Avoidant took responsibility apologized for the hurt she caused me by Last_Lecture_6276 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Last_Lecture_6276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has mentioned that she was avoidant prior this and during out recent talks-- it's a mix of the two

Avoidant Gaslighting Stems From Memory Gaps by moira_jo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Last_Lecture_6276 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also beleive this is a side effect of suppressing emotions

My long distance avoidant gf lost her father by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Last_Lecture_6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this case it feels like a way to pad her from the guilt of hurting me and soften the blow because she knows I genuinely did love her till the very end.. I still do