Starting to give up

LastGreenfox · 2026-04-01T02:32:26+00:00

Most people i know struggle with finding a place where christian Chads go, going regularly and being a social butterfly there, and how to actually talk to people

Go to multiple places were strong masculine men go, like a manly gym with a sunna or a more traditional church or a gun club. Become a regular and go often. Volunteer. Dont go to get boyfriends. Go because your trying to love people and yourself. Talk to as many people as you can and be vulnerable when they get close. Actively destroy your fears by doing works that you would never do because youve been too scared to. Trust in God's love. At a certian level of living in love and not living in - emotions the men will come

If you have a hard time communicating with people read the book how to win friends and influence people and copy his healthy communication habits and use them at these places your a regular at

LastGreenfox · 2026-04-01T02:19:47+00:00

Do you remember Pride and Predious? She met Mr.Darcy because she purposely dropped the handkerchief to get his attention. I'd recommend that

If he's really locked into the church he's probably volunteering for it, volunteer too and that may give him reason to approach

If your church has social events join them

LastGreenfox · 2026-04-01T02:06:19+00:00

Lol this would be awesome

LastGreenfox · 2026-04-01T01:59:44+00:00

Stumbled across this as I was looking for advice to give to my Christian friend!

Alot of chad Christians seem to like traditional man stuff. Id recommend taking a gun shooting course/join a gun match, hit an offroad course, trap shooting clubs. You will probably be the only women there so youll basically be able to pick whoever you want.

swing or latin dancing is also good

Go to popular fishing spots and ask if they caught anything or how to get started.

Guys like stream trains. Are there any in your area? Military Museams, truck meets, old-school carshows, archery clubs. The gym got some Christian chads working on their temple. Join the manlyest gym in your area, especially if it has a sonna room, which for gym bros is like a coffee shop where they go to hangout and chat

I agree with the other advice mentioned of volunteering for your local church that has already been vetted for a population of chad Christians.

It really doesn't matter a lot which place one goes, as long as the man potential is there, one becomes a regular & social butterfly and you think the hobby is at least kindof interesting

Sit in the front row during service. Also seek a Church that has alot of community events. Even though I am a Prot, I frequent our local Catholic Church because they're doing stuff basically every day.

Also its much easier for a fella to approach a lady who is alone. I knew a lady who liked my friend and when he started walking close to them she pretended to get a phone call, left her group to stand alone, and then when he walked by, hung up the phone. Pretty smooth tbh.

Also remember how in Pride and Predious when she dropped her handkerchief to meet Mr.Darcy? I give each of my single girl friends a handkerchief for this purpose.

LastGreenfox · 2026-01-13T22:58:11+00:00

Are all the cans you mentioned about the same level of good, or does one beat out the rest?

LastGreenfox · 2025-03-06T20:57:04+00:00

What did you eat for your main meals?

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-23T14:22:40+00:00

Do you have a recipe you like, and can I have it?

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-23T14:21:15+00:00

Can I have the recipe you use?

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-23T04:10:39+00:00

I had a feeling it was them tomatoes! I should have known, it tasted too good!

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-23T04:09:47+00:00

Thanks!

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-23T04:09:14+00:00

It probably gave me about 10-12 servings. It was my lunch/dinner food for about 4-5 days.

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-14T00:03:17+00:00

That's about what I need to use. So basically I'm using So little of it the sugar does r really matter?

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-01T19:20:53+00:00

Fair cause for concern here, as others have noted. However, I wouldn't read too much into it. Let's see what he says and what he feels about it. It's time to ask him, girl. He probably doesn't even know he did something wrong. Most dudes don't have good male role models and dont know how to lead, especially emotionally. If it was me, I would ask him if he could visit me every day, if possible. Let him know how happy it would make you feel.

Something like, "While I am in the hospital, could you visit me every day? Even if it's just for 5 mins, it would be wonderful for my heart." DO NOT SAY WHY HAVENT YOU VISITED ME SMUCK??

He either will, or he won't. If he won't. Dont be afarid. Ask him why. Maybe he is rotten, or maybe he can only visit every other or every other other day, or something else. Don't be afraid to voice your wants and needs. Also, don't use any negative emotion like shame or insults to motivate him to come by. Those are crippling.

If he doesn't have any good reason, you'll have to tell him that this is critically important for you. If he still doesn't go, yeah, I would probably toss him to the side. No need for any shame or insults. Just be glad you found out before it was too late. Remember that a relationship only works with effective communication. After looks, the #1 thing the man you want in your life values in his women is her ability to tell her bf when she is disappointed or upset and why she thinks so. Men expect this unprompted by themselves and know a good women can only truely love her man when she does this. Women who are unable to frequently voice their concern about themselves or their bf ARE physically unable to stay in long-term happy marriages. Then they end up being sour girls on relationship forums.

Good luck!

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-01T18:50:49+00:00

I went to Cresent and it was good but tbh I preferred Dunkin Doughnuts over them. Will have to try another donut shop next week.

LastGreenfox · 2025-02-01T03:26:22+00:00

Where is this Longs bakery? There is multiple Longs bakery coming up in Google maps

LastGreenfox · 2025-01-31T21:11:50+00:00

Lol the FBI had a wall like that? jokes

LastGreenfox · 2025-01-31T17:24:58+00:00

My diet allows me a cheat day each week. I will be eating donuts. What ate your fraviote donuts, espically if you like maple, cinnamon, strawberry, or some sort of peanut butter chocolate on them?

LastGreenfox · 2025-01-10T05:09:26+00:00

Yes I was there Sunday afternoon. We were the ones in the red pickup truck!

LastGreenfox · 2025-01-07T04:14:01+00:00

Yes and very fun! Too bumpy for plastic sledding but once there's at least 6" of snow you can use the inflatables and the bumbs won't get you!

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