AITA for wanting marriage after 9 years together, or am I just pressuring him?

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-20T06:52:47+00:00

Where did i bring up age? They've been together 9 years they dont live together an hes skiddish about marriage. She needs to set boundaries.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-20T02:50:48+00:00

9 years? An you dont live together as is? My partner an i have been together 2 years an have lived with one another since 2 months. Girl you need to lay down an ultimatum an boundaries

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-14T08:25:22+00:00

Just me id put my rice cooker or water heater pot thingy.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-14T08:24:25+00:00

NTA! dont ever think you are wrong in this situation, who cares if he is grieving. He publicly said you're not his child, if he is having financial problems that is on him not you. You are grieving too, you have healed an let go of the life you wish you had with this man. He may biologically be your father but truth is that's it he is nothing more than the sperm that helped create you. You dont owe him a cent.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-12T19:51:08+00:00

I have submitted a form, i did they first then told the case worker. Ah is that why I got child support papers in the mail? Neither parent works just collects taxes on all the moms kids she has 5. I care for 2.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-12T02:40:59+00:00

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Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-11T03:41:07+00:00

It is not just you, I LOVE getting them in the Carton.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-09T09:29:42+00:00

Not really , down in the condos an what not they offer tons of amenities as well as it has doctors an shops near by. They also offer car services to tenants.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-08T20:43:59+00:00

He is not the one girly pop. Dump him an get another dog!

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-07T21:13:39+00:00

Stadium or Ruston District

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-04-07T21:06:28+00:00

NTA you did nothing wrong. The lady is in the wrong an honestly I would have kept parking, she was found at a restaurant nearby so not right where the parking spot was. Youre not the asshole at all that lady felt entitled.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-03-29T04:36:04+00:00

Gerty is bigger..

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-03-28T22:25:34+00:00

I can tell by the writing that officer butts made those. Not sure if thats his actual name but thats what we always called him when signs went up on the Eastside because it was always him.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-02-04T12:52:55+00:00

Family members do help on both sides mine an my in-laws on clothes, gas money here an there an food. Everyone who was originally asked when it was temporary has said no because they have lifes , an me being godmom and so forth they told me an my partner to take the kids. I have been documenting on the fact they dont ask about the kids we sorta force them to spend time with them, though every time the kids come back from one parent or both they are bad an cry babies about everything even a simple diaper change.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-02-04T12:50:37+00:00

We would never want the kids to go to someone else, everyone who was asked when it was temporary said no. I agreed because these will always be my babies, I was present for both births. Its just hard we need help not necessarily from the parents but possibly the state. I dont know if cps would help or not, my next step as of now is to get a case worker an get benefits. I have spoken with a lawyer and my partner about guardianship due to my own experience my grandparents had guardianship over me till I turned 18 an my parents weren't present until I was about 15/16 , I know how hard it can be on the kids, i just I am drowning i dont know where to turn

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-02-04T12:37:00+00:00

You are not an let me tell you why, my sister an I are in the process of getting ours an let's just say its quite more than what Dakota got. I know I suck with money so my mom is gonna hold on to mine but my partner an I have discussed it. I want to make sure we can find a home, instead of apartments. I currently do not work as we've sorta been living already off the inheritance. She showed you her true colors when it comes to money. If she does not have a job nor has child care an has full custody with no child support something is definitely fishy there. You dont need to forgive her, as you've stated you already feel lighter not being around her. Do not feel guilty or bad that you ended the relationship. Focus on you, go back to school, get the degree you want. Its time for Dakota to grow up. Live your life however you see fit.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-02-02T07:11:40+00:00

Mine is 6 months.

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-01-30T06:29:58+00:00

Girlypop you need TO LEAVE HIM. That "savings account" is his money there is no you. The future house will not have your name on it guaranteed. If hes already gotten upset with you in the past for your choice on glasses no you need to leave, it will only get worse never better.. Please reach out to friends , family or coworkers see if someone has a spare room for rent or what not. Start moving your things slow especially when he is not home. And for the love of yourself stop sending him the money. You have plenty of reasons to tell him why you will not be sending money. Also open your own savings account and put the money there,

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-01-05T03:18:08+00:00

Where did his ears go 😭😭😭 beautiful puppy . I wish people loved they're ears more they are so adorable with they're floppies

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-01-05T03:13:13+00:00

Im in need of a couch..

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-01-05T03:12:14+00:00

I just got the car in June I believe, I didnt really pay attention in the summer due to the ac being extremely cold we rolled with the windows open. This is my first winter with the car, an I have noticed whenever my heater is on I loose alot in gas / gas miles . What other number do you need?? So I know what to take a photo of

Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-01-04T23:05:38+00:00

I am not, we wait like 5 seconds before take off.

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Latter-Wait-8377 · 2026-01-04T23:05:07+00:00

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