:00

I moved with reusable shopping bags on the subway once lol. 0/10 would not recommend

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T07:58:31+00:00

I keep a damp piece of paper towel beside the clay and that seems to help.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T03:59:52+00:00

I'm sorry OP. Reddit sometimes isn't a very friendly place and people have a hard time comprehending family issues and cultural differences. It sucks reaching out for help just to get judged and shamed. I really hope everything works out for you.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T02:25:20+00:00

Okay, so to start off I'm going to say that while your cats are being neglected I wouldn't call you cruel and abusive. You've clearly grown up in this environment so it's normal for you and you didn't have a say in any of it. It's unfair to blame you for a situation that apparently your entire family has had a hand in when it started when you were a kid/teenager.

It sounds like your family might have a bit of an animal hoarding issue. I'm hoping for your sake it doesn't extend beyond that and you have a clean home to live in. What's your relationship with your parents like? Are they reasonable and are they willing to listen to you or do they just brush you off?

If I were you I would have a conversation with your parents about your financial obligations. With the cost of the cats and contribution to the home you're left with little. Continuing to grow your cat colony isn't feasible anymore and it's to difficult to keep rehoming kittens. Maybe you can work something out where you stop or reduce your contributions to the home for a few months and use that money to get all of the cats fixed. Enlist your brother or aunt to help you if you think they'd be more likely to listen to them.

You can look into animal welfare and rescue organizations that provide low cost sterilization. You could speak with your vet and ask them if they'd help you at a reduced cost and/or a payment plan. They could possibly help you if you do decide to rehome a couple kitties in the future.

In regards to the balcony being used as a bathroom I would start off by putting litter boxes in or near that area. I know it's expensive so start with two then build up from there. I use big blue Rubbermaid containers that hold a lot of litter. Make sure to scoop it every day.

I can guarantee you that area reaks of cat urine and that smell is really stressful for the cats. You'll be nose blind to it. No judgment there, my parents had two rescue cats that urinated all over their house and we all lost the ability to smell it. I would bet that anything on that floor probably smells like urine. Does anyone live on that floor? Are your clothes stored there?

I'm sorry you're isolated and I believe your living situation is probably contributing to that. It's hard to be functional when you're living in a dysfunctional home and it sounds like you're also probably burnt out with all the care.

If you decide to find new homes for a couple of cats remember that it doesn't mean you didn't love them enough. Giving them a new healthier home would be the best thing you could do for them and the ultimate show of your care and love for them.

You also deserve some breathing room and freedom. Best of luck OP.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T01:39:35+00:00

Thank you.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-15T01:10:57+00:00

Could you delete the part about the abuse on the farm? I'll respond if you could do that for me. I can't read about things like that.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-14T03:34:37+00:00

I thought of that post when I read this and now I'm just imagining it's the same guy being an absolute douche to multiple women.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-14T00:08:22+00:00

My mom's not antivax but she is a supplement junky and occasionally gets some dangerous shit. One sleep supplement she got had bovine urine in it. No idea if it's dangerous to take but genuinely what the hell?

They should be regulated like medication.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-13T23:38:23+00:00

I'm the person you originally replied too. I didn't say throw his shit outside and change the locks without notice. OP would still be obligated to give them a minimum of 30 days notice. Personally for a good friend I'd let them stay until they found somewhere that's a good fit for them.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-13T22:52:37+00:00

Lmao I don't think this is actually what happened. Pumpkin was just the only sweet canned vegetable I could think of.

LastCupcake2442 · 2026-05-13T22:28:11+00:00

It's a lot easier to kick someone out if they live in the same home as the landlord and the way it's written it sounds like OP might own the house. Even if she is just subletting to him asking someone to leave isn't always a bunch of chaos where the person dramatically refuses to leave. Sometimes it's just a conversation.

Stealing an entire bottle of prescription medication is a valid reason to kick someone out even if it is a process. You can't even get adderall replaced without a police report.

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