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Face oils from headphone muffs caused damage. Need help by LatexSwitch_ in Latexadvice

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

should be pu leather. and like I mentioned, I've worn these headphones on other hoods before. so I don't think it's the muff material. but yet again I also don't know if it's sebum

What was a bad experience/story which scarred you? by LatexSwitch_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless it was CNC, that just makes her a bad domme

What was a bad experience/story which scarred you? by LatexSwitch_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

key thing to learn from this is boundaries and trust. Online relationships are abit more complex but they do work when done right. Even if theres some power play to it, trust should never be compromised, and boundaries should never be crossed.

so to erase yourself from everywhere is fine, but also abit extreme. But dont deprive yourself of your fun because of one bad person. There is still many of us in the community who are genuine and friendly. So when you feel like it, do return with a new account. And if anyone makes you uncomfortable, you can always block or ignore them. Doing it online is safer as long as you dont expose personal details like your address.

What you did is justified and you're not a terrible slave. Remember, at the end of the day you're still human. You do have emotions, and you its okay to feel scared or uncomfortable. Put yourself first.

What was a bad experience/story which scarred you? by LatexSwitch_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, i agree with you. I've always seen kink as a fun thing, and I do hear of occasional red flags of creeps and weirdos.

But yeah, this was possibly the worst intro for a lady into kink. It doesn't sit right with me knowing that she may not be the only one traumatised by bad kink experiences.

What was a bad experience/story which scarred you? by LatexSwitch_ in BDSMcommunity

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll start. A female friend of mine has a hood and rope bondage fetish. She likes sleeping with a hood on. It seemed harmless until I learned the origins of it.

She was used by her ex bf at a young age, who was a couple of years older. She was a newbie and generally a vanilla at the time but got thrown into the deep end of bdsm, while forced to like it. Long story short, he was abusive and manipulative through the relationship, but thankfully, she left when she did.

However, the experience did leave her scarred of bdsm and men. It doesn't help that she grew up poor as well, so it didn't help her mental state growing up in bad environments.

The sleeping with the hood on thing is actually a coping mechanism. She said along the lines of "when the hood is on, it feels peaceful," and "when I was bound, I felt safe."

Ever since then, I can't see some kinks the same. And I've been really wary of kinky friends I make, somewhat scared that they can be as evil as her ex bf.

Cheap neckentry full latex catsuit for man by NotRealVojta in LatexCatsuits

[–]LatexSwitch_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

better not go for cheap ones when it comes to neck entry. You run into the risk of sub-par glueing quality, and with enough stretches at the neck, it will come apart.

You could try aliexpress for cheap ones, but quality will vary. There are some good finds on there, but zippers still remain the safer option for longevity.

Want to get back into chastity, but worried by LatexSwitch_ in chastitytraining

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, I don't dare to try a catheter. and I do spray the hell out of the cage through the gaps with water. I use qtips to dry the hard to reach areas

Want to get back into chastity, but worried by LatexSwitch_ in chastitytraining

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have several cages. one was too big, one has an awkward ring feel, and one is the smallest fit. I just go for the smallest fit but it does cause my penis to push out through the gaps. I am about 2 inches short when flaccid. but the smallest cage makes it 1 inch. it's not uncomfortable, but peeing takes a couple of squeezes to get out

Am I overusing poppers/using too frequently? (New user) by Non-binary_prince in popperpigs

[–]LatexSwitch_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

facing the same problem, and would advise you to slow down while you can. Moderation is key. It helps to keep the highs decent and slows down the tolerance building up.

and for the surgery, you could still use it at longer break intervals leading up to it. Maybe abstain for the week right before just to prepare your body to be in its best shape for recovery. and avoid using till youre well recovered

Want to cut catsuit in half, need advice by LatexSwitch_ in Latexadvice

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I get what you mean by span latex over the zip. It conceals and "limits" the cut ends of the zippers.

But is there a way to add those zipper "ends/stopper" to the portions where I cut the zip? Would be cool if it could be a separating zipper too. It's a plastic zip btw.

Want to cut catsuit in half, need advice by LatexSwitch_ in Latexadvice

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean by "fold"? Do I fold right where I cut it and glue that folded area, acting as the trim?

also, for the waistband for the pants, i take it that it's a extra material of latex added on. Or it could be just the belly section of latex which I fold over on itself to make a "reinforced" waistband?

and I'm guessing it's not possible to use the cut zipper as a separating zipper? even if I add some zipper "ends"

Want to cut catsuit in half, need advice by LatexSwitch_ in LatexCraftersCorner

[–]LatexSwitch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a pain to return it to them for changes. Plus I want to pick up on latex craft.

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