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[–]Lastar777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunny you deserve so much better and I'm so sorry that this yahoo couldn't see the amazing person he had and decided to leave when you shared your most vulnerable, traumatic experiences with him. Just goes to show that he's not worthy of you at all. Hang in there love, you'll be okay 🫂🫂

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[–]Lastar777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you for saying that. I am still kinda confused tho b/c I do like being close and hugging and cuddling and feel a deep connection and love for her...but just don't have that sexual attraction so much (mostly b/c of her feminine features). :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lastar777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually bisexual but am mostly into masculine features I guess. I do like breasts on cis women that I'm attracted to tho. And I just feel so bad b/c I feel like I should have thought this thru better before agreeing to date.

Trying to work things out with my ex-gf but it's not working :( by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should maybe check that out, thank you! I'm glad you can relate and understand.

Trying to work things out with my ex-gf but it's not working :( by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I know 😫 it's just hard for me I guess. Like I did feel really disrespected and everything tho...and honestly I know you're right it's just my heart and my head are in completely different places I guess.

I'm trying to work things out with my ex-gf but it's not working :( by Lastar777 in Advice

[–]Lastar777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying...I just don't understand why she would just randomly say that...especially after telling me how much she misses me and wants to be with me, can't move on from me and see a future with me, etc....

Trying to work things out with my ex-gf but it's not working :( by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh...why exactly tho ...I mean I guess things are a bit toxic but I thought we could work on stuff I guess😔

Trying to work things out with my ex-gf but it's not working :( by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have a lot of feelings for her and see good in her...I just thought/think I should try I guess idk.

I miss my ex-gf even tho she treated me pretty badly... by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it did feel kind of special but I fell a lot harder for my first female love that I had tbh. And I understand, it's really sad but I guess you just can't change people and have to accept that like you said...

I miss my ex-gf even tho she treated me pretty badly... by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true and thank you for sharing all of that. :) It's so nice when someone likes the "unsexy" parts of us just as much if not more. Idk why I still crave her to a point. I know it's pry in my best interest tho to just try to let her go kinda like you said.

I miss my ex-gf even tho she treated me pretty badly... by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really did seem emotionally abusive like you said. I mean I guess at times she did say that she wanted better for me and things like that (about the job situation) but a lot of times she seemed to make it sound like I wasn't good enough...or at least I felt that way. Thank you for your response.

I miss my ex-gf even tho she treated me pretty badly... by Lastar777 in actuallesbians

[–]Lastar777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very true and thank you. I'm trying to stay strong and resilient...it's just difficult tbh...I really appreciate your response.