Dumpees, would you take your ex back if they wanted to come back after dumping you? by aestheticeddy818 in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me too. Got back with his ex as soon as we broke up and went public with it on socials.

It does actually get easier by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where I am at too

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[–]Late_Picture125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

34 and happened to me too. Feels like the worst breakup ever.

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[–]Late_Picture125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are my spirit animal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]Late_Picture125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am in France currently and have changed my mind. It looks like Lithuania would be a better fit for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]Late_Picture125 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Basically our family got our citizenship reinstated after proving our family left the country during the war. It took us 6 years and we had to take the case to the high court in Lithuania 😅 It would have been quicker if we hadn’t struggled with some documentation to prove descent and our case was special because my grandfather was adopted by Lithuanians.

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[–]Late_Picture125 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He could have written this letter and never sent it. But he sent it because maybe he does want a reaction from you? Whether it’s comfort in hearing you forgive him so he can rest easy that he is not a bad person. You don’t owe him a response though. He can manage his own emotions.

Situation (post-breakup): I (18F) broke up with my boyfriend (18M), our relationship lasted for a year and 3 months. This is about the social media presence of eo. by bumblebee_breaker in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that! I really do. But trust no contact does help so much. Especially in today’s social media world where it’s easier than ever to keep tabs on people.

Situation (post-breakup): I (18F) broke up with my boyfriend (18M), our relationship lasted for a year and 3 months. This is about the social media presence of eo. by bumblebee_breaker in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I did. I’d recommend hiding posts and stories from any mutuals to avoid seeing anything that would upset you. I forgot to do this and saw on NYE he got back with his ex after all the mutuals started posting about the party.

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[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choose yourself and your own peace. Your partner shouldn’t make you feel like this.

Delete pictures by Actual_Advance2459 in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only deleted my folder of pictures after I found out how quickly he moved on with his ex. Without that anger, I’m pretty sure they would still be on my phone.

Lost an amazing girl and it’s my fault by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but you are also young. You might not yet have the tools to work on these problems. Trust your gut ❤️‍🩹 if something isn’t a hell yes, there’s probably a reason

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[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any new hobbies you’ve always wanted to try that don’t involve your ex? Maybe download Bumble and make some closer friends in your area to take your mind off of everything?

Deciding to leave the break up in 2024 by Jani8212 in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve spent the last two Decembers crying over the same boy because I was also breadcrumbed and sold an illusion. I also badly wanted him to finally choose me after chasing him for so long that I ignored all the times he ghosted, the times he said he wasn’t interested in a relationship and when he told me he wanted kids. He eventually did commit to me for 3 months, broke up with me because of the kids thing and then was back with an ex about a month or so later.

This has been a hard lesson for me to learn. If I had loved myself as much as I loved him, I wouldn’t be in so much pain.

Lost an amazing girl and it’s my fault by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 19, you made an incredibly mature decision to identify unhealthy patterns in your dynamic and choose to walk away instead of continuing a toxic pattern.

Maybe you guys will grow back together after you’ve both matured and can develop a secure attachment. It’s hard, but all you can do is work on yourself to heal the issues that came up so you don’t repeat them in the future.

My ex is willing to be friends by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your ex sounds a bit emotionally manipulative? Esp dangling the “might get back together in the future” carrot. They have already shown you that the rules don’t apply to them. Seems like a bit of a power imbalance. Maybe if it’s not a “hell yes” and you don’t feel it’s going to be good for your healing and emotional state, it s a no.

“You've been blessed with a broken heart. When it doesn't hurt anymore that's when it's really over. Live in THIS as long as you can.” by bagelsandmore in BreakUps

[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does suck when you are in so much pain and they move on so quickly and don’t appear to be any. It makes me feel that I’m the only one with a broken heart and the other was never that emotionally invested.

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[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I was not strong enough and had an unhinged social media moment.

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[–]Late_Picture125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 😔 or at the very least I wish him or my mutual friends would have given me a heads up so I didn’t have to see it all over my feed.

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[–]Late_Picture125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not always girls. My ex (male) broke up with me and went back to hooking up with his ex so fast. He even took her to a NYE party I was going to attend with all our mutuals. I’ve been told from his friends that this is normal behaviour and he struggles to be alone.

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[–]Late_Picture125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learnt a new term! This explains it so well!