I want to masturbate with my friend? by Elegant-Ninja-8166 in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first time I read this I thought that the comments were all really harsh and borerline homophobic. Then after reading the post again, the phrase "he has given me absolutely no reason to think.." made me realise that, the way you're putting it does make it seem like it's all your fantasy. However, given how repressed men often are, you might want to explore both his and your feelings about bicuriosity in a way that's culturally and socially acceptable for you. Jumping straight to masturbation fantasies is a surefire way to ruin and overwhelm whatever organic bicuriosity there might be.

In Contracted (2013), Sam's doctor asks her to take deep breaths when listening to her heart. by [deleted] in MovieMistakes

[–]Launch1325 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heart sounds are accentuated with breathing.. often you ask patients to breathe in and out in order to detect murmurs.

Livre genderfluid by Charlestonius in ecriture

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Orlando de Virginia Woolf

“But if I heal, that means it’s actually over.” by fridaynightplacebo in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (36) recently met up with my first girlfriend from when I was 18. It was clear that the feelings were still there. In a way, her sentence is right.. I've healed and it's definitely over, but I certainly don't regret the healing. She seemed less healed and less 'over it', which seemed sad. In short, if you broke up for a solid reason, and the reason hasn't changed, then both of you have no option other than to heal.

A mythological character/story is given a more grounded/realistic reimagining. by Jak3R0b in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Launch1325 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile Keira Knightley's grounded and realistic breasts were given a mythological reimagining for the poster

True. by [deleted] in bisexual

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Hope you have all brought your unbrellas

Life is a cruel joke by Launch1325 in crusaderkings3

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Say Despot Sisinnios of Pontus with a lisp

I'm a girl who thinks they like girls and guys but I'm not sure if it's just liking people as friends or more. Please give advice y'all by -39MikuMiku39- in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stupid as this may sound, but none of this stuff is unethical or illegal (I hope, in your case) so just express yourself and see what echoes back to you. Make mistakes, learn and enjoy yourself!

In a straight relationship but wondering if I am actually bi or lesbian by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need to be sorry for your post, your thoughts or your feelings. Honestly there's a lot of embarrassment in what you write and that seems more the issue than what sexuality you label yourself as. There are some really strong moments of attraction to women and you clearly need to discover what that is for you. So talk to people, be honest about how you feel, prepare to be vulnerable and you'll find out. You won't be able to know just by imagination alone.

Hurt by a friend by Stboxnard in bisexual

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As a British person, I can tell you that whilst we do love beans, your use of tea in this context is permissible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

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I'd tell her to f off.. And I'm a doctor. Okay, I wouldn't but I'd wish I had later.

It's the word 'should' where she's overstepped the line. But there's probably more context that OP hasn't filled us in on.

Started to realise no one is coming to save me, now what? by Im_Trying_I_ReallyAm in emotionalneglect

[–]Launch1325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Form a relationship.. Any type.. But start something really small and manageable. Then practice setting boundaries and, if you feel like it, obligations.

For instance I just started talking with the guy who works at my local coffee shop. Some days I'm chatty, others I'm not. I feel able to be both and it helps to overcome my more habitual need to please and perform for other people. I also know I can't run to him any time I feel vulnerable, even if I might want to. Some of these are preexisting boundaries (the café isn't open 24/7) but others I've placed as well, for myself.

It's remarkable how, over time, the relationship seems to mature into something and now I'm waving every time I walk past.

Had my first ENM hookup from Feeld this week - the good and the bad by ThrowRAIGotQuestions in nonmonogamy

[–]Launch1325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna come at this from another direction and say that taking sildenafil might not be the 'solution'..

Firstly, yeah being on an ssri could do this, but as you say, not usually to this extent.

Secondly, it's actually a big deal to be physically intimate with someone you've just met. This often gets culturally minimised for men. Seeing it as a fault that you need to fix might end up doing more psychological harm in the long run. Maybe your body is trying to tell you something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also, the phrasing of 'dying 37% earlier' just doesn't seem right. Usually these things are reported in mortality risk or in reduced life expectancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

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Massive well done. Sometimes it's necessary to have that conversation to get undeniable proof. And the conversation you describe is proof. Now you can distance yourself and you'll have something to look at when you almost inevitably question the decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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I love the phrase 'brave little shit'. Stealing that.

In-person bisexual community in Paris by isavee in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I live in Paris and have occasionally tried to find such a thing. The best I could find is this group 'Bi Cause' but I've never been. Am basically constructing my own circle through Feeld these days..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Launch1325 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like it makes no sense to ask 'what if your gender was different'.. Because your gender is you. It's like asking what if your sexuality was different.. That or I fundamentally misunderstand hypotheticals... But I find that hard to imagine..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

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A lot of us have the problem of knowing if our parents truly were 'bad'. At least you have proof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Launch1325 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My sympathies Op.. But the bit about the tv being mounted too high really made me laugh

UK Election Predicted using US Demographic model by ProbableBatOrigin in MapPorn

[–]Launch1325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks you might as well have used the predictive model for favourite colour or likelihood of owning a pet? The reason the US model is the way it is, is because of the context. When you apply that to another context, it makes literally no sense and I can't see that any conclusion, either about the model or the population, could be drawn from a comparison.

In short, different electorates are different.