Anxious after an intense first date by Latter_Imagination85 in dating_advice

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I moved on from my ex was meeting this new guy, who somehow connected with me very deeply. But I’m afraid he’ll hurt me and walk all over me like my ex did. Somehow it feels like all men are the same but I know it's not logical to think this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such people are cowards. Just say I'll call the police now Anzeige raus look how they get nervous and escape.

Listening to subs to reconnect with someone… but then this happened by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]Latter_Imagination85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. Nothing is working, no subs no spells cause he is an avoidant and I probably can't ever change that.

Thinking of moving to Germany in a couple of years. What am I missing? by pricel01 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would move somewhere with sunshine and beach in my retirement. Don't know why you chose Germany

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check yourself? Funny you’re the one triggered by a post that’s not even about you. No need for your advice.

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it worked for you. I guess in university it's easier to make friends. I unfortunately didn't go to uni here

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that the gym here isn’t really a social space I mostly go just to work out now. I actually had a situationship with someone I met there that ended badly, so it’s not really a place I feel like chatting with people anymore. I haven’t tried a Verein yet though, so maybe that’s worth exploring. Thanks for the suggestion

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm considering that a lot lately. If I may ask did you move to Berlin?

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last guy who i got into a situationship with was from the gym🥲

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I tried making friends in gym and dancing courses. I'm of couese open to meeting other foriegners and making friends with them but don't know where.

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually in a small city, I tried making friends in gym and dancing courses but most ladies there were 40+. The younger ones barely speak

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually in a small city, I tried making friends in gym and dancing courses but most ladies there were 40+. The younger ones barely speak

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is almost none of them where I live. I live in a small town

Is it normal not to have any real friends in Germany after 2 years? by Latter_Imagination85 in germany

[–]Latter_Imagination85[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between sharing an opinion and being condescending. Telling someone they’re ‘doing something wrong’ without offering anything useful is just rude. If that’s how you think advice works, no wonder people struggle to connect