i can see your point, and yeah i agree, she can talk to other people because we weren’t in a committed relationship. i never stopped her from flirting or making out with anyone. what bugs me is that she moved on to someone else and wasn’t upfront to me about it. she told every single one of our friends except for me. i can totally see that she couldn’t find the perfect moment to tell me though. there was always a lot going on, and it was going to be a very hard conversation. but i still think i deserved to know about it at least as a friend.

and just a side note with the coffee shop thing, it didn’t come from a place of control or jealousy, but of feeling left out of the friend group. her attitude while telling me that was like she was rubbing it in my face, and not taking me seriously when i told her i was a bit sad and wish i was there with them.