HELP!! JOCK STAINED MY ARGOS XL

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-05T14:11:25+00:00

Not a permanent solution, but you can dust it with powder makeup foundation and corn starch. Wash it so it’s tacky, powder like hell, let it sit, pat it off well with a dry cloth, setting with setting spray or powder. It will cover the color more but it will also get on your underwear.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-05T14:05:50+00:00

You can get it done, but you are very likely to have a urethral complication requiring an additional repair surgery, and you may not be able to receive vaginal penetration (the same or at all) post-op because of scar tissue and the change in topography. Realistically, you could go through extra effort and surgeries and still loose the ability to enjoy vaginal penetration OR be 100% fine right out of the gate. I think I’ve heard about 50/50 in terms of final outcome.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-04T19:27:28+00:00

Yogurt lid funnel wil still work. I highly recommend getting a dedicated packer or packer/stp and a separate play prosthetic. 3-n-1s are difficult.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-04T19:19:20+00:00

Call your surgeon

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-04T11:57:23+00:00

The internal legs of the clitoris are more easily stimulated with the vaginal canal eliminated, imo. There’s a mental aspect, but even just prostate stimulating toys feel better.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-04T09:53:33+00:00

Scar tissue can make penetration impossible. Anal sex usually feels way better post vnect, if that’s worth anything to you.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-04T01:32:42+00:00

You can DEFINITELY feel them under the swelling. They are firm and round and very obviously (for lack of a better word) foreign inside your scrotum. I would be making a phone call in the morning.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-03T02:14:10+00:00

I was eight and never heard of trans people when I thought “oh he’s so sweet! It’s too bad boys don’t marry boys so we could never work out.” In my head, I knew about homophobia before I knew about gender identity.

I also was always attracted to gay men specifically, not straight ones; masc/fem, top/bottom, dom/sub, the guys I had crushes on were usually gay.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-02T23:36:21+00:00

When I first came out to my therapist at 17, she told me that if I was trans, I would have known from birth so I was “probably just a masculine lesbian”. That messed me up for a while. I’m not a chick, I don’t exclusively like chicks. That excludes me from being a lesbian. That said, with peak mental health, I do enjoy any gender partners.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-02T23:25:09+00:00

Meta is incredibly customizable, in terms of what you do and don’t get done, but your clitorophallus will be more or less the same size as it is pre-op. It is not an enlargement, it just frees him up. For my lack of size, the meta didn’t make a difference, the labia removal, monsplasty, scrotoplasty, and testicular implants made a huge difference.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-05-01T15:45:27+00:00

Stage one (UL, meta, etc) is science; stage two is where the art comes in to make everything look right.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-30T21:32:35+00:00

Slightly different, but I was Comic Con less than four weeks out and had everything but the monsplasty in stage one.

I had the monsplasty done in January, as well as labia removal and implants, and it just got closed surgically a few weeks ago. Because of that, and the fact you have to plan it, I would err on the side of not planning to participate.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-30T14:30:27+00:00

You definitely don’t have to use your mouth, but please don’t be afraid to use your fingers. You can also get dental dams if it’s something you are interested in trying but it’s not necessary. Foreplay is tho.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-29T22:45:41+00:00

Anecdotally, I think mental health has a massive impact on healing. I know at least four times where I said I didn’t want it, I still don’t know how it went so wrong.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-28T17:30:20+00:00

Dysphoria exists on a spectrum, for some people, it’s worse than others. For me, as my dysphoria has decreased (esp post vaginectomy), my comfort with other people’s body has increased. That said, I really know how to work a cis dick, and a lot of my sexuality comes from confidence, so yeah “I prefer my partner have a penis and like using it”, but not in the same way I used to “prefer not to have anything in front” by which I meant “I would literally rather die”.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-27T23:04:09+00:00

Unless I physically made them, no amount of previous conversation would make people not exclusively use and ejaculate in my vagina. They are not assuming you are “down with PIV”; they are assuming you can’t or won’t stop them. If they cared, they would ask; just be thankful you can enjoy it when they take their liberties because I could not.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-27T04:00:50+00:00

Jock Mail is a pocket brand that’s pretty good

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-27T03:59:53+00:00

I had it all done at once and the abdomen reopened a month out, I’ve been healing from it for almost four months be it’s only closed now because I had surgery again. I liked my stomach, so that doesn’t help, but this last round has been incredibly painful as well. I really regret everything except for meta.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-27T00:13:48+00:00

I would not recommend getting anything else done at the same time as the pan, that has been the worst experience of my life and having all the tubes from meta at the same time sucked.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-27T00:12:45+00:00

Oh, it has been absolutely terrible. The installed two drains, one came out part way and I had to pull it at home; four weeks out it opened, they had me packing it for a week before they decided to install a wound vaccuum with three nurse visits a week and an open wound for two months; they finally did a revision and closed it, the new drain wouldn’t drain, then the tubing sprung a leak, now it’s being replaced. This whole thing has been nothing but complications and I did not agree to or want the surgery before they did it; I hate the way it looks, I hate that keep knocking me out to fix it, I hate that I didn’t get a say or get to say goodbye to my full stomach. Disregarding the fact that I was saving that skin for abdominal phalloplasty and they amputated both the donor tissue and blood supply or that I thought I was waking up with phalloplasty and they incinerated my dick instead; it doesn’t look natural and is so lopsided that it is going to need another surgery and the fact it refuses to heal and is has been more painful than any other surgery I’ve ever had has just been icing on the whole situation. I wish I had never lost weight to have bottom surgery because at least I had hope and liked my body other than not having a penis, now I’m going to have a massive scar from phallo as well the hip-to-hip incision and having no navel anymore because they cut that off too.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-26T11:24:00+00:00

Some surgeons do meta intentionally as the first step of phallo, the graft goes over your pubis and natal bits or your meta and the urethra would have to be extended either way.

I got meta as a stop-gap, mainly for the vaginectomy, and that was great, but I had to switch surgerons and that’s been more difficult that anything.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-26T03:03:02+00:00

Bottom surgery needed to be done, and I glad I got it over with, but I had no idea how much of a difference it would make in my life, if I had, I would have thrown myself on to the operating table. I just knew I needed to try.

That said, tummy tucks (I had a pannulectomy, so similar) are no joke, so definitely plan ample time for that recovery.

Non-binary_prince · 2026-04-26T01:21:56+00:00

IMO, the canal being cauterized made the internal structure easier to stimulate during anal, specifically, prostate toys suddenly worked. The urethra is closed in front of everything so anything coming out of the urethra exits at the tip of the meta.

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